Don't abuse it.What are white people's thoughts on having a privilege?
That's because we don't follow through.People don't have to be activists but the idea that if we just treat everyone equally shit will be okay has been proven to be false and naive.
Don't abuse it.
That's because we don't follow through.
Look, I can't un-fuck society. I'd like to be able to, but some shit is beyond even the powers of the Great and Powerful GungHo. What I can do, however, is not be a prick and tell people when I see them being pricks that they're being pricks and why what they're doing is prickish. I can vote for people who aren't pricks. I can buy from merchants who aren't pricks or who don't donate to pricks (check my card statements... not a charge to Chick-fil-a in years!). I can donate to anti-prick causes. Now, you can holler at me and say it's not good enough, and I'm sorry if it's not, but that's what I can do. Like you say, not everyone can be activists. You don't want me stumping for you, because I'll eventually lose my shit on some white supremacist and then you'll have gotten no where. Trust me, you want me in a support role.
true that. Ive been eyeballed and stared down in so many places of business. Ive had restaurant staff stare my ass down like I didnt belong.
A gym I worked at, I had people looking at me with total suspicion whenever I'd come out of the storage closet, they assumed I was up to no good. pissed me the fuck off.
A clean cut white guy doesnt have to put up with that shit.
true that. Ive been eyeballed and stared down in so many places of business. Ive had restaurant staff stare my ass down like I didnt belong.White people get the benefit of the doubt.
thanks. sorry for being a dick in that other thread.Edited out my previous response to you, I don't need to put my personal bullshit in this thread. Sorry for that, not apologizing because I am scared of mods. It's an apology to you, that sounds kind of soft but w/e.
Don't abuse it.
That's because we don't follow through.
Look, I can't un-fuck society. I'd like to be able to, but some shit is beyond even the powers of the Great and Powerful GungHo. What I can do, however, is not be a prick and tell people when I see them being pricks that they're being pricks and why what they're doing is prickish. I can vote for people who aren't pricks. I can buy from merchants who aren't pricks or who don't donate to pricks (check my card statements... not a charge to Chick-fil-a in years!). I can donate to anti-prick causes. Now, you can holler at me and say it's not good enough, and I'm sorry if it's not, but that's what I can do. Like you say, not everyone can be activists. You don't want me stumping for you, because I'll eventually lose my shit on some white supremacist and then you'll have gotten no where. Trust me, you want me in a support role.
thanks. sorry for being a dick in that other thread.
water under the bridge.
Here's one thing white people can do, stop voting Republican!
Minorities kiss white ass it's not even funny (b/c white people are good by default, duh!).
White people get the benefit of the doubt.
White people who are confronted with their white privilege and the white supremacist acts they perpetuate have been known to cry, Youre being a reverse-racist! That is completely true: people of color have the power and control to create, perpetuate, and maintain brutal systematic reverse-racism that oppresses white people every day. As such, we have created this handy list on how to continue this oppression.
1. Enslave their bodies.
Ship them from Germany, Sweden, and other exotic countries. Force them to build entire cities, roads, bridges. Force them to plant and harvest all the food everyone eats. Let an entire economic system be built on their backs, with their blood and sweat. Later, deny them access to the system they have been used to build, and accuse them of being extremely lazy.
2. Steal their land.
If they were here before you, steal their land. This is essential. Basically, just go in there and take it. If you have to kill some of them to get it no worries. If you have to kill almost all of them to get it shit, no worries. After you steal their land, make sure you create laws to keep them from ever returning to it. If they try to return anyway, build fences, and let bands of POC vigilantes patrol the borders with guns. If they somehow get past the borders and into your country, no worries, you can always just deport them.
3. Enslave their minds.
From these systems, build a long lasting institution of reverse-racism until all the violence and microaggressions make many white people into suspicious people with a lot of internalized self-hatred, health problems, and mental illnesses. Then deny them access to adequate mental health care. Or, adequate health care of any kind, while youre at it. Cause, you know, fuck em.
4. Wipe out and/or appropriate their customs.
Since many of their customs are savage and unworthy of preserving, wipe out their traditions of eating mashed potatoes and meatloaf, playing miniature golf, buying khakis at Banana Republic, and sleeping with thousand-count Egyptian cotton sheets. For the customs you think are kinda cool, culturally appropriate from them. Sometimes wear a beret and lederhosen, because Swedish culture is really exotic even though its inferior to ours.
5. Break their espresso machines.
With baseball bats or large hammers. Or, you know, just unplug them all.
6. Call them cracker.
As people of color, we have been rightfully accused of being racist to white people, especially when we call them cracker. As we all know, calling them cracker is egregiously offensive and horribly shocking because of this long, violent, reverse-racist history.
7. Just keep being terrible to them.
Do everything you can think of to make it so that white people make less money; their children are shot by cops; white women are at higher risk for assault and they are exotified until they no longer seem human; white men are beaten and thrown into jails because they look suspicious and threatening; they are racially profiled everywhere they go.
8. Make sure most representations of them in the media are negative.
They should almost always be portrayed as pasty, stringy-haired, rhythm-less, sexless, uptight, and booooring. Also, there should be very few representations of them and when theyre portrayed at all, they should always only be the comic relief, the silent exotic sex object, the Debbie Downer, or the incompetent sidekick. They are only allowed to be easily forgettable, one-dimensional characters. Sometimes use POC actors in white-face to portray these white people. By presenting this ONE image of them all the time, you will be able to convince the rest of the population that all white people are like this, thus ensuring a widespread belief in their inferiority.
9. Keep telling them how beautiful they are not.
White people know they will never be beautiful with their boring sour cream complexions and blonde hair (that was actually caused because of mutations). Plaster people of color on every magazine, show them in every television show and movie, and praise them as the most beautiful. When white people cry at these injustices, bottle their tears and sell them as health creams for people of color. Nothing like a soothing lotion made from the pain of white folks!
10. Go bananas!
Force them underground and away from the sun to become even whiter, while you laugh manically like the cruel, bloodthirsty, oppressive person of color you are! Take their thousand-count Egyptian cotton sheets to make POC-supremacist flags and hoods and march through the streets, spreading fear and terror. Every time a white person thinks your behavior is unfair or wrong, tell them that they should stop being so sensitive! We live in a post-reverse-racial society now! Jeez.
I personally can't stand the term Reverse Racism but....[kinda do think the term works in this comic though]![]()
"White people are privileged and .... <blank>"
And what? Judging by peoples reactions, many are assuming "and they should feel bad", or even "and they should have it taken away". But that's not really the goal of this, right? No one wants people to feel guilty or to tear white people down in the name of equality. What we really want to build up minorities so they aren't starting life with such a shitty hand. So why isn't that part of the message?
I'm sure people want to spread awareness of the situation. But awareness to what end, exactly? All it does is try to create awareness of what the problem is. But no were is even the seed of an idea of how to fix the problem. Instead the assumptions listed above fill in the missing space. Even if I accept white privilege, I wouldn't know what to do except shrug and say "that sucks, bro"
1. "Being white is a privilege!"
2. ???
3.Profit!Racism is over!
It's been said earlier in the thread, but the goal of raising awareness about white privilege is empathy.
Yeah nothing says empathy like stereotyping an entire disparate group of people - from the poorest of the poor barely surviving in Appalachia, to walmart greeters, to disabled veterans, to uninsured dying from curable diseases, to school teachers, to wage slaves, to CEO's, to senators - as being unfairly privelidged all in the name of breaking down stereotypes.It's been said earlier in the thread, but the goal of raising awareness about white privilege is empathy.
I personally can't stand the term Reverse Racism but....[kinda do think the term works in this comic though]![]()
Yeah nothing says empathy like stereotyping an entire disparate group of people - from the poorest of the poor barely surviving in Appalachia, to walmart greeters, to disabled veterans, to uninsured dying from curable diseases, to school teachers, to wage slaves, to CEO's, to senators - as being unfairly privelidged all in the name of breaking down stereotypes.
I just don't see how you can think that a kid born into a house with more people than rooms and without indoor plumbing is privelidged.
White privelage is a thing.
I've never experienced it, personally. Given my job and area of study, I'd likely find a lot more doors opening for me as a black woman than a white man.
Librarian and library science respectively, BTW.
White privelage is a thing.
I've never experienced it, personally. Given my job and area of study, I'd likely find a lot more doors opening for me as a black woman than a white man.
Librarian and library science respectively, BTW.
Really? Do you live in a house or an apartment? What's your neighborhood like? If it's an apartment building what does your building's racial make up look like?
There was a great documentary from 1991 called True Colors - Racial Discrimination in Everyday Life. It's not that long, about 20 minutes. I think it's worth a watch if you really think you absolutely haven't benefited from white privilege in your life. Part 1 Part 2
Very good post.edit
Technically in the last panel he`s right, he did get himself up there by climbing up.
Have the other guy find someone to climb up![]()
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Nice post, CrushDance.
Perhaps "abnormal" in that it shouldn't be the norm, but it's absolutely "normal" in that it is in line with or helps to explain the very real statistical disparities between the races.
See? Now there's some nuance.
So what IS the point of this PSA? If it's not to instill guilt, then...? Is it to get the privileged to speak up for the underprivileged? If that's the point, it's woefully ineffective in that goal.
I still live with my parents who are broke because I'm broke. They just recently bought a house for the first time and I live with them while paying rent. I've lived in apartments my entire life - sometimes in good neighborhoods, sometimes in bad ones. I've been pulled over once in my life. Cop gave me a ticket - no whiteboy secret handshake or anything, I just got a ticket.
But yeah, I really don't think I've benefited from it. I realize that probably sounds woefully naive to you, but it's the truth as far as I can tell. It's not really something I argue about.
^^ and all of the above would have a harder life if they were black. Did you read the OP and/or do you not know any poor black people?Yeah nothing says empathy like stereotyping an entire disparate group of people - from the poorest of the poor barely surviving in Appalachia, to walmart greeters, to disabled veterans, to uninsured dying from curable diseases, to school teachers, to wage slaves, to CEO's, to senators - as being unfairly privelidged all in the name of breaking down stereotypes.
I just don't see how you can think that a kid born into a house with more people than rooms and without indoor plumbing is privelidged.
His meaning is that people consistently use one another to climb the socio-economic ladder, which is true. We all use someone, whether we're aware of it or not.
Really? Do you live in a house or an apartment? What's your neighborhood like? If it's an apartment building what does your building's racial make up look like?
There was a great documentary from 1991 called True Colors - Racial Discrimination in Everyday Life. It's not that long, about 20 minutes. I think it's worth a watch if you really think you absolutely haven't benefited from white privilege in your life. Part 1 Part 2
I have a healthy fear of the police, as I believe everyone should. If you see a man walking toward your car with a gun at his hip, you'd have to be a lemming or have the naivitee of a child to not have some degree of fear.Did you fear for your life? Many black people do. Being pulled over by the police is a stressful situation for anyone. But blacks are aware of the empirical and anecdotal evidence that shows they have much more to fear during the average traffic stop than whites. Research shows that the stress caused by racism actually shortens the lives of black people when other factors are controlled for:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8PqLiGIXjjE&feature=player_embedded
Being spared from this life-shortening threat and not even being aware that you received this benefit, that's white privilege.
I agree. It's not behavior anyone would like to encourage.Right, except that it is weird to encourage black people to "find their own leapfrog", even as a joke.
I have a healthy fear of the police, as I believe everyone should. If you see a man walking toward your car with a gun at his hip, you'd have to be a lemming or have the naivitee of a child to not have some degree of fear.
It's a bizarre issue, really. The world is a vast, diverse, oft ambiguous place. Sometimes whites will be born into a world without privilege, sometimes blacks will be born into the lap of luxury. It's not as simple as calling one group inherently privileged and one group inherently disadvantaged. There are mitigating factors. The numbers skew, as they are wont to do, but nothing about the concept of "white privilege" is absolute.
I'd not like to be colored as someone who denies the existence of it - it's real, and it's powerful. I'm just saying I haven't reaped the benefits from it. Outliers exist in the world. I'm one of them, in many respects.
Whites in America are advantaged over blacks and other minorities. I don't get the point of this spiel. You are not the "chosen one." There are things that you do not have to go through as a white male.
For the record, I don't think either of you are being snarky.
Flying Below Radar: Race, Privilege and the Evidence of Things Not Felt
But heres what I know for sure, and what I hope all of us are willing to consider. Whether or not those officers were hoping to be able to pull over a man of color, and whether or not they would have done so, had I been such a man, isnt really the important thing. What matters is that at no point would I, a white man, ever have to fear as I travelled that or any other interstate or road anywhere in my country, that my color alone might trigger sufficient suspicion in the eyes of law enforcement so as to warrant a stop, even when I had done nothing illegal. That is not a luxury possessed by anyone who is black or Latino in this country their country and that matters.
Had I been a man of color, heading to Delaware that day for a speech corresponding to what has now become a week-long commemoration of the Martin Luther King Jr. holiday a possibility to be sure, given that most speakers for such events are people of color how might the incident have differed? I dont mean differed in the sense that I would have necessarily been pulled over. Again, maybe they werent looking for a black person. Maybe they were looking for a white female who had just robbed a bank and escaped in a black Yukon. But how might it have differed psychologically and even physiologically, as I, the black man, glanced into my rear-view and spied the police cruiser advancing on me at a high rate of speed? As I saw it pull even with me and then stay there? As I looked to my left and saw the white man with the badge, the gun, and the full authority of the state behind him, staring into my eyes, calculating in that moment whether I was the one, wondering if perhaps I might have a wheel-well filled with drugs, or a gun under the seat despite nothing but my skin to even remotely imply that either of these things might be true?
No matter how much money I might have, what size home, what kind of job, what beautiful and perfectly functional family, or my level of education, were I a black man in that situation (or a Latino in this era of generalized suspicion towards brown folks as de facto undocumented) everything would have been different, from my heart rate to the anxiety-related activity in my amygdala to the tightening of my muscles to the lump in my throat. And while these may appear to most whites as momentary discomforts with no larger import, imagine those kinds of experiences happening not once or twice, but regularly over a year, two years, a life. Imagine the uncertainty, the trepidation, the second-guessing of every glance, comment, or stare, made necessary by a lifetime lived in self-defense mode, the need for keen observation and interpretation of the most mundane interracial encounters made as critical to your safety and survival as nutrition, as vital as love.
See, thats what race means, even now, and that is what (among so many other things) gives the lie to all claims of post-raciality made by those who refuse to feel what people of color are all too willing to tell them, if only they could hear. That some must contend with almost daily reminders that they are perpetual outsiders, perpetual suspects, perpetually in need of proving their belonging indeed their very humanity while others need not concern themselves with such things, leaves the latter with an edge, however subtle, and the former with a weighty and pernicious hindrance, the consequences of which cannot be overstated. To know that one can not only drive without subjecting oneself to presumptions that one is less-than, but also apply for jobs or loans while knowing the same, or raise ones hand in class, hoping to demonstrate ones brilliance to the teacher, similarly secure in the knowledge that that teacher will not ever see the hand as belonging to a walking, talking stereotype of incapacity matters. In a society as fully in thrall to bloodthirsty competition as ours, such an edge can make all the difference. It frees up cognitive space for problem solving rather than worry, and for confidence rather than self-doubt.
That advantage one might even say, privilege of being seen first as an individual rather than as the member of a defective and problematic group, can even be the difference between life and death. And here I am not merely referring to the way in which so many people of color have been killed by police who saw their cell phones, keys, or merely black skin as evidence of danger and shot first, only to ask questions never. Here I am referring to the way that black and brown folks who are fortunate enough not to go the way of Sean Bell, or Amadou Diallo or so many others, nonetheless have their lives shortened by the racialized stresses that flow from life lived as a problem.
Years of research about which most have no awareness because it doesnt make the news tells us that the daily coping with racialization, which people of color learn to do from an early age, but which whites rarely if ever experience, leaves scars. It contributes to the excess release of stress hormones in the black and brown body, causing something called allostatic load a reference to the short-circuiting of the bodys natural defenses against anxiety-producing events and traumas. That allostatic load then corresponds to higher blood pressure, higher rates of heart disease, and early death. The research has found that even affluent black folks have higher markers for allostatic load than poor whites, despite the real stresses that the latter contend with each day.
It's a bizarre issue, really. The world is a vast, diverse, oft ambiguous place. Sometimes whites will be born into a world without privilege, sometimes blacks will be born into the lap of luxury. It's not as simple as calling one group inherently privileged and one group inherently disadvantaged. There are mitigating factors. The numbers skew, as they are wont to do, but nothing about the concept of "white privilege" is absolute.
I'd not like to be colored as someone who denies the existence of it - it's real, and it's powerful. I'm just saying I haven't reaped the benefits from it. Outliers exist in the world. I'm one of them, in many respects.
How would you know?
How would you know otherwise? Your data is not infallible, nor is it all-encompassing. The world is not a black and white place.
I've no desire for my mild beliefs to paint me as a straw-man just because all the dissenters have been shouted down or left. It's not something I want to argue, even if I thought it were possible. I feel I've expressed myself sufficiently. That's all.
Since european americans are soon to loose their status as majority in the states.
I think its only fair that they started their own interest groups. I mean clearly no one is looking out for them.
Think if you said the same thing about jewish americans or asian american.
It's a bizarre issue, really. The world is a vast, diverse, oft ambiguous place. Sometimes whites will be born into a world without privilege, sometimes blacks will be born into the lap of luxury. It's not as simple as calling one group inherently privileged and one group inherently disadvantaged. There are mitigating factors. The numbers skew, as they are wont to do, but nothing about the concept of "white privilege" is absolute.
How would you know otherwise? Your data is not infallible, nor is it all-encompassing. The world is not a black and white place.
I've no desire for my mild beliefs to paint me as a straw-man just because all the dissenters have been shouted down or left.
It's not something I want to argue, even if I thought it were possible. I feel I've expressed myself sufficiently. That's all.
Some people keep bringing up Asians. Okay. Tell me with a straight face how many Asian you can name off the top of your head from history books, how many Asian you learned about in school, how many asian movie stars are in leading roles of big films? How many Asian women are fetished? How many black men are fetished? "Asian fever", "jungle fever". And these are terms used everyday and somehow okay in 2012?
Look guys. The biggest thing that minoirties have to face isn't the money as the end and be all. The biggest hurdle for a lot of minorities is simply feeling like they belong and are a part of the society. This isn't even stricly speaking about America, Black, White, Gay, Straight. The simple matter is that everyone wants to belong, to feel like their neighbour cares in the least. But the truth is that a lot of people who are "pure minorities" and I say that to mean not a white woman, a white gay, in a majority white country or a black woman, a black gay, in a majority black country, etc is the feeling that they actually matter.
It is true that everyone has their struggles and that all people have hardships. But it is also true that there is a huge relief off of ones mind when they don't feel like they have to act a certain way, dress a certain way, talk a certain way to even be considered as having a ounce of social equality. If there was social equality, everything else would come with that obviously. But there isn't.
Some people keep bringing up Asians. Okay. Tell me with a straight face how many Asian you can name off the top of your head from history books, how many Asian you learned about in school, how many asian movie stars are in leading roles of big films? How many Asian women are fetished? How many black men are fetished? "Asian fever", "jungle fever". And these are terms used everyday and somehow okay in 2012?
There is a big difference between being successful and being accepted. It is no wonder that a lot fo minority parents tell their children that "You should work hard. But never believe that you're one of them." That is incredibly disturbing and should not be told to any child in 2012 America. But it is a truth.
You will never have to worry about asking some girl or guy out and being rejected for being white 99% of the time.
You will never have to worry about socring high enough on a test just to prove that you're smart too.
You will never have to worry about being able "kick back", smoke pot, play video-games, etc and STILL be seen as a respectful young man or woman.
You will never be uncomfortable in your own shoes for being simply a colour. We can't change what we are. I can't tell if someone is gay off the bat usually, I can't tell if someone is depressed off the bat usually, I can't tell if someone is tormented inside usually. But I can tell what colour someone is all the time. It is a big flag that cannot be ignored.
Minorities have so much mental and emotional pressure that many of you clearly find it hard to believe. The mental scarring I personally have is something that I will always struggle with and has hampered a large portion of my life. How do you think anyone can flourish and grow in a society where they are often viewed as "Auto black auto bad". "Auto Asian, Auto smart". None of my minority friends are "free" like my white friends are. We all know that we have certain roles to play and are always going to be viewed a certain way thanks to how society portrays us. Yet my white friends are so diverse that when I first meet them, I often wonder what kind of person they are and don't even take their colour into account. THAT is white privilege. You are never being judged by other white people or the vast majority...of minorities as A or B. You are seen as fluid and an individual. That fluidity grants you so much interest that it cannot be understated. People want to get to know you. You will make friends easier, you will find dates easier, you will move easier with less barriers and questions. Whereas with a minority, you are either A or B and most people will not even bother to get to know you. Because in their minds, they have already placed you into a category of either a threatening thug, or a hopeless nerd.
Yes we all place each other into categories and judge on first look. BUT. But, the colour a person is, is a major category that is seen first and everything following that taken as secondary. And if you doubt any of this, go read up on the studies done about all sorts of areas of life. Ethnic sounding names DO get less chances given to them for jobs. Ethnic sounding names DO get less chances given to them in the law. And ethnic people in general get much, much less chances given to them in even dating.
Nobody should be saying "so what?" Because there are people who complain that certain groups only ever stick to themselves in small pockets of such and such country. But fail to realize that it is because they see and hear what goes around them. And so out of fear, they run away. Instead of being a melting pot, people are running away from one another. None of us should want that. It is disturbing to see that and it does not mean that multiculturalism has failed or that we simply hate each other. Rather it means that we are still judging by association and hating way too much on one other.
How would you know otherwise? Your data is not infallible, nor is it all-encompassing. The world is not a black and white place.
I've no desire for my mild beliefs to paint me as a straw-man just because all the dissenters have been shouted down or left. It's not something I want to argue, even if I thought it were possible. I feel I've expressed myself sufficiently. That's all.
"all else being equal" is an important phrase to understand. It's pretty key to the discussion.
Wow.White privelage is a thing.
I've never experienced it, personally.