This mythical "action" part you are talking about doesn't happen, the proper word is bickering. At a time when emotions are high like this it is absolutely disgusting to guilt trip opposition into agreeing with what you say, and more likely than not opposition is also likely to be emotionally charged for an idea completely opposite to yours. Results: we are more divided than before and nothing gets done.
Now is a time for the country and the world to unite and condemn what took place. We have to solve this problem together. It's absolutely disgusting that people would try to divide us at times like this. How did you feel about the news when you heard that Romney only sent in disaster supplies to swing states after Hurricane Sandy (even though it was proven fake later)? What you people are doing isn't much different at all. There are victims here who are not going to agree with what you are doing, and you using their kids for your political gains; it is one of the most insulting things in the world. Do you people not see that? Now is not the time and place to discuss this.