Girl pours water on boy after he publicly expresses his love for her

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marrec

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GAF is just cold as fuck.

When you play the game of setting up a bunch of stupid candles in order to convey a message of love but not using enough candles to actually spell anything out because you're obviously poor... you either win or you lose.
 

royalan

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Speaking from someone who had to embarrass someone in a similar way once, I wouldn't doubt that this wasn't the first time the boy expressed his interest.

A lot of guys out there, for SOME reason, think that "not interested" means "go bigger and bigger until I'm FORCED to be interested." Had a guy (who could have been a good friend), ask me out continuously, with me turning him down each time. Finally reached a breaking point when he uploaded an incredibly embarrassing youtube video of himself asking me out and posted it on facebook. It was incredibly mortifying. I defriended him, told him to leave me the fuck alone when he called, and never spoke to him again.

This poor kid obviously means well, but I'd bet any kind of money that this isn't his first time going after that girl unsuccessfully. She's was probably at a breaking point. Guys ALSO don't take into account how extremely embarrassing these "grand gestures" can be for the other person, especially if the interest isn't reciprocated.
 

DonasaurusRex

Online Ho Champ
...i laughed

and now i cant stop whats wrong with me, that pic with the water all over him is just..lol. noob tears mmmm mmmm. That guy should be happy in a way though least he's not wasting his thoughtfulness and effort on someone who could care less about it, move on....but never forget lol.

oh and simpsons did it.
 

Blablurn

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Seeing as there's an officer on the scene, it was probably there for safety precautions.

You and your logic, sir.

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In any case, I agree with the sentiment that this new found shame-fame has netted him a harem of girls willing to hook up with the bloke. Awkward, but hilariously sentimental.
 

Aiii

So not worth it
To be honest, to get this kind of response, I'm gonna assume there is a history here and this is probably not the first time she turned him down. Probably not the second or third time either.

Then again, different cultures and what not, maybe she's just a shit person.
 

The Technomancer

card-carrying scientician
Perhaps the public attention was unwanted? Perhaps a guy making a big display in candles who you don't know very well is kinda creepy? Perhaps he smelled bad? The guy seemed like he needed a cooler head going into this.

No I mean why did he do this
 

Aureon

Please do not let me serve on a jury. I am actually a crazy person.
The question, to both parties, is the same:
Why would you embarrass a fellow human being like that?
 

Wiktor

Member
Harsh and humiliating, but the girl has shown her true colors. Better to be hurt like that and give up than to then learn the hardway during relationship what kind of person she truly is.
 

Koomaster

Member
To be honest, to get this kind of response, I'm gonna assume there is a history here and this is probably not the first time she turned him down. Probably not the second or third time either.

Then again, different cultures and what not, maybe she's just a shit person.
Yeah she's either the biggest bitch ever (in which case he dodged a bullet and should be glad) or he's been harassing this girl for a while to get her to go out with him. Those are the only scenarios which would illicit such a response.
 

kaioshade

Member
Birth of a supervillain.

Not quite sure about suervillain, but this is the kind of shit that can warp someone's mind. He could up having a very deep rooted resentment of women. Shit like that is not good.

Damn, she could have just said no. Wonder if thats the whole "princess girl" phenomenon at work again.
 
I would of been super tight if a guy did this to me as well. That type of public display is embarrassing and also forces you to comply with the situation in the eyes of many. It's also misleading and selfish. I probably wouldn't pour water on him but I would just leave and cuss him the fuck out when I saw him.
 

Bleepey

Member
I admire his confidence but he fucked up. I guess it's one of those learning experiences he learnt the hard way. In the same way you don't run through a airport lobby because that shit seemed romantic cos you watched one too many shitty romantic comedies, you don't lay out an orgy of lights cos you think it will help you get with her when by the sounds of it you don't know this girl that well.
 

Resilient

Member
Bone headed move but good on him for at least trying. Although he should have considered how the reciprocant may have been embarrassed by such an idea, he had the nads to put his heart on the line. Instead of asking her to hang out and talk video games.
 
Speaking from someone who had to embarrass someone in a similar way once, I wouldn't doubt that this wasn't the first time the boy expressed his interest.

A lot of guys out there, for SOME reason, think that "not interested" means "go bigger and bigger until I'm FORCED to be interested." Had a guy (who could have been a good friend), ask me out continuously, with me turning him down each time. Finally reached a breaking point when he uploaded an incredibly embarrassing youtube video of himself asking me out and posted it on facebook. It was incredibly mortifying. I defriended him, told him to leave me the fuck alone when he called, and never spoke to him again.

This poor kid obviously means well, but I'd bet any kind of money that this isn't his first time going after that girl unsuccessfully. She's was probably at a breaking point. Guys ALSO don't take into account how extremely embarrassing these "grand gestures" can be for the other person, especially if the interest isn't reciprocated.

Voice of reason does not work on GAF.



And yes, without know the background (which we will not know) it is impossible to judge the situation.

But even if it was not some kind of breakpoint, you should never do such a thing unless you are pretty sure that the girl also loves you and that she is cool with that kind of exposure. Unless it is a receipt for doom.
 

FourMyle

Member
Took a lot of guts doing what he did even though ill adviced.

How cruel to respond like that.

Let us be honest. If a girl had made this display and a boy had thrown the water everyone would be saying what a giant asshole he was.

If some uggo pulled something like this on me I'd absolutely drench her and all those stupid candles with whatever liquid I have at hand. This is a shitty situation to put someone - anyone - in and I wouldn't blame man or woman for reacting like this girl did.
 
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