This right here:
You specifically state a way that "most women" feel as a pillar for your argument. You also linked to an article written by a friend of mine named Meagan, which had nothing to do with how characters are designed, but how people act in the real world to women. They are VASTLY different, and should not be a reason listed in your argument against a specific art style.
Saying, "Sexy characters make men treat real women in the gaming industry badly!", is the same argument a politician can make for violent games causing mass shootings.
You also go on to say that you're not a censor, and that you don't think that kind of character design should go away. But that you think it's hurting the game industry as a whole, which means you really do think it should go away. You're fine to not like a certain way a game is designed. But DO NOT insult its designer on a large media outlet, DO NOT lump all women into your opinion, and DO NOT say you feel it's detrimental because it makes you feel embarrassed.