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I'm being a bit facetious but I really dislike CoD and most of the "trash taking generic fps" franchises.

Binary Domain is good, never played Yakuza.
Call of Duty is a bit too frantic for me. I need something a bit slower or I start to freak out.

If I could throw my copies of the Yakuza games through my monitor I would.
 
Speaking of Binary Domain...

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i assure you you'll be safe under our supervision


jk gaygaf has those big ass anyways.
Careful, now...I might just do it.

Anyhow, I'm always happy to find a gamer, no matter what their poison may be. :) I hold nothing against people who prefer certain games or genres. Of course, it's always a bonus to find someone with similar tastes or who may show interest towards more eclectic games, but I'd never let that be the defining variable as to whether we would be friends or not. Crazy people. :p
 
Anyhow, I'm always happy to find a gamer, no matter what their poison may be. :) I hold nothing against people who prefer certain games or genres. Of course, it's always a bonus to find someone with similar tastes or who may show interest towards more eclectic games, but I'd never let that be the defining variable as to whether we would be friends or not. Crazy people. :p
Your avatar's from the original Clock Tower, right? You'll never find anybody with similar interests. :(

Mine isn't usually this "high" :(
It's okay, I've moved on to being jealous of Tess3ract's completely insane internet speed.
 
Have you ever dated someone with music tastes that are a polar opposite of your own? Its difficult at first but eventually you start to like bits of their music and vice versa. Its especially hard when you're married to someone who like country music :(

Hey country music is awesome!
 
So I went to San Antonio with the same guy I met on Thursday and his family to Six Flags. AWe left on Saturday evening and got to the hotel, and then went to the River Walk, and then went to Six Flags today. I rode a roller coaster for the first time, Goliath, which I will never ever do again. Seriously, I ended up drooling and felt like shit all day after the ride.

Me and him ended up having sex last night. (and I know you told me not to in the past but I guess I just never listen) We started cuddling and kissing and while I was laying there turned on my side he started grabbing my shorts and underwear and took them off. Then he started fingering me, and then he started pushing his erection against me. I let him do it because I am really attracted to him and it's been over 2 months since I last had sex with anyone. At first it hurt, he did it twice, and then on the third time it started to feel better. (Guess I just have to get use to it) but he ended up coming inside me...but I started to like it, I was so turned on!

Anyway, we are going to continue to date each other and just see where it goes.

The only thing that I find it awkward is that he told me that he had sex with one of my close friends a few weeks ago...<_>;
 
Your avatar's from the original Clock Tower, right? You'll never find anybody with similar interests. :(
It is indeed! :D You are the first person to ever make note of that fact. This makes you...special. o_o As long as no one uses my interests to deem me unfriendable, I'm okay with being "special". :P
 
in case you can't tell: i'm being sarcastic. Gaming is a huge part of my life, so I'm actually kinda serious about that part, but I only mentioned music taste because I like teasing others about it, because I know mine is objectively good (also sarcasm)

I think I could be with someone who doesn't game. It wouldn't be a deal breaker as long as they're okay with me still gaming and as long as they don't want me to stop. But it would be soooo nice to have a gamer SO. I couldn't care less about what music they like, but it would be nice to have some bands/singers in common.
 
I don't like the themes or the music style. I like metal and electronic and rock and all that.

I know it's a statement that some people don't take seriously but really, everything but rap and country is good for me. Hip hop is okay if it's not like gangsta shit.
 
It's too bad neither of these games are coop, I'd play with you sagitario, I just got those games recently

I think Space Marine has co-op DLC.

Dumping someone because of his music taste? Seriously?
So you would dump a person because of his gaming preferences too? ("He must not like Call of Duty...").

If my BF and I broke up next week I think the next guy I dated would need to be a gamer. BF plays WoW, but nothing else. I'd really like to have someone that I could player other random stuff with given how important gaming is in my life.

That said, to answer your question, I probably would not date someone that played a lot of CoD. Terrible, I know. :\

For "deal-breakers" I'd second the answer of smokers. When I say that I mean cigarettes, but I wouldn't date someone whose life revolved around pot or other drugs either (I've known a few guys that spent every day getting high and doing nothing else).

I don't think I could date someone who was still in the closet at this point too. No offense to younger guys that still are, but it's just too much strain to try and keep someone else's secret at the expense of a normal relationship.

"I don't wanna be the sweeper of the eggshells that you walk upon." Alanis knows what I'm talking about.

chronos4590 said:

I finally recognize who this is an image of, as I just started watching Kids on the Slope last night. It's excellent so far.
 
I don't like the themes or the music style. I like metal and electronic and rock and all that.

I know it's a statement that some people don't take seriously but really, everything but rap and country is good for me. Hip hop is okay if it's not like gangsta shit.

Hmm...well, to each their own. I strongly dislike the themes and music style of metal (and maybe Polka lol) but that's it; I enjoy all other kinds of music.
 
IDK, I'd rather be friends with someone who played halo than call of duty

Reminds me of a date i had a while back.

*QUEUE MINI STORY MODE*

Met this guy online, kind of cute, figured why not "whats the worst that can happen" and we meet up.

From the get-go this guys attitude was just off the charts annoying. EVERYTHING was shitty to him. He would comment on how shitty all my games were that I owned (I am a mostly Xbox/PC player but i do have a PS3) and how CoD was the only good shooter and everything else was shit.

So 1) He was a Sony fanboy with zero knowledge of any games in general
and 2) was a CoD fanboy who hated anything except CoD.

Literally everything I liked was "shit" to him. Food/restaurants, activities, games, tv shows, movies, etc, you name it we didnt have much in common... thats ok to not share same interests... But it was his horrific attitude towards things that was unbelievably rude.

I would mention a fun activity or hobby of mine and he would raise his eyebrows like I was crazy, without saying anything. He was big into basketball as his sport of choice and I had no problems with that but when I told him I liked MMA he told me it was crappy and wasnt even a real sport. Gee what a nice guy! At least lie to me and not be a prick.

So anyways he comes over to my place, we play a bit of gears of war horde mode for a bit until he whines to stop cuz its a horrible game. So we put in his CoD game... black ops, and he ONLY plays zombies mode and the whole time tries to act all superior like hes amazing. Yawn. He kept repeating how hes the best and I probably wouldnt be all that good. Like a 'tough guy' act.

Later we go out to eat at a place I chose, he said he liked Hot Wings so I take him to a place I like that has cheap wings night (pub) and he starts complaining right after he starts eating. You guessed it: the wings were shitty. "Just deep fried wings with sauce" or so he claimed. Like I understand if someone doesnt like the food, but at least lie to me and appreciate the effort. I didnt mean for him to hate any of the food when I thought he might enjoy himself. NOPE :P He also ate like a pig so it was annoying even more.

I kept in contact and we hung out once more after that, but man was it hard to strike up a conversation with someone who shares almost no interests and makes almost no effort to talk. Literally one word responses and his overall shitty attitude ruined it. He also wasnt outta the closet and didnt wanna be and would never accept ANY PDA. Another problem not worth putting up with.

I didnt even want to be his friend after all that so I just promptly removed him from lists and ignored.

Fucking CoD fanboy.
 
So I went to San Antonio with the same guy I met on Thursday and his family to Six Flags. AWe left on Saturday evening and got to the hotel, and then went to the River Walk, and then went to Six Flags today. I rode a roller coaster for the first time, Goliath, which I will never ever do again. Seriously, I ended up drooling and felt like shit all day after the ride.

Me and him ended up having sex last night. (and I know you told me not to in the past but I guess I just never listen) We started cuddling and kissing and while I was laying there turned on my side he started grabbing my shorts and underwear and took them off. Then he started fingering me, and then he started pushing his erection against me. I let him do it because I am really attracted to him and it's been over 2 months since I last had sex with anyone. At first it hurt, he did it twice, and then on the third time it started to feel better. (Guess I just have to get use to it) but he ended up coming inside me...but I started to like it, I was so turned on!

Anyway, we are going to continue to date each other and just see where it goes.

The only thing that I find it awkward is that he told me that he had sex with one of my close friends a few weeks ago...<_>;

Without a condom?
 
What kind of smoker?

The Left 4 Dead 1 kind. They got nerfed in the sequel.

But to actually answer your question:

Tobacco of just about any kind.

Haven't really been in a situation where marijuana was an issue but since I have zero interest in it, it certainly wouldn't be a positive habit in my eyes. So, I may consider a recreational pot user but someone who smokes a lot of marijuana would also be off the table for me.

Though, I should probably expand on smoker and add hard drug user as well. Life is complicated enough without substance abuse mixed in.
 
*QUEUE MINI STORY MODE*

Stereotype vindicated! This is exactly what I imagine going on a date with a CoD player would be like. I just can't imagine someone who surrounds themselves with a community of homophobic teenagers being a person worth dating. Putting aside the content of the game (which I'm not a fan of but, you know, taste is subjective), any gay guy with a shred of pride wouldn't support a game with a community like that. Especially when the community's behavior is encouraged by the developers.

I'm surprised your date went as long as it did, given how unpleasant the whole thing sounds.
 
If I find a person to play Halo with me...

They can headshot you in the face like I did during Halo 2's goodbye party? :3

Team SWAT is like the only thing that gets me to play Halo, even if Team SWAT is broken and not really "Halo."
 
And I'm reading this one:
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I'm not too far into it though.

I am reading this at the moment:

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Title translate as "The vampire of the Roma neighborhood".
It's about a young Mexican homosexual during the 70s.
His adolescence, discovering his sexuality, prostitution, diseases, learning about life and social structure. It's kinda depressing.
The book was published in 1979 and I am surprised about how open it is about some issues/topics of the homosexual community in Mexico (really taboo at the time).
 
I'm surprised your date went as long as it did, given how unpleasant the whole thing sounds.

I think part of the reason is that i had some friends who were like "ohh you shouldnt be so picky" when I told them about how this guy and myself having nothing in common. So in back of my mind I told myself that maybe I should give it a chance... but the more I talked to him the more I didn't like him.

So no. Fuck that shit. A terrible person is not worth it and im not 'being picky'; this guy was a prick and if anyone else was in my shoes they wouldve seen the same thing I saw.
 
I kind of have a thing for attractive stoners, even though that habit essentially suggests an incompatibility since I have no desire to repeat that phase of my life. I think I appreciate the relaxed attitude, if it were as simple as that.
 
I wouldn't mind someone that doesn't play any videogames at all; as long as he doesn't mind that I enjoy them here and there. So if I happen to be excited for the newest Mortal Kombat or Halo, then go with me to the midnight launch, watch me play while you read a book or do something else.

I also tend to enjoy most movie and music genre, sports, etc...so is not like I look on specific guys; that like specific stuff in any case.
 
I kind of have a thing for attractive stoners, even though that habit essentially suggests an incompatibility since I have no desire to repeat that phase of my life. I think I appreciate the relaxed attitude, if it were as simple as that.

So what if you met a guy that just kinda sounded and acted like a stoner? Would that be ideal for you? I'm thinking of someone like Robert Ashley.
 
So what if you met a guy that just kinda sounded and acted like a stoner? Would that be ideal for you? I'm thinking of someone like Robert Ashley.

I'm not sure who that is, but I don't think that for me it has much to do with any kind of stereotypical mannerisms or anything, in fact I don't really go for the more common stereotype. I can't really think of a better word and it probably makes me sound like a snob, but the image I get I see as pretty 'uncultured' which doesn't do it for me. I've had a few crushes on guys that where daily smokers which is why I've noted the pattern, and they tended to have a more conventional sort of charm combined with a sort of relaxed or 'fuzzy' manner which made me feel comfortable for some reason, I don't really know how to better describe it.
 
So I went to San Antonio with the same guy I met on Thursday and his family to Six Flags. AWe left on Saturday evening and got to the hotel, and then went to the River Walk, and then went to Six Flags today. I rode a roller coaster for the first time, Goliath, which I will never ever do again. Seriously, I ended up drooling and felt like shit all day after the ride.

Me and him ended up having sex last night. (and I know you told me not to in the past but I guess I just never listen) We started cuddling and kissing and while I was laying there turned on my side he started grabbing my shorts and underwear and took them off. Then he started fingering me, and then he started pushing his erection against me. I let him do it because I am really attracted to him and it's been over 2 months since I last had sex with anyone. At first it hurt, he did it twice, and then on the third time it started to feel better. (Guess I just have to get use to it) but he ended up coming inside me...but I started to like it, I was so turned on!

Anyway, we are going to continue to date each other and just see where it goes.

The only thing that I find it awkward is that he told me that he had sex with one of my close friends a few weeks ago...<_>;

That's nice and all, but fucking hell man. You really have to stop doing this bb stuff.
 
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