badcrumble
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So you support women's choices having consequences, but not women's actual ability to make choices. Uh, got it.
Men have to bear responsibility, and have no legal choice in the matter. From our very first sexual experience we are on the hook for any offspring that could possibly result. Is that just punishment of males?
No, I have incredible fear of surgeries. I would rather go home and deal with it (if it wasn't life-threatening obviously; I have a huge phobia of hospitals, though). To me (and I used it as MY analogy, not a general one), going through a surgery and staying in the hospital for recovery would be pregnancy. Reading it again, though, I can understand why you misinterpreted it, but my fear of hospitals and surgery drove that analogy.
So your saying that you would deny having instant healing (abortion) if you got hit by a truck since you feel it was a justified result. I don't want to shoot you down but your logic is very shallow. Especially since your ignoring the fact that many who choose to have protected sex can sometimes result in a pregnancy.
So you support women's choices having consequences, but not women's actual ability to make choices. Uh, got it.
Sooo ... wouldn't you rather have the choice of going to the hospital or not?
This thread has actually helped me work out the connection between feminism and abortion. It's not called "reproductive freedom" for nothing.
Allow me to repeat myself. What you're saying is you'd deny instant healing (abortion) and go to the hospital for the scary surgery (pregnancy) since that's your consequence. Which makes absolutely no sense to anyone who's ever experienced an accident.No, I have incredible fear of surgeries. I would rather go home and deal with it (if it wasn't life-threatening obviously; I have a huge phobia of hospitals, though). To me (and I used it as MY analogy, not a general one), going through a surgery and staying in the hospital for recovery would be pregnancy. Reading it again, though, I can understand why you misinterpreted it, but my fear of hospitals and surgery drove that analogy.
At the end of the day it doesn't matter if it was protected sex. There's absolutely no way to prove there was a lack of precaution taken during intercourse. Using that as a standard is laughable at best for banning abortions. Especially when you take into account what people assume is a safe way to have intercourse.And I wasn't ignoring the fact that people who have protected sex can sometimes result in a pregnancy, I just wasn't talking about that facet of abortion.
Yep. And even if we all could agree on exactly when we considered it to be a person we'd still have the central conflict between the rights of that unborn person and the rights of the mother. And that really is about whether society can force a woman, against her will, to endure that pregnancy, or whether that is a choice to be made between a woman and her doctor (and whomever else she wants to bring into it)
Men have to bear responsibility, and have no legal choice in the matter. From our very first sexual experience we are on the hook for any offspring that could possibly result. Is that just punishment of males?
If it was life-threatening, it would be dumb for me to have a choice of going to the hospital or not. And for someone who believes life begins at conception, the idea of abortion would be life-threatening, right?
Allow me to repeat myself. What you're saying is you'd deny instant healing (abortion) and go to the hospital for the scary surgery (pregnancy) since that's your consequence.
If you're anti-abortion because you believe life begins at conception, that's fine. But framing it as a consequence of women having unprotected sex is a terrible argument.
If you're anti-abortion because you believe life begins at conception, that's fine. But framing it as a consequence of women having unprotected sex is a terrible argument.
The idea of instant healing wasn't in my analogy, though?
This.If you're anti-abortion because you believe life begins at conception, that's fine. But framing it as a consequence of women having unprotected sex is a terrible argument.
If you're anti-abortion because you believe life begins at conception, that's fine. But framing it as a consequence of women having unprotected sex is a terrible argument.
No that's idiotic. Thankfully that virtually NEVER happens and no one woman in her right mind would do it and no doctor in their right mind would perform that "abortion".
Only .08% of abortions happen in the 3rd trimester. Mainly due to dangers to the mother's health and/or problems with the fetus.
I know that is the difference to you. I have known that from the beginning. I want to know why that makes a difference to you. You keep saying "She consented to sex!" as if that statement in and of itself had some self-explanatory power as to why you would suddenly be bereft of empathy for her. I honestly do not get it: You claim to understand how terrible it would be to force a woman to have a child she does not want. Yet you would force her to do it anyway if the sex as consensual; you would punish her for having consensual sex and not lying about it.
And as an aside, it says a lot about you and the way you are attempting to emotionally distance yourself from the reality of what you propose when you say that you have no empathy for her predicament simply because she had consensual sex. You have not once attempted to actually put yourself in a woman's position in the society you propose or think outside of your own perspective, and that shows when you can unashamedly say "there is no empathy regarding the result."
If you know you have a hereditary disease, you know there is a risk that your child may have it, then you are causing the risky situation by having a child. If you choose to have a child, then you assume the risk of disease to that child. If you choose not to have any children, there is a 0% chance that your offspring will get that disease. It's the same thing exact argument used for abstinence. Hole #1 invalid.
This invalidates nothing. You'd make a clause in the law prohibiting organ/body donation at the point of likely death for the donor. You're not even providing an argument against anything I've said, I don't know what you were trying to prove with this one. Perhaps you care to actually describe how this invalidates anything I've said?
Nonsensical Hole #2 probably invalid
The fetus takes nutrients, takes rest, causes stress, takes away comfort, takes chemical energy in the excess amount of energy required to carry that weight around, amongst a bunch of other things. As far as irrevocable bodily changes, it sounds like you haven't been in close contact with a mother before. Why don't you ask my ex-girlfriend if she'll get her skin elasticity back, her stretch marks automatically removed, of if her c-section scar will heal? There's also breast sagging, vaginal loosening, permanent hair-thinning, permanent pelvic and spinal structural changes, and more. Are all these conditions livable? Yes. But so are the conditions I've put forth of donating bodily fluids and some non-vital organs. Whoopsadaisy, Hole #3 invalid.
The argument that it should be considered a human being if it is alive and has human DNA also ends up being problematic when considering parasitic twins, fetus in fetu, taratomas, and, to a lesser extent, tumors.
Is that so? Even in the case of a married couple?
Hmm. Okay then.
Would you even be in support of a mother transporting an embryo to an artificial womb so she doesn't have to kill it?
Well, in America you'd be wrong, as more women consider themselves pro-life than pro-choice at this point (though the first time in a while)
laws protecting innocent children from violence.
So um if life is so precious why isn't the GOP shutting down fertility clinics?
Not sure why you guys are wasting time arguing with someone who posts things like:
http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showpost.php?p=40141746&postcount=1535
But I'm sure he's a bastion of human rights and all, so carry on!
So you agree that 9 months and 2 days into a pregnancy with 3 scheduled days remaining, the woman can say that she simply doesn't want to be pregnant anymore and it is perfectly reasonable to terminate her pregnancy?
I got the impression that you believed that the mere creation of a life entitled the woman to do whatever she wanted with it, WHENEVER she wanted. But you clarified that she has control so long as it is in her body (to which I posed a question in my above response)
A life is created, and under the law, infringing upon human life is a crime.
There's the obligation right there.
This is is where I have a problem. Just because it resides in the woman, it doesn't give her full reign to whatever she wants with it. It's not like it's some inanimate object that she is being forced to cope with. If that were the case, she could abort it whenever she pleases.
Jesus.....this is why I don't like people who are hardcore on one side or the other.
This post is just as bad as the other side.
Yes, I should. Even if I agree that life begins at conception, it's a life within the body of someone else - not yours. You should have no domain over them. The comparison to being a kid, after you are born, is a distraction without any relation to the topic at hand.Of course you would like the ability to choose; the question is, should you be able to choose in this circumstance? It would entirely depend on whether you believe life begins at conception. When I was a kid, I would like to have been able to choose whether or not to get grounded for something I did, but that doesn't mean I should have had the choice.
This is is where I have a problem. Just because it resides in the woman, it doesn't give her full reign to whatever she wants with it.
Glad it's helped someone. Forced pregnancy has long been an issue that keeps women from achieving their goals or furthering their careers on top of just being plain awful to go through without any choice in the matter. It's hypocritical how people want children to be raised in the best possible environment but think that me as a student making less than minimum wage should be forced to bear a child.
Ok, so what about condoms and BC used in conjunction.
They are both 99.xx% effective.
Because people have arbitrarily assigned the highest level of sacredness to a joined sperm and egg. If you ask them why human life is so special they will probably say something along the lines of "because it's human". Circular reasoning.Only in perfect usage, which is mathematically impossible. Someone on BC can have the BC nullified by certain medication. Guess that person should be forced to full pregnancy though, huh?
I will never understand why people should be saddled with something as permanent as a child for a momentary trip up, BC failure, or other reason when we have the technology to ensure they don't have to.
I'm still bemused at how the pro-lifers keep avoiding the subject of fertility clinics.
I'm still bemused at how the pro-lifers keep avoiding the subject of fertility clinics.
Too much science, not enough emotionally driven, arbitrary circular "logic".
This thread has actually helped me work out the connection between feminism and abortion. It's not called "reproductive freedom" for nothing.
Being forced to undergo a nine month pregnancy then being forced to care for the resultant child is the loss of freedom. Men do not undergo the same loss although our current legal system compensates a little by forcing monetary support.
Because people have arbitrarily assigned the highest level of sacredness to a joined sperm and egg. If you ask them why human life is so special they will probably say something along the lines of "because it's human". Circular reasoning.
The earliest forms of human life in the womb must be protected at all costs, ignoring the mother, ignoring economic impacts, ignoring social impacts, etc. just because. Some people claim to be anti-abortion and be non-religious but it's religion that put human life on the pedestal in the first place all anti-abortion views have religious roots.
Now that's just silly. We're arguing about what the law should be, so what the law is is of no account. I'm pretty sure that you're just flat-out wrong here, in any case.
I want to make it very clear to you that I do not agree that the mere fact that a life is alive creates a moral obligation not to destroy it. You've got to found this in other ethical principles; it's insufficient merely to assert an axiom that is a strict superset of your conclusion.
Men have to bear responsibility, and have no legal choice in the matter. From our very first sexual experience we are on the hook for any offspring that could possibly result. Is that just punishment of males?
Of course I do.You don't think women do?
Because people have arbitrarily assigned the highest level of sacredness to a joined sperm and egg. If you ask them why human life is so special they will probably say something along the lines of "because it's human". Circular reasoning.
The earliest forms of human life in the womb must be protected at all costs, ignoring the mother, ignoring economic impacts, ignoring social impacts, etc. just because. Some people claim to be anti-abortion and be non-religious but it's religion that put human life on the pedestal in the first place all anti-abortion views have religious roots.
I've seen that. So good, haha.I was watching an episode of the daily show where Al Madrigal shows a video of a sperm swimming towards an egg and seeing him go "not a person.... not a person... not a person... now it's a person..." It's a great bit.
I really think that this link should be in every abortion thread.
I forgot to mention that even if modern medicine has made pregnancy safer, it doesn't come for free. Hopefully the mother has medical coverage.
I forgot to mention that even if modern medicine has made pregnancy safer, it doesn't come for free. Hopefully the mother has medical coverage.
...another thing conservatives aren't keen on ensuring.
http://thinkprogress.org/health/201...e-is-similar-to-having-a-baby-out-of-wedlock/
Guy must love the hole he's in. Cause he's made no effort to climb out
Say the police get an anonymous call about a girl bleeding in a hotel room and they find her barely conscious on the bed with blood flowing from her vagina and a bloody wire on the floor. It's obvious she has had an illegal abortion and almost dies before getting to the hospital. She lives but can never have children of her own again. Should she be charged with murder and thrown in jail?
That example was directed at the "person from conception" crowd. She just found out she was pregnant so there was no real fetus to speak of but since all abortion is illegal she has to go underground to get one. I would expect someone who agrees with "person from conception" to support throwing this woman in prison for murder and hope some of the pro-life people here to voice how they feel about it.I'd consider myself more or less pro-choice but really late term abortion seems fairly nasty. If its medically necessary for the safety of the mother, then by all means do it. In that sort of case it absolutely should be up to the mother as to where the medical professionals allocate resources. I don't have a very rigid stance on abortion one way or another, but for me, it comes down to if the baby could survive outside the womb, then abortion should only be in cases of medical necessity, as decided by doctors and other medical experts as a means of last resort.
But in your example for instance, I'd say it should depend on the circumstances- was the child viable? There was a recent case in the news around where I live where a mother gave birth early and tossed the baby in a dumpster, claiming she thought it was dead. I think she was convicted of something (manslaughter/murder, not sure) and will be serving jail time since it was determined the child was alive at birth. So if somebody botches their own self-abortion when the child is at a viable state, then yeah, I'd think they should be charged with something.
I hope you realize how many (otherwise) intelligent people in this thread you just called idiotic. A bunch of people in this thread say, yes, a woman has a right to terminate a pregnancy until the moment the baby is born, because it is inside her body and using it against her will, dammit!
The only admirable thing about this position is its consistency with their principle. It doesn't matter how low the percentage is in how often this happens, or why it happens, but if it should be allowed to occur for whatever reason the woman chooses. And they say yes.
Whether or not I think it's reasonable doesn't matter,
because it's entirely unreasonable for me to countermand her private decision concerning the sanctity of her body. It's none of my business, and none of yours--it's between her and her doctor.
There are a lot of good reasons to recommend birth as the line.
For one, it's a transit through the topological line that I would draw around our bodies, the line where I want my government's powers to end.
Birth is the transition that creates jus soli.
Birth is when we certify jus sanguinis.
This is a moment of great legal and ritual significance, a long-established tradition that binds citizen to nation and nation to citizen.
Birth is often when a name is finalized and recorded.
Birth is when gender is determined if not already known. At this time, gender will usually be announced whether or not it was known in utero.
Birth is the first time a person will hold you in their arms.
Birth is the first intrusion of air into the lungs, entry into the ocean of atmosphere that we all share, a literally spiritual boundary, the first crest of a rhythmic process that will continue until we exit life through the opposite threshold.
Birth is the light of the world in our eyes.
The umbilical cord could not possibly be a better opportunity for symbolic ritual.
It does not matter whether or not it is reasonable for a woman to terminate her pregnancy--what matters is that a woman always has the right to terminate her pregnancy.
Now that's just silly. We're arguing about what the law should be, so what the law is is of no account. I'm pretty sure that you're just flat-out wrong here, in any case.
I want to make it very clear to you that I do not agree that the mere fact that a life is alive creates a moral obligation not to destroy it. You've got to found this in other ethical principles; it's insufficient merely to assert an axiom that is a strict superset of your conclusion.
If we don't have the right to our own flesh then none of us have any rights at all, merely permissions granted by our masters.
MIMIC, no, your arson example does not explain anything. It is asinine and nonsensical, though.
OK. Then it's wrong to take a life.
Why?
How ironic. I suppose the "flesh" inside of the flesh doesn't count then.
I guess the baby was doomed from conception.
Abortion up until birth.So abortion up until birth?
Why don't you just come right out and say it? "Abortion up until birth".