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Oh god, fat old creedpy dude at the gym hit on me on Grindr. I blocked him ASAP, but this is going to make gym time awkward.
 
guy at gym keeps eyefucking me :X

what to do gaf?!!

Um... ignore him?

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I know. My ex was oggling him when he first started posting his pictures. *jealousy*

*blushes*
Thank you :3

I'm similar to Mr Zombie. Also, younger guys don't seem to have any interest in a very short, not-especially-masculine middle aged guy.
C'mon, "not-especially-masculine", "middle aged"? You are handsome and hot as hell. And as mantidor said, nowadays 30s is like past 20s.

Hmpf... :)

And I've just learned recently that at least 5 guys I know from a local Resident Evil forum are either gay or bi (you can learn a lot about people you think you know by looking through their Facebook likes and Last.fm groups :P). We (members of the message board) have a meeting in three months. Might be a good time to finally come out. :lol
 
Yaay. Someone else told me that the guy he likes is a lot like me (another friend told me the exact same thing like a week ago). How is it possible that this is happening AGAIN? Kill me now.
 
Oh god, fat old creedpy dude at the gym hit on me on Grindr. I blocked him ASAP, but this is going to make gym time awkward.

guy at gym keeps eyefucking me :X

what to do gaf?!!

I too found in my gym a guy today that was staring at me in the gay club last saturday...he is ripped but has no legs... so mmh....

nowadays 30s is like past 20s.

I definitely agree, but it depends on what you like. If you are like 35 and looking for someone 21...it can get pretty hard to find something/someone serious.
 
I too found in my gym a guy today that was staring at me in the gay club last saturday...he is ripped but has no legs... so mmh....

You should talk to him and ask him how he lost his legs.

Assuming he does have legs, maybe try to deal with it? If you want to get laid and he's hot, I don't really see the problem. During sex most of the time you won't be looking at his legs anyway.
 
You should talk to him and ask him how he lost his legs.

Assuming he does have legs, maybe try to deal with it? If you want to get laid and he's hot, I don't really see the problem. During sex most of the time you won't be looking at his legs anyway.

I lol'd actually XD

and oh, a pair of good, strong legs and calves are mandatory, more so than other parts normaly more important for gay men.
 
If you change your mind, you can always flirt with me, Delio!

I lol'd actually XD

and oh, a pair of good, strong legs and calves are mandatory, more so than other parts normaly more important for gay men.

I can understand that. Everyone has his preferences.

Just curious, what's your opinion on sharp knees?
 
Just curious, what's your opinion on sharp knees?

never though about it!! It's ok I guess, as long as there is some meat around :P

on another point....I don't know if I need advice.. but I'd like to share, and you guys can tell me what you think if you like.

the guy "I had a crush on last spring" and dumped me is writing to me now like he wants something, I am not sure what, he is writing a bit cryptic, like "things take time to mature" (like all this time was good that we weren't together so we can appreciate each other now...), he saved my profile and is like in a hurry to answer messages and keep in contact..

he now compliments what he has seen from me in recent pics, whereas in spring he would respond a bit annoyed when I gave him compliments....he just wrote me a long ass message with lots of things showing WAY more interest than any he showed back then.

thing is, I've been going to the gym for some months now and I have a beard and I am cool instead of all stressed like back then and it's clear that he wants the new "me"... a part of me wants to say, "fuck off" and another wants to say " let's have sex and then please disappear for good, I just want to see you naked and do stuff for an hour"... I really should do something but I don't know exactly what. He is not a bad guy, but definitely weird...

the only problem is that he is soooooo fucking hot...I am tempted to see if things lead us somehere
(a bed preferably)
 
Guy you've known longer than 1 week and he remembers your name.

Nah, dude, that's just you.

But, yeah, been seeing someone for the past few weeks. Pretty awesome and getting serious, so I'd like to get him something for Xmas. Just not sure what yet. He's a big movie buff so im thinking of getting him some DVDs/blu rays for his movie library.
 
Nah, dude, that's just you.

But, yeah, been seeing someone for the past few weeks. Pretty awesome and getting serious, so I'd like to get him something for Xmas. Just not sure what yet. He's a big movie buff so im thinking of getting him some DVDs/blu rays for his movie library.

In gay world that's pretty signifigant.

Congrats, you should get him something he doesn't have though.
 
never though about it!! It's ok I guess, as long as there is some meat around :P

on another point....I don't know if I need advice.. but I'd like to share, and you guys can tell me what you think if you like.

the guy "I had a crush on last spring" and dumped me is writing to me now like he wants something, I am not sure what, he is writing a bit cryptic, like "things take time to mature" (like all this time was good that we weren't together so we can appreciate each other now...), he saved my profile and is like in a hurry to answer messages and keep in contact..

he now compliments what he has seen from me in recent pics, whereas in spring he would respond a bit annoyed when I gave him compliments....he just wrote me a long ass message with lots of things showing WAY more interest than any he showed back then.

thing is, I've been going to the gym for some months now and I have a beard and I am cool instead of all stressed like back then and it's clear that he wants the new "me"... a part of me wants to say, "fuck off" and another wants to say " let's have sex and then please disappear for good, I just want to see you naked and do stuff for an hour"... I really should do something but I don't know exactly what. He is not a bad guy, but definitely weird...

the only problem is that he is soooooo fucking hot...I am tempted to see if things lead us somehere
(a bed preferably)

Hit it and quit it. Nail it and sail it.
 
Nah, dude, that's just you.

But, yeah, been seeing someone for the past few weeks. Pretty awesome and getting serious, so I'd like to get him something for Xmas. Just not sure what yet. He's a big movie buff so im thinking of getting him some DVDs/blu rays for his movie library.
Congrats, it's nice to hear that things have been going well for you.

Get him what everybody wants: a copy of the newly released Clue Blu-Ray and the Criterion edition of Following which just came out today.
 
I often found guys in their 30s and 40s attractive so now that I'm 30 I may actually have a shot at dating guys I'm typically attracted to. Oh, and I need to put on another 15lbs of muscle.
 
I too found in my gym a guy today that was staring at me in the gay club last saturday...he is ripped but has no legs... so mmh....



I definitely agree, but it depends on what you like. If you are like 35 and looking for someone 21...it can get pretty hard to find something/someone serious.
if you're 21 and looking for something serious you're out of luck. Your problem isn't that you're 35, it's that they're 21. I can count the well adjusted, 'mature' 18-22 year olds I know on one hand.
 
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