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I've been sort of talking to a guy (on whatsapp). A colleague at work (who can be really annoying at times) one day was all like "do you want me to hook you up with a friend?", that night I gave him a ride home because we stayed late working and he insisted in a more serious tone and I just said "what the hell, sure, why not". So he gave him my number and we've talked a bit.

It's sort of nice to know new people and just talk about random stuff. The other day he told me he went to the movies, so I asked about it and told him I wanted to watch Paranorman and he told me "It would be good" (WHAT WOULD BE GOOD? WATCHING IT TOGETHER? I NEVER SAID THAT!!!) I seriously freaked out at him seemingly asking me out. Mostly because we're total strangers and well I've only dated 2 guys in my whole life.

From the pictures I've seen of him he's not particularly good looking but not bad looking either. Also I told him I wasn't really asking/looking to be "hooked up", but there was no harm in talking to him.

I doubt anything's gonna come out of this (maybe a friendship at best) but who knows.
 
Morning. I wish I had food like that. I've been living off tea + ramen, the food of the poor. :(

Oh and I've started looking over a list of 100 artists. Wolf Gang is really good. :3
 
Augh. So annoying. If a guy likes me and is interested in me, I am not interested in them back. However, if I like a guy and am interested in him, and he doesn't like me back, I am all over that shit.

Time to become celibate for life. I am already heading that way.
 
GayGAF has such good music taste. Perfume Genius, Patrick Wold and Miike Snow are so good. My ears are orgasming right now.

Augh. So annoying. If a guy likes me and is interested in me, I am not interested in them back. However, if I like a guy and am interested in him, and he doesn't like me back, I am all over that shit.

Time to become celibate for life. I am already heading that way.
*hugs*

I know that feeling. :(
 
Sunday isn't a sunday without pancakes w/ pinch of cinnamon + bananas along with a side of runny eggs.

Even though I don't live at home, I still make them like my mom would. Though no-one is awake when I make them so this stinks.
 
GayGAF has such good music taste. Perfume Genius, Patrick Wold and Miike Snow are so good. My ears are orgasming right now.


*hugs*

I know that feeling. :(

Not to me.

Sunday isn't a sunday without pancakes w/ pinch of cinnamon + bananas along with a side of runny eggs.

Even though I don't live at home, I still make them like my mom would. Though no-one is awake when I make them so this stinks.

Runny eggs...yuck. I don't mind eggs but runny eggs make me want to vomit. Now Hash browns :)
 
Just saw Pitch Pefect, awesome movie, pretty funny as well, end was pretty meh though, was expecting more aftercredit things.

Still, laughed alot.

And before the movie a girl group danced because it was a premiere. I think the oldest one was no older then 13, so I felt a bit creepy watching them dance. The girl in the glittery vest was the best though. Girl in green was ok as well.
 
Morning guys.

Anyone else here have Sunday breakfast? i.e. Pancakes or Waffles, eggs, bacon or sausage.

By the time I'm up on sundays it's usually lunch time, but I like to make hash browns, and then dice up some ham and throw it in while they're cooking! :D So excellent.

I miss the breakfasts my mom used to make every sunday. :( If there's one thing I miss about being at home, it's sunday mornings with my mom. Ugh I'm gonna go call her brb.
 
Happy Sunday, my friends! Today, November 11th, is my birthday! I'm 38 years old, and feeling every one of them hehe.

I'm having a good day so far. Homemade chocolate cake from my mother. Now beers at the local bar.

Life is good. Enjoy the day, GayGAF!
 
Happy Sunday, my friends! Today, November 11th, is my birthday! I'm 38 years old, and feeling every one of them hehe.

I'm having a good day so far. Homemade chocolate cake from my mother. Now beers at the local bar.

Life is good. Enjoy the day, GayGAF!
Happy birthday! Glad to hear that it's been good so far.
 
Augh. So annoying. If a guy likes me and is interested in me, I am not interested in them back. However, if I like a guy and am interested in him, and he doesn't like me back, I am all over that shit.

Time to become celibate for life. I am already heading that way.

Hah.. thats been my life entire way through. Im now 25.

Mutual attraction seems to be the hardest thing to find.

THANKFULLY i think ive met someone who likes me back and with a little luck we will meet each other in the not too distant future.
 
GayGAF has such good music taste. Perfume Genius, Patrick Wold and Miike Snow are so good. My ears are orgasming right now.

I saw Miike Snow live when they came to Washington DC just a few weeks ago on Oct 24th. They were awesome live, unlike some bands that sound like crap when they're live. These guys actually were the real deal, their voices sounded good and it was a great performance.

I wonder if any other GAF was there and I didn't know it.
 
Happy Sunday, my friends! Today, November 11th, is my birthday! I'm 38 years old, and feeling every one of them hehe.

I'm having a good day so far. Homemade chocolate cake from my mother. Now beers at the local bar.

Life is good. Enjoy the day, GayGAF!

Happy birthday! Same day as my father. =P

Hah.. thats been my life entire way through. Im now 25.

Mutual attraction seems to be the hardest thing to find.

THANKFULLY i think ive met someone who likes me back and with a little luck we will meet each other in the not too distant future.

I'm 27 now... Yeah, mutual attraction is hard for a shy graduate student who suffers from social anxiety and isn't pencil thin. I have a couple of guys who really want to meet me right now, and they are good guys... I am just... eh..
 
Well like I realized eventually.. doing nothing won't solve the problem :( I just started working out last week and that definitely boosts the confidence. Now that there is a spark between me and this guy, i wanna try REALLY hard to woo him. Good motivation!

And if youre not attracted or into certain guys, i dont think theres any real solution sadly.
 
Well like I realized eventually.. doing nothing won't solve the problem :( I just started working out last week and that definitely boosts the confidence. Now that there is a spark between me and this guy, i wanna try REALLY hard to woo him. Good motivation!

And if youre not attracted or into certain guys, i dont think theres any real solution sadly.

My problem is I try to woo something and flirt and be my nice and considerate and honest self, and it all sort of blows up in my face eventually.
 
I saw Miike Snow live when they came to Washington DC just a few weeks ago on Oct 24th. They were awesome live, unlike some bands that sound like crap when they're live. These guys actually were the real deal, their voices sounded good and it was a great performance.

I wonder if any other GAF was there and I didn't know it.

I wish I could see them perform live. T'would be awesome.
 
My problem is I try to woo something and flirt and be my nice and considerate and honest self, and it all sort of blows up in my face eventually.

Like flirting with someone, or being nice and starting conversations with a person who isnt that interested and then they get annoyed by you? Yeah thats happened to me before.

I really hate it when i feel like i am forcing the conversations and being the sole interested party. This is why i feel there needs to be immediate initial attraction (even a little) on both people's sides so that the conversation can grow and interest can be equal. Otherwise one person comes off as desperate and annoying.

Usually not a good sign from prior experiences if you compliment someones looks and they don't compliment yours back ;) Then I know hah.
 
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