I was considering trying to go to a gaymer meetup if I can find one. The person that I am going with isn't gay though so I'm not sure if he would want to go.
the ones in the past have been tame. I haven't heard about the one for this one yet and who is organizing it, but they're generally just a bunch of gay pax members having a drink or three and maybe playing some games. (depends on year and who organized)