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Ok I fucked it up, that thing about going to sleep?, complete lies

So I go out, finally, nothing out of the ordinary, I hit on guys, no response, some guys hit on me, not interested. Again, nothing out of the ordinary. And them I suck up...

I made out with this guy, just because... the thing is that it was just because, I figured it out while I was in the middle of the kiss and felt awful, I've got the same thing done to me, with the guy never calling back... I didn't want him to go through it so I make an excuse and leave... but I still feel awful, I should have never done that, I was simply not interested, I should have left it at that.

At least I didn't end up watching the sunrise again... but this sucks.
 
mantidor said:
Ok I fucked it up, that thing about going to sleep?, complete lies

So I go out, finally, nothing out of the ordinary, I hit on guys, no response, some guys hit on me, not interested. Again, nothing out of the ordinary. And them I suck up...

I made out with this guy, just because... the thing is that it was just because, I figured it out while I was in the middle of the kiss and felt awful, I've got the same thing done to me, with the guy never calling back... I didn't want him to go through it so I make an excuse and leave... but I still feel awful, I should have never done that, I was simply not interested, I should have left it at that.

At least I didn't end up watching the sunrise again... but this sucks.
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Where did you go?
 
_Isaac said:
Where did you go?
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gay bar as always, maybe Im reading too much into it, maybe i dont, thats what sucks about having only straight friends. Im still clueless about the whole thing, all I know is that I messed up and I shouldn't had made out with someone im not interested in.
 
GothPunk said:
Do yourself a favour and play Xenoblade! It's so good! I should really go back and finish it though... :/
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It's on top of my list of 'must play asap'. As soon as I finish 1 or 2 games I am currently playing, I will start it :D


Also:

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Can't decide!
 
mantidor said:
gay bar as always, maybe Im reading too much into it, maybe i dont, thats what sucks about having only straight friends. Im still clueless about the whole thing, all I know is that I messed up and I shouldn't had made out with someone im not interested in.
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I don't have much experience with gay bars, but you made it seem like it was just some random make out session. Do you even know his name? I don't think these are meant to be taken as super serious. If it was just some drunken kiss, then just don't worry about it.

Sagitario said:
It's on top of my list of 'must play asap'. As soon as I finish 1 or 2 games I am currently playing, I will start it :D


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Can't decide!
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I like the middle one, since it matches your current avatar.
 
_Isaac said:
I don't have much experience with gay bars, but you made it seem like it was just some random make out session. Do you even know his name? I don't think these are meant to be taken as super serious. If it was just some drunken kiss, then just don't worry about it.
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Yeah I asked his name, I've had my experiences with drunken meaningless kisses but I have no idea why today of all days it felt like something I shouldn't have done. This might seem somewhat offensive, but I think I thought that because the guy was fat... (Im not in good shape at all, just to clarify... am I a fat racist? fatist? D:)


And yeah middle one is the best, go for it!
 
mantidor said:
Yeah I asked his name, I've had my experiences with drunken meaningless kisses but I have no idea why today of all days it felt like something I shouldn't have done. This might seem somewhat offensive, but I think I thought that because the guy was fat... (Im not in good shape at all, just to clarify... am I a fat racist? fatist? D:)


And yeah middle one is the best, go for it!
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Did you think maybe that was all the action he was going to get or something? That it would be this big meaningful thing for him?
 
_Isaac said:
Did you think maybe that was all the action he was going to get or something? That it would be this big meaningful thing for him?
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Pretty much, I put myself in his shoes, the guy was making his moves on me, and instead of saying no, I thought to myself for a brief moment '"what the hell, lets do it". I'm also pretty sure the same thing has been done to me, so I should just give it a rest, it bothers me so much, but I guess it is because it happened like few minutes ago.... I know eventually Ill call it karma and...definitely, I'm no longer doing this hookup thing anymore. I'm not up for it.
 
For once, I got a freebie!

The Bay store in Montreal had, last October, the official Lady Gaga Fame perfume launch. So I actually got the leather mask in the pic from the window dressing. I just had to share lol.

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mantidor said:
gay bar as always, maybe Im reading too much into it, maybe i dont, thats what sucks about having only straight friends. Im still clueless about the whole thing, all I know is that I messed up and I shouldn't had made out with someone im not interested in.
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Don't be too hard on yourself, it's just a kiss. It happens, it's not a big deal at all.
 
Trigger said:
Dat bulge
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I didn't even notice that until you mentioned it. XD

BeesEight said:
That sounds like some nerdy Japanese game. I prefer things that have... you know... manly things in them. Not little boys in skirts.
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BeesEight said:
He never takes the bait. :(
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What bait was this my dear Canuck? Xenoblade is plenty manly, there are beefy men with facial hair. :O And if you un-equip all of their armour you can see their bulging muscles. :O :O

I'm playing Persona 4 Golden religiously at the moment. The manliest thing about that game is probably Dojima. Oh Dojima-san... <3


Sagitario said:
It's on top of my list of 'must play asap'. As soon as I finish 1 or 2 games I am currently playing, I will start it :D
Also:
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Can't decide!
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Well post in here when you do eventually play it, I want to hear if you like it. I would also prefer the middle avatar, I like the way you use the penguin as the bauble on the santa hat ^^.
 
GothPunk said:
I didn't even notice that until you mentioned it. XD
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Suuuuuuuuuuuure.

What bait was this my dear Canuck? Xenoblade is plenty manly, there are beefy men with facial hair. :O And if you un-equip all of their armour you can see their bulging muscles. :O :O

I'm playing Persona 4 Golden religiously at the moment. The manliest thing about that game is probably Dojima. Oh Dojima-san... <3
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Well, you do have a way with selling things. I'm still not buying a Wii.

The ex is making his way through Golden now. Sounds like it's easier than the original and I'm not a big fan of a number of the changes (new VAs for Teddie and Chie). Plus, the heavy promotion of Marie rubbed me the wrong way. I'll be a hipster and stick with my artistically pure vision. (Also, that intro is absolutely horrid.)

But glad you're finally playing my GotY for whenever it came out!
 
Is any of you familiar with the word "invert"? I've never heard of it until I saw it in an old book.

invert
1. (Psychiatry) Psychiatry
a. a person who adopts the role of the opposite sex
b. another word for homosexual
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The book was written in the 50s though. Do people still use this word to refer to a gay person?
 
Prez said:
Is any of you familiar with the word "invert"? I've never heard of it until I saw it in a book.



The book was written in the 50s though. Do people still use this word to refer to a gay person?
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First I ever heard of it... Definitely something that has long stopped being used a while back.
 
Prez said:
Is any of you familiar with the word "invert"? I've never heard of it until I saw it in an old book.

The book was written in the 50s though. Do people still use this word to refer to a gay person?
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Fairly certain psychiatry abandoned that position in the eighties.

But... no. I've never heard the term before.
 
Wilsongt said:
First I ever heard of it... Definitely something that has long stopped being used a while back.
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I found an interesting Wiki page about the terminology of homosexuality:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Termin...19th_and_early_20th_century_sexological_terms

These terms describe individuals for whom the sex of the psyche is the opposite of that of the genitals (as with Ulrichs' Urnings). The female invert is therefore masculine and the male invert is feminine. Traits of inversion include homosexual erotic attraction, temperament, and behavior; sometimes inversion can affect career choice and even anatomic structure. Krafft-Ebing, drawing on the earlier writings of Karl Heinrich Ulrichs, described male inverts with varying degrees of effeminacy, from Effemination in which a man has a distinctly feminine demeanor, to Androgyny in which a man is so effeminate that he can even have feminine bodily characteristics like rounded hips.
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There's even a separate page about sexual inversion. Apparently it's a term from the late 19th/early 20th century.
 
Some other interesting Wiki pages:

List of LGBT slurs
LGBT slang
Lavender linguistics
Friend of Dorothy

This is amazing:

In the early 1980s, the Naval Investigative Service was investigating homosexuality in the Chicago area. Agents discovered that gay men sometimes referred to themselves as "friends of Dorothy." Unaware of the historical meaning of the term, the NIS believed that there actually was some woman named Dorothy at the center of a massive ring of homosexual military personnel, so they launched an enormous and obviously futile hunt for the elusive "Dorothy", hoping to find her and convince her to reveal the names of gay servicemembers.
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Mary, Nellie, nancy are gay slang?

I thought they were slang to mean 'childish or innocent'

lol at crackpipe cosmonaut, anal assassin and donut puncher
 
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