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Damn I am confused. Is it possible there is a sexuallity where you just enjoy sex, who ever it is with. Until recently I was pretty sure I was bisexual, I have had sex with a man once, made out with men before and would watch porn occasionally when I fancied it, but the thought of a man hasn't entered my mind in what seems like months, and the sexually encounters I have had in the past just made me feel demasculinized. I am 20 by the way and have a girl friend.
 
SuperEpicMan said:
Damn I am confused. Is it possible there is a sexuallity where you just enjoy sex, who ever it is with. Until recently I was pretty sure I was bisexual, I have had sex with a man once, made out with men before and would watch porn occasionally when I fancied it, but the thought of a man hasn't entered my mind in what seems like months, and the sexually encounters I have had in the past just made me feel demasculinized. I am 20 by the way and have a girl friend.
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I've heard the term pansexual be thrown around. Personally, just sounds like bisexuality to me. You could also just be young. I wouldn't worry to much about it and just enjoy things as they are.

Though if you already have a girlfriend...
 
This plug.dj is great. I couldn't talk much (I was at work at the time :P), but it was nice to listen to some really good (and new) music.

lunch said:
Thanks for turning me onto it. No clue who you are in the room, but it's great to hear new music.

I like your song selection Mr_Zombie.
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Thanks ;)
 
BeesEight said:
I've heard the term pansexual be thrown around. Personally, just sounds like bisexuality to me. You could also just be young. I wouldn't worry to much about it and just enjoy things as they are.

Though if you already have a girlfriend...
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Bisexuality is limited to male/female attraction. Pansexuality is attraction to all genders including transgender.
 
BeesEight said:
True, but my understanding isn't that transgender is new gender just the wrong gender an individual is born as.
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That's correct, transgender isn't a third gender, there are lots of binary trans people. Pansexual includes attraction to people who don't identify on the gender binary, or are genderqueer/gender fluid/etc etc, which bisexuality doesn't capture (because it's premised on binary gender).
 
Lear said:
That's correct, transgender isn't a third gender, there are lots of binary trans people. Pansexual includes attraction to people who don't identify on the gender binary, or are genderqueer/gender fluid/etc etc, which bisexuality doesn't capture (because it's premised on binary gender).
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Now those I haven't heard of.
 
MidnightScott said:
So I spent the night with him this time. We went and ate at a buffet with his friend after I got off work, then we went and watched Madea, and then we went back to his place. He went upstairs to make sure everyone was asleep and they were so I went in the room. SEXUALLY EXPLICIT, not for the faint of heart
We cuddled and kissed and stuff. Then he had sex with me, and then me with him (my first time as a top, so it was awkward). He ended up getting off massively, LOL. I stayed all night and we just held each other and kissed. Then this morning I was getting horny again so I started taking off my clothes and we had sex again.

I just got back home now. Certainly an interesting night.
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I can't believe everyone's harping on the lack of condoms when there's a much larger glaring issue.

You watched Madea? That's the most disgusting thing I've read all day. Dump him. Anyone with that kind of taste in movies is not somebody worth knowing, let alone dating.

seriously though of every movie why did you choose a madea film
 
lunch said:
I can't believe everyone's harping on the lack of condoms when there's a much larger glaring issue.

You watched Madea? That's the most disgusting thing I've read all day. Dump him. Anyone with that kind of taste in movies is not somebody worth knowing, let alone dating.

seriously though of every movie why did you choose a madea film
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The Madea films aren't that bad. it's good wholesome fun.
 
BeesEight said:
Now those I haven't heard of.
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Genderqueer is, I think, an umbrella term for people who don't identify on the male/female binary, and includes people who are gender fluid (they move between genders) and those that dont identify as male or female, or people who identify as both. I'm sure there's more to it than that, but that's the definition I work under.

I'm sure someone from the trans community/with more knowledge of trans identities would be able to give more detail.
 
Magnus said:
Yeah, and even shorter if you catch the right one!

Seriously though, tell me you're joking. My meter is broken.
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Of course I'm joking. I would hate for you to think that I use the term #YOLO in a non joking manner ;)

I do hope Scott took our last advice and not only wore a condom this time but also got tested.
 
The last time I had anal intercourse with someone who wasn't a boyfriend was 2001, maybe earlier, these days it's almost assumed or implied you are going to kiss, do some low risk oral and cum side by side, nobody here expects or demands more than that, maybe I live in a different world.

I am quite surprised that people have actual penetrative sex in random dates with strangers. I can't understand going all the way through with the sex, with or without condoms, but without it's like the most crazy shit you can ever do.
 
SuperEpicMan said:
Damn I am confused. Is it possible there is a sexuallity where you just enjoy sex, who ever it is with. Until recently I was pretty sure I was bisexual, I have had sex with a man once, made out with men before and would watch porn occasionally when I fancied it, but the thought of a man hasn't entered my mind in what seems like months, and the sexually encounters I have had in the past just made me feel demasculinized. I am 20 by the way and have a girl friend.
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That really just sounds like bisexuality to me. Its super normal and lots and lots of people who are mostly straight experience it.. people seem to tell me their bisexual fantasies sometimes.. I wonder if they're hitting on me or its just cause I'm a gay guy. Oh well.
 
SomeoneCool said:
truth. Condoms are overrated. It's all about that bareback. Yeah you might catch a std but life is short#YOLO
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Uhm.. I don't see how having a disease like hiv or herpes is worth having sex one time. If you feel that way, either you don't know someone who has hiv or you are a little too careless.
 
SuperEpicMan said:
Damn I am confused. Is it possible there is a sexuallity where you just enjoy sex, who ever it is with. Until recently I was pretty sure I was bisexual, I have had sex with a man once, made out with men before and would watch porn occasionally when I fancied it, but the thought of a man hasn't entered my mind in what seems like months, and the sexually encounters I have had in the past just made me feel demasculinized. I am 20 by the way and have a girl friend.
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It's just part of being sexually fluid, at least according to Kinsey.

Some people come across episodes in their lives when they experiences bouts of non-heterosexuality or vice-versa. The less you focus on gay or straight, the easier it is to understand the shades of gray.

However, you shouldn't feel emasculated.
 
dragonlife said:
Seks: Friend linked me to this. New USA show http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=u8M-FSHbEKQ (Gay content, NSFW)

Will watch since it's short. 6 episodes, apparently. Speaking of USA, I'm on the third season of In Plain Sight. So good.
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Whoa, a USA show that doesn't look like Burn Notice. It took me three plays of the trailer to understand what the two of them were saying, and I still don't get the joke or the concept of the show. There are enough real political sex scandals that I don't need fake ones, unless that's not what it's about at all and I'm just slow on the uptake.

Bel Marduk said:
Uhm.. I don't see how having a disease like hiv or herpes is worth having sex one time. If you feel that way, either you don't know someone who has hiv or you are a little too careless.
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He said a few posts above yours that it was a joke.
 
dragonlife said:
Seks: Friend linked me to this. New USA show http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=u8M-FSHbEKQ (Gay content, NSFW)

Will watch since it's short. 6 episodes, apparently. Speaking of USA, I'm on the third season of In Plain Sight. So good.
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You need to be watching my honey in White Collar. >:I

(And Suits, and Burn Notice, and Necessary Roughness for the dude that plays "Matt." <3)

I'm not really wanting to see that mini-series outside of Susan Sarandon.
 
lunch said:
Whoa, a USA show that doesn't look like Burn Notice. It took me three plays of the trailer to understand what the two of them were saying, and I still don't get the joke or the concept of the show. There are enough real political sex scandals that I don't need fake ones, unless that's not what it's about at all and I'm just slow on the uptake.
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What's wrong with Burn Notice? I like it :P And, no, it's not about sex scandals. Watch this, I guess: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P-mjzwZisx0&feature=relmfu

TheSeks said:
You need to be watching my honey in White Collar. >:I

(And Suits, and Necessary Roughness for the dude that plays "Matt." <3)

I'm not really wanting to see that mini-series outside of Susan Sarandon.
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I can't watch season 4 without having seen season 3 of White Collar!

And those two other shows aren't on Netflix :(
 
SuperEpicMan said:
Damn I am confused. Is it possible there is a sexuallity where you just enjoy sex, who ever it is with. Until recently I was pretty sure I was bisexual, I have had sex with a man once, made out with men before and would watch porn occasionally when I fancied it, but the thought of a man hasn't entered my mind in what seems like months, and the sexually encounters I have had in the past just made me feel demasculinized. I am 20 by the way and have a girl friend.
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Sounds pretty bi to me. You might be like 90/10 split (10 being male). There are varying degrees. I think people are confusing the pansexual term for liking everything but TO MY KNOWLEDGE that means you DO NOT SEE GENDER. Im sure you see gender but just happen to be someone who likes sex? Thats kinda bi/curious. Don't worry bout it anyways, who really gives a shit since labels dont exactly fit everyone, love that girl your with and forget everything else :)
 
dragonlife said:
What's wrong with Burn Notice? I like it :P And, no, it's not about sex scandals. Watch this, I guess: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P-mjzwZisx0&feature=relmfu

I can't watch season 4 without having seen season 3 of White Collar!

And those two other shows aren't on Netflix :(
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Suits is on Google Play or PSN or XBLM IIRC. I dunno about Necessary Roughness. I don't watch it for the sports. I watch it for Matt. <3

Season 3 of White Collar is on PSN/XBLM/iTunes/Hulu, I think.
 
dragonlife said:
What's wrong with Burn Notice? I like it :P And, no, it's not about sex scandals. Watch this, I guess: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P-mjzwZisx0&feature=relmfu
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I liked what I saw of Burn Notice, it's just that all of USA's shows (White Collar and a bunch of other things I can't remember) look the same to me. I love watching Bruce Campbell's career decline. :(

Oh man, I love Sigourney Weaver. I don't have the means to watch it, but it looks good from that clip.
 
lunch said:
Whoa, a USA show that doesn't look like Burn Notice. It took me three plays of the trailer to understand what the two of them were saying, and I still don't get the joke or the concept of the show. There are enough real political sex scandals that I don't need fake ones, unless that's not what it's about at all and I'm just slow on the uptake.


He said a few posts above yours that it was a joke.
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ugh... now I feel stupid.
 
lunch said:
I can't believe everyone's harping on the lack of condoms when there's a much larger glaring issue.

You watched Madea? That's the most disgusting thing I've read all day. Dump him. Anyone with that kind of taste in movies is not somebody worth knowing, let alone dating.

seriously though of every movie why did you choose a madea film
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Good god my friend dragged me to that madea movie. What the hell did I watch
 
dragonlife said:
Seks: Friend linked me to this. New USA show http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=u8M-FSHbEKQ (Gay content, NSFW)

Will watch since it's short. 6 episodes, apparently. Speaking of USA, I'm on the third season of In Plain Sight. So good.
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That show actually looks pretty good. That was a hot scene as well!

lunch said:
Once Upon a Time?

Edit: Oh, Once Upon a Time's still going. Weird.

Second edit! The show's Kings.
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Hey, don't say Once Upon a Time is canceled! The show was corny as hell but I loved the first season.
 
I had a dream I made out with this kind of cute guy that I barely know. It was strangely hot in a way I haven't felt before. I would love to make it a reality... but it's not gonna happen. :P
 
sphinx said:
The last time I had anal intercourse with someone who wasn't a boyfriend was 2001, maybe earlier, these days it's almost assumed or implied you are going to kiss, do some low risk oral and cum side by side, nobody here expects or demands more than that, maybe I live in a different world.

I am quite surprised that people have actual penetrative sex in random dates with strangers. I can't understand going all the way through with the sex, with or without condoms, but without it's like the most crazy shit you can ever do.
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this is called "normal people", don't worry
 
lunch said:
I don't want to bump the coming out thread nor drive down the mood of this thread with my own bullshit, so is there anyone whose idea of a Thursday night involves listening to some kid ramble about nothing of importance over PMs?
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???
What happened?

Plus my thursdays are like every other day...which name ends with 'day' (except that I was free from work today). :p



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I just found out that Danell Leyva also made it to the previously mentioned ESPN Body Issue 2012...darn, have to get it!! XD
 
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