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My cat loves to try and help me type on my keyboard. Always hitting that caps locks and spacebar.

I bet it's a lie...

I'd never lie. Here's Kai helping me organize some stuff on my laptop.

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Hey, we just moved in! One pot and pan was good enough for me living on my own last year. We're still putting this apartment together.

And yes, Kai is adorable :3

Your cat seems super helpful and nice. I bet he can cook for you if you ask him.

He would scoff and tell me to make it myself.
 
Someone mentioned the ideal boyfriend being someone who can cook. Mine is someone who likes animals. If they hate animals... I am disappoint.

Although horses are ok to hate.
 
I'm insanely jealous of people who own pets. Hoping to own a dog or cat someday.

Only ever owned a hamster when I was a kid, and she got skin cancer and died. :(
 
How do you know he's adorable. You could barely see it. It's like a black blotch. An adorable black blotch, but still a blotch.
I can't believe we're discussing this.


When people post pictures of their pets, you always say they're adorable. It doesn't matter that you can't tell what you're looking at, or that you don't really like animals, they're always adorable.

For the record though, I think cats are adorable in general, so unless Sai posted a horrifically ugly cat, it wouldn't take much for me to say he's cute.
 
I just feel they are gross, have no personality, shit everywhere, and kick people in their faces (I almost got kicked in face by one as a child).

I almost died in a horse accident when I was a child, never rode one after that, yet I like them a lot. I find them beautiful. Horses are great animals.

Also, I just purchased this:

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I almost died in a horse accident when I was a child, never rode one after that, yet I like them a lot. I find them beautiful. Horses are great animals.

I grew up around horse farms and think they are stinky, covered in shit half the time, and obselete as we now have cars :)

Is it bad that I am more interested in the prospects of cuddling than sex? :/

Not bad at all. But in the minority.

My friend was telling me (hes straight) how he has several gay male friends after him like crazy wanting to get into his pants... hes very cute. I told him id rather hold his hand than sleep with him and he was surprised because I was the only gay person hes met not actively seeking to fool around with him :/
 
Errr... sure.




Yes, it is. You should feel horrible about it.

Not directed specifically to you, but... what's up with these "someone validate me" questions?
You like what you like, be proud and embrace it.
Well, I had some guy who I didn't know ask to have sex with me randomly over Facebook and he ranted to me when I said no. He said I was weird and asexual, so I was wondering if it was weird. Just cause I'm not a slut doesn't mean I'm asexual. ;_;
 

I just watched the movie this week for the first time on Blu-Ray...amazing! One of my all-time favorite movies, although I've never actually read the book. From what I've read, the movie is a pretty faithful adaptation, by and large. I'm quite proud of the fact that I managed to at least pick out a few gems among all the shitty movies I rented and watched repeatedly as a little kid, this being one of them.

The soundtrack, voice talent, animation, and complex themes are all incredible.


The majority of the animators working at the studio that created the movie ended up forming their own animation studio once they finished with the movie... i think their studio was called gihbli or something. Don't think they ever had too much success after The Last Unicorn. =/
 
I just watched the movie this week for the first time on Blu-Ray...amazing! One of my all-time favorite movies, although I've never actually read the book. From what I've read, the movie is a pretty faithful adaptation, by and large. I'm quite proud of the fact that I managed to at least pick out a few gems among all the shitty movies I rented and watched repeatedly as a little kid, this being one of them.

The soundtrack, voice talent, animation, and complex themes are all incredible.

Everybody should watch this masterpiece! It is an amazing movie! One of my favorites.


The majority of the animators working at the studio that created the movie ended up forming their own animation studio once they finished with the movie... i think their studio was called gihbli or something. Don't think they ever had too much success after The Last Unicorn. =/

Topcraft. When the studio was dissolved, some people joined Studio Ghibli.
 
Well, I had some guy who I didn't know ask to have sex with me randomly over Facebook and he ranted to me when I said no. He said I was weird and asexual, so I was wondering if it was weird. Just cause I'm not a slut doesn't mean I'm asexual. ;_;

I've been called asexual way too many times.
 
Topcraft. When the studio was dissolved, some people joined Studio Ghibli.[/QUOTE]

I am well aware, I was just making a joke. But it was more than just "some" that left. It was a mass exodus that took away 70% of Topcraft's staff, including its founder. Miyazaki may have messages of peace in all of his movies, but he murdered that company.
 
But why would you want to cook french toast with mediocre bread? That's an affront on french toast.

Well to be fair real French toast is made with stale baguette that is left from the day before.

The idea that someone would spend a measurable amount of time vidja gamin' but not know how to cook is borderline offensive to me and might end in a Stabbie-esque dismissal were this information to come out during a conversation. :)

Preach. Cooking doesn't not necessarily take a long time, the basic skills are easy to master and cooking things by yourself not only allow you to watch your diet more easily as you know what goes into your meal, but it also is usually tastier.
 
I was always a big fan of cooking. I'm not that skilled, but I'm still decent and can make a pretty good range of stuff. Overall I don't think cooking is that complicated or time taking, but most people I know feel intimidated by it for some reasons. When you start getting the basics, you can start experimenting and that's really fun!
 
Me too.. but people have different levels of libido.. I mean, you're not asexual because you don't conform to the gay stereotype of sex all the time with anyone..

I used to panic about that actually. I started thinking I was asexual because I didn't get turned on by many guys all that easily.

Then I realized I just have standards ;)
JK
 
So, GAF, it's a bit of confession time. Partly I want to say it just to get it out there, and partly I want to say it because I want to encourage myself to be more open and force myself to do better about this in the future.

After a long conversation with the boyfriend last night, I decided it was for the best if I start pursuing some therapy. As many of you know, my breakup with my ex was pretty rough going for me, and one or two of you know how bad it got. The problem for me is that I was getting better for a little over a year, and really haven't gotten better past that.

It's gotten to the point where I've been getting worse again, actually. Not that I'm missing my ex, but my fears of the way I was treated and the fear it could happen again are coming back slowly worse. I don't think at this time it posed a problem to my relationship, but it could in the future if I don't rein it in.

So, those of you who have been in emotionally and/or physically abusive relationships, how did you cope? Certainly you don't to answer here, but if you could, it would do me some good to hear that other people have gotten out and gotten over it. Until then, I'm just going to do what I can to get better because this relationship is not something I'm going to let myself sabotage.

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While I cannot exactly give any helpful advice.... I'll just say that its nice to see you are doing something that will help you get better. Hang in there. Hopefully you can book something soon?
 
Although I don't know your story, it seems like it's based on irrational fear, right? I'm assuming that your current boyfriend isn't abusive. If you're going to go to a therapist, I'm sure he or she will try to get you to resolve the underlying issue, which is whatever you're truly afraid of.


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I'm sure you and drag can deal with your equine necrophilia just fine.
 
Although I don't know your story, it seems like there's some irrational fear, right? I'm assuming that your current boyfriend isn't abusive. If you're going to go to a therapist, I'm sure he or she will try to get you to resolve the underlying issue, which is whatever you're truly afraid of.

No, the current boyfriend isn't abusive in any way, shape, or form. Quite the opposite, really, as he's been helping with my problems in a lot of ways I don't even think he realizes. My biggest problem is that I keep waiting for the other shoe to drop. He's incredibly sweet, understanding, and all around good for me but I can't help but wonder when that's going to change one day and he's going to be as mean to me as my ex was.

There's a lot of irrational fear there, and it comes out in weird ways that don't make sense until I take a lot of time to analyze them, and even then I think there's probably more to it than I can get to on my own. I'm incredibly lucky and grateful to have him in my life, and I don't plan on changing that because of my own insecurities.
 
If you're a guy and want to smile at me in passing on the sidewalk, that's fine. It's an innocuous gesture that potentially makes me feel a slight bit better about myself for twenty minutes or so.

If you're a guy and want to grin like a lunatic while staring wide-eyed and totally fixated for the better part of an entire city block, please do not do this. I now feel like carrying pepper spray wouldn't be the worst idea.
 
If you're a guy and want to smile at me in passing on the sidewalk, that's fine. It's an innocuous gesture that potentially makes me feel a slight bit better about myself for twenty minutes or so.

If you're a guy and want to grin like a lunatic while staring wide-eyed and totally fixated for the better part of an entire city block, please do not do this. I now feel like carrying pepper spray wouldn't be the worst idea.

Lucky you. You have yourself a stalker!
 
If you're a guy and want to smile at me in passing on the sidewalk, that's fine. It's an innocuous gesture that potentially makes me feel a slight bit better about myself for twenty minutes or so.

If you're a guy and want to grin like a lunatic while staring wide-eyed and totally fixated for the better part of an entire city block, please do not do this. I now feel like carrying pepper spray wouldn't be the worst idea.

You've just got that certain cosmic allure, I guess.
 
I didn't do shit this Sunday and it felt great. I don't want to go back to classes this week. We need to build a time machine and skip to Friday.
 
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