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Good for you guys on your second thread. I lurked in the first one, and it cleared some misconceptions i had about gays being in a relationship. For some reason i always thought that gays have it easier at relationship than straights. Mainly because gay men don´t have to deal with periods and pregnancy, and that men would understand the sex drive and lust that men always have. I thought the same thing about lesbians as well, mainly because they would understand what they go through during pregnancy and periods, and are more understanding to each others needs.

I wanted to ask about these things before but i was scared that you guys might take it the wrong way.

I still have some questions though, not about these issues, but about long time relationship and adoption, and in case they split who gets the kids/house.
 
I wanted to ask about these things before but i was scared that you guys might take it the wrong way.

I still have some questions though, not about these issues, but about long time relationship and adaption, and in case they split who gets the kids/house.
I'm sure that's handled the same way as in any other relation. One of the parents has custody (if they're the biological parent) or he/she has to claim custody.
 
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I want all of them!!!

Yaay new thread etc etc :D
 
Good for you guys on your second thread. I lurked in the first one, and it cleared some misconceptions i had about gays being in a relationship. For some reason i always thought that gays have it easier at relationship than straights.

I still think this is the case, men are so easy to please.

"just suck his dick, play with his balls fix him a sandwich and don't talk so much"

hi5 if you know where I got that quote from
 
Well nice thread and not late to the party this time.

Furr >>> smooth every day if the week. But of course it's all what you're attracted to. :)

if said Fur is trimmed and clean, absolutely. If just left "au naturelle" with patches everywhere and nasty,uneven hairgrowth all over then hell no, far better to get a smoothie.

Where do you draw a line between being gay and simply liking men?

doesn't not apply to me but I'd say...

imagine you want to skate.

you can either get roller skates or ice skates, something tells you Ice skating will be more fun, you try it and you notice you absolutely love it and go there and do it periodically, maybe even take lessons, thing is, that's how you like to skate.

at times, because you see friends or advertising, you imagine roller skating could also be fun. You try it and it is fun but not something you'll change ice skating for or something you identify very much with, just regular fun with no further changes in how you perceive skating.

when asked, did you like roller skating? most likely you'd say "yeah, it was fun" but if the question ensued " oh, so you now coming out as roller skater? and leaving ice for good? " the answer would be " hell no, it's fun once in a while in a hot sommer day, but I really can live without it and actually I don't see me there doing it often."

you could ask now "well, doesn't that make him a regular Bi"

well it depends. if the fun he has rollerskating is circumstancial (weather was nice, street was nice, friends were there, ) or directly related to doing roller skating.

My point being, people can have some degree of sexual or erotic fun with people of the gender they don't prefer and that doesn't make them bi. Maybe that's the case of this guy.
 
ever had that moment when the clearly gay guy at work announces that he's getting married to a woman and there's an awkward silence as everyone looks at each other in astonishment?

'cos I had that on Friday and you could have heard a pin drop.
 
if said Fur is trimmed and clean, absolutely. If just left "au naturelle" with patches everywhere and nasty,uneven hairgrowth all over then hell no, far better to get a smoothie.

Smooth guys don't get my dick hard. Especially if they are built like the typical twink "pre-pubescent" type. They remind me of that anyway. I like a guy that looks like he just came back in from repairing the ranch fences, like he is getting ready to grab a tall beer and work on the Harley in the garage.

For me, secondary sexual characteristics play a large part in attraction.
 
Feels good to sub to the new thread. :)

It would be nice if some people who haven't posted in a long time or new posters would post more regularly in this thread compared to the last one - I know that just because we share a sexual orientation and an interest in games it doesn't mean we're actually that alike, but we are likely to share similar experiences and have some good stories to share. Post MOAR.

I think the tag is extraneous, but w/e.
Pretty much. Love you Del, but not the thread title.

I still think this is the case, men are so easy to please.
I'm not sure I agree with you completely, there are some crazy bastards out there, and whilst the stereotype is that woman are clingy and needy - I find men can be just as likely to be 'difficult'. Same goes for sex drive - I've known some guys with a low sex drive, which suprised me. I had always thought my fellow men were lusty fiends like me.

But then again, I would say all this because I dislike gender stereotypes, yay!
 
Yeah sorry for the lame thread title. Was my poor attempt at a joke there but I was not feeling any of the other suggestions. Ah well.
 
Feels good to sub to the new thread. :)

It would be nice if some people who haven't posted in a long time or new posters would post more regularly in this thread compared to the last one - I know that just because we share a sexual orientation and an interest in games it doesn't mean we're actually that alike, but we are likely to share similar experiences and have some good stories to share. Post MOAR.

Sorry, I'm used to lurking, its a hard habit to break :P
 
Yay new thread! I'll be sure to post more and bring my fair share of fur, bellies and various assortments of growls and woofs :D

So I learned last night that flintstones vitamens provide similar results to pineapple. After seeing my BF's face night before last on his first attempt to swallow I'm just going to have to invest in a bottle just for him lol. He's inherently not a fan of it but he's willing to try it a few more times.

Getting the cocksling tonight, can't wait!
 
Whelp. Of course you put up the new thread after I've got to bed Del. Sorry for the wall of quotes people.

The "tag" does certainly make the thread male-centric. It's a shame we never talk to the girls.

It's why I was cheering for a more neutral title in the last thread. But what is done is done. I, for one, welcome our new lesbian overlords.

I still think this is the case, men are so easy to please.

"just suck his dick, play with his balls fix him a sandwich and don't talk so much"

hi5 if you know where I got that quote from

I'm with you on this one. While I certainly don't doubt there are going to be guys that are every bit as difficult as girls, from my experiences there's a lot less social stigma for embracing sexual activity earlier in a relationship with guys.

Though, there are some guys who act pretty much like women. I suppose the benefit is they don't get the hormonal mood swings though.

My point being, people can have some degree of sexual or erotic fun with people of the gender they don't prefer and that doesn't make them bi. Maybe that's the case of this guy.

I think it also depends on your perspective of sexuality. From a psychological standpoint, engaging in same-sex behaviour would make you bisexual irregardless of how you feel on the matter. Granted, that perspective generally dismisses a lot of the social perceptions of sexuality and compresses it down to just actions (as that's the only thing that can be observed).

And, well, not everyone's a psychologist so that definition doesn't really hold a lot of sway for the general public.

ever had that moment when the clearly gay guy at work announces that he's getting married to a woman and there's an awkward silence as everyone looks at each other in astonishment?

'cos I had that on Friday and you could have heard a pin drop.

Haha, I remember this new teacher I had in high school where most of us assumed he was gay until he had an accident pruning his trees and was telling us how his wife and kids reacted to the metal plate installed into his leg. I do remember looking at my friends and we all shared the "well that was unexpected" look.

You read my mind.

Where do you live. These things can really suck for small towns.

(From the last thread)

I do live in a smaller city. But I have it mentioned in my profile which is what baffles me when I get messages asking how often I go to the city or if I plan on moving there. I do plan on moving, but I didn't put that on my profile since I didn't think it would be relevant. Do that many people really expect a guy to just up and leave for a dating prospect?
 
Yay new thread! I'll be sure to post more and bring my fair share of fur, bellies and various assortments of growls and woofs :D

So I learned last night that flintstones vitamens provide similar results to pineapple. After seeing my BF's face night before last on his first attempt to swallow I'm just going to have to invest in a bottle just for him lol. He's inherently not a fan of it but he's willing to try it a few more times.

Getting the cocksling tonight, can't wait!

You will have to share how you like that sling.


So guys I pretty much have promised sex when I go to california for holiday this august. The problem I have is that normally I want some type of connection there. (People on skype know this). Its not eating at me yet but I feel as it gets closer I will start bugging out.

I want the sex though as im going for a fucking long haul after holding out those years to see my aussie boy. How do I deal if the nagging feeling comes up?
 
So guys I pretty much have promised sex when I go to california for holiday this august. The problem I have is that normally I want some type of connection there. (People on skype know this). Its not eating at me yet but I feel as it gets closer I will start bugging out.

I want the sex though as im going for a fucking long haul after holding out those years to see my aussie boy. How do I deal if the nagging feeling comes up?

errr... eh?

Are you becoming a gigolo Del?

If you weren't feeling it, why did you promise anything? Are you having second thoughts about going through with it? I, personally, don't require closeness for casual sex but if you're still thinking about going through with it, I would suggest not trying to worry so much about it. Worst case scenario you could always have a few drinks to relax?
 
You will have to share how you like that sling.


So guys I pretty much have promised sex when I go to california for holiday this august. The problem I have is that normally I want some type of connection there. (People on skype know this). Its not eating at me yet but I feel as it gets closer I will start bugging out.

I want the sex though as im going for a fucking long haul after holding out those years to see my aussie boy. How do I deal if the nagging feeling comes up?

Are you sure this is really what you want, Del? Tell me if I'm wrong, but I kind of get the impression that your forcing yourself.

If it is what you want, tell that nagging voice that you made the choice to get some happiness. That the current method wasn't working out.
 
errr... eh?

Are you becoming a gigolo Del?

If you weren't feeling it, why did you promise anything? Are you having second thoughts about going through with it? I, personally, don't require closeness for casual sex but if you're still thinking about going through with it, I would suggest not trying to worry so much about it. Worst case scenario you could always have a few drinks to relax?

No gigolo for me. I just met a nice guy on TC and we have gotten to know each other and he pretty much wants me. I promised it because I'm just tired of the no sex and I just want some. Maybe a few drinks can push it back.


Are you sure this is really what you want, Del? Tell me if I'm wrong, but I kind of get the impression that your forcing yourself.

If it is what you want, tell that nagging voice that you made the choice to get some happiness. That the current method wasn't working out.

In a sense I am forcing myself but only to be more open to casual sex. It's tough since i'm always the romantic "Make him smile with cute gifts and doing nice things" type of guy.
 
Ill of course post impressions. Hopefully I'll like it more than the cock ring which I pretty much gave to my BF.

Had a customer straight up hit on me and my coworker the other day. Technically its sexual harrassment but since we agg it on its more for comedy. The guy is very hot as well (5'5", ex marine, bald/goatee, slight belly, glorious ass) so its a bit hard to stay professional which doesn't happen anyway in such a laid back office.

The moment he comes in he asks my coworker to sit on his face (she's apparently heard crazier from him). He then looks at me and says "...hmmm, haven't had dick in a while, how u doin? Bet I'd walk funny after a go with you".

Apparently its mostly in jest, but there's definitely some modicrum of possibility that he's serious which is cool yet creepy. I really think him and his wife are swingers.

Best part:

"My BF and I don't really play well with others"
"Oh, he can come along too! You can hit me from both ends"

:o :o :D :o :|
 
No gigolo for me. I just met a nice guy on TC and we have gotten to know each other and he pretty much wants me. I promised it because I'm just tired of the no sex and I just want some. Maybe a few drinks can push it back.

In a sense I am forcing myself but only to be more open to casual sex. It's tough since i'm always the romantic "Make him smile with cute gifts and doing nice things" type of guy.

Well, if you've been hitting things off in TC, doesn't that count as a connection? How long are you going to be in California?

I don't know if I want to encourage something that you may feel you're forcing. I guess my suggestion would be if you want to go through with it, give it a try but don't feel like you have to commit to anything. If you aren't comfortable with it, remember that you can always stop whenever you need to.

Have you mentioned this to the guy?
 
It would be nice if some people who haven't posted in a long time or new posters would post more regularly in this thread compared to the last one - I know that just because we share a sexual orientation and an interest in games it doesn't mean we're actually that alike, but we are likely to share similar experiences and have some good stories to share. Post MOAR.

I'd post more but I really don't have many relevant stories to talk about >.>
 
Ill of course post impressions. Hopefully I'll like it more than the cock ring which I pretty much gave to my BF.

Had a customer straight up hit on me and my coworker the other day. Technically its sexual harrassment but since we agg it on its more for comedy. The guy is very hot as well (5'5", ex marine, bald/goatee, slight belly, glorious ass) so its a bit hard to stay professional which doesn't happen anyway in such a laid back office.

The moment he comes in he asks my coworker to sit on his face (she's apparently heard crazier from him). He then looks at me and says "...hmmm, haven't had dick in a while, how u doin? Bet I'd walk funny after a go with you".

Apparently its mostly in jest, but there's definitely some modicrum of possibility that he's serious which is cool yet creepy. I really think him and his wife are swingers.

Best part:

"My BF and I don't really play well with others"
"Oh, he can come along too! You can hit me from both ends"

:o :o :D :o :|

See if he's serious, and if he is, you should take him up on his offer.
 
Ill of course post impressions. Hopefully I'll like it more than the cock ring which I pretty much gave to my BF.

Had a customer straight up hit on me and my coworker the other day. Technically its sexual harrassment but since we agg it on its more for comedy. The guy is very hot as well (5'5", ex marine, bald/goatee, slight belly, glorious ass) so its a bit hard to stay professional which doesn't happen anyway in such a laid back office.

The moment he comes in he asks my coworker to sit on his face (she's apparently heard crazier from him). He then looks at me and says "...hmmm, haven't had dick in a while, how u doin? Bet I'd walk funny after a go with you".

Apparently its mostly in jest, but there's definitely some modicrum of possibility that he's serious which is cool yet creepy. I really think him and his wife are swingers.

Best part:

"My BF and I don't really play well with others"
"Oh, he can come along too! You can hit me from both ends"

:o :o :D :o :|

Where....where do you work?
 
2 months ago I so would. I would take him into the break room and wear him out!

But I'm trying that monogamy thing for now, and my guy is definitely not a fan of open relationships. Naturally I respect that.

Then again closed relationships have their perks too, which we tried the other night. Sogood.jpg
 
Had a customer straight up hit on me and my coworker the other day. Technically its sexual harrassment but since we agg it on its more for comedy. The guy is very hot as well (5'5", ex marine, bald/goatee, slight belly, glorious ass) so its a bit hard to stay professional which doesn't happen anyway in such a laid back office.

The moment he comes in he asks my coworker to sit on his face (she's apparently heard crazier from him). He then looks at me and says "...hmmm, haven't had dick in a while, how u doin? Bet I'd walk funny after a go with you".

Do not want.

I might be a little concerned for your co-worker. Is she really okay with this or is she just saying that to be nice? This man's behaviour sounds really questionable.

Edit - But if everyone's okay with that then that's okay. You can keep laughing at/with him.
 
Omg gaf on an old blackberry is terribad. Quote/edit doesn't work, so apologies for multiple posts :P

I work at a title loan office. You get your fair share of eccentrics but I never imagined stuff like that.

I guess to keep the post relevent here's another funny story that happened the other day. So my BF gets out of the shower and comes out to the rec room walking odd, kinda like he was manhandled by a narwhale or something. Turns out he put on the cockring I gave him although on the tightest snap. There's 5 levels on this band. I can do 2 max hard maybe 3 flaccid. he went to 5 flaccid hence the hilarious gait in his step. Thankfully wearing it correctly he loosened it up to 1 hard.
 
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