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Be happy you were born in our time

How is this a bad thing? We could use more of this in today's Europe. In general the Middle Ages are made out to be far worse than they were. Sure we have a lot to be grateful for now, but they really weren't the hellish times they'd have you think.
There's an argument to be made for public executions.
 
The medieval period was one of the worst in history for human living conditions

During the glory periods of the Roman Empire and Ancient Egypt, it was perfectly common for humans to live safe and disease-free lives until dying of old age if they could survive the extremely high infant mortality of human history

Only around 50% of humans survived childbirth for most of history, but if you did, you could expect to live 40-50 years as a peasant and into your 60's as a member of gentry or nobility. There are reliable records which state Ramesses II (the Great) lived until he was 90+ years old

The Romans and Egyptians all bathed regularly and practiced as good hygiene as could be possible in those days and were known for eating cooked and spiced food. Most ancient texts from those civilizations have extensive recipe books in surviving writings suggesting that humans had already figured out how to make food taste good thousands of years ago
Egypt was definitely a better bet for quality of life in antiquity if you look at it from a birth lottery perspective simply because slaves made up a much smaller percentage of the population. The Roman Republic and Empire had a shit ton of slaves (Rome itself estimated to be around 25-30% slaves), and if you were born into that caste, your life was almost certainly worse than a medieval peasant's under feudalism.
 
What would be the best time to be born in. A good balance between the Dark Ages and Plague, and dumb AI slop and DEI politics
 
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- To put fear into the common people, the ruling class would gather everyone in the town square and mutilate criminals.

Where did you get all these points from? A lot of them are wrong or misconceptions. Also, Medieval Europe covers a large time frame and lots of different countries and that context is needed.

However, the above one really stands out. I study medieval English and French history (14th and 15th centuries predominantly) and I wouldn't agree with the above point.

While it is true that executions, amputations, branding, whipping, pillories, and stocks were often carried out before crowds, it wasn't used as a way of "terrorising the masses". The idea was to present justice being visibly done, thus restoring moral and social order.

Common people would have been used to this spectacle of punishment anyway. It certainly didn't make them fear the ruling class. If that were the case then we wouldn't have ordinary people uprising like in England in 1381 and the German Peasants War (1524-25) to name but a few (there were loads)
 
I am, I can't imagine what life was like at work before smartphones.
I remember it well. Not that I'm that old but I started working full time at a young age

When you left for the day, work actually stayed at work. No emails, no calls at 9 in the evening unless something was truly on fire. After hours felt properly disconnected and in a lot of ways a lot freer

These days you have to fight to disconnect and back then it came for free.
 
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I remember it well. Not that I'm that old but I started working full time at a young age

When you left for the day, work actually stayed at work. No emails, no calls at 9 in the evening unless something was truly on fire. After hours felt properly disconnected and in a lot of ways a lot freer

These days you have to fight to disconnect and back then it came for free.

There really is no excuse now to say "oh I missed your call" Everyone knows how cellphones work, even if you miss it, there's a notice there.
 
I remember it well. Not that I'm that old but I started working full time at a young age

When you left for the day, work actually stayed at work. No emails, no calls at 9 in the evening unless something was truly on fire. After hours felt properly disconnected and in a lot of ways a lot freer

These days you have to fight to disconnect and back then it came for free.
I have a vivid recollection of that as well, that when I was a kid, things felt more free and grounded because of the lack of phones and social media. I am not sure if that is just because I was a kid, but I feel more distracted now than ever.
 
I have been reading about Europe before the black death turned everything into fucking hell on Earth.

This is from Europe in the 13th century. A lot of this stuff was normal until 1700-1800-ish when modern tools and medicine started to emerge.

- 85% to 95% of people were farmers. You made your own food to survive.
- Larger cities needed a large surplus of food in the region to develop, which was rare.
- One bad harvest meant starvation for months.
- Death and grief was constant companions.
- Childhood was brutal, 30% to 40% of all kids died.
- It was not uncommon that people would band together in small groups and raid each others farms.
- There was nothing comparable to our state, people were on their own in all things.
- To put fear into the common people, the ruling class would gather everyone in the town square and mutilate criminals.
- Almost no one could read or write, they didn't bathe (they had no hot water and just rubbed themselves with clothes), rotten food everywhere.
- With no sanitation, dying from infections was common. People witnessed horrible deaths all the time from infected wounds, kids were very vulnerable.
- A successful life would be getting kids and survive to 40 (before you die horribly from a petty wound infection).
- Everybody would know stories of families and villages getting wiped out by famine and disease.
- Women got on average 5 to 8 kids, and about half of the kids made it past 20 years old.
- Kids started to work when they were 6-7 years old.
- It was rare that people went more than 25 km (15.5 miles) away from their farms during their lives.
- It was unthinkable to be non-religious, it was ingrained in everyone and everything.
- About 20% reached 60 years old in peaceful times.
- 15% to 20% of women died because of childbirth.
- Without sugar, teeth would not degraded like ours, but their teeth broke down from eating hard food, and tooth problems and pain was common. They ripped them out with pliers.
- Everyone had head lice.
- It was common to sleep next to large farm animals like cows and pigs for warmth.
 
I have a vivid recollection of that as well, that when I was a kid, things felt more free and grounded because of the lack of phones and social media. I am not sure if that is just because I was a kid, but I feel more distracted now than ever.
One way I try to escape that distracted feeling is by visiting my parents. Long walks with the dogs through farm fields (with permission), following the river so they can swim and hunt muskrat

And sometimes when the weather hits just right it feels like I'm 16 again
 
Things were very bad back then in places for centuries, but the dark ages were like a period of recovery from the Roman empire, so some people locally might perceive it as a boom time. There was slave trading and raiding for slaves after the collapse of the Empire but the Romans not only did this but did it on an a more industrial scale for plantations and mining. Literacy was only something for the elites and administrators in Rome, and that continued, but I suppose the elites were just less organized or numerous. There was war and hostile migration after the Empire fell, but also the later Romans were not doing well at stopping this. A problem for this period, and I suppose for Rome, is that the limited literacy means that there is a very skewed view of what life was like for normal people and people who wrote down what happened had a very skewed perspective. We see the medieval innovations as Europe trying to move past the hangover of the legacy of Roman rule.
 
I guess every age has its trade-offs. No matter your time or place in life, you pay for what you get. All-in-all, though, I'm incredibly thankful for my childhood, and the wonderful family I was born into. Even though most of them have passed away, they made the first 40 years of my life absolutely worth living. So, I wouldn't change a thing.

Except maybe AI. I don't like that shit at all.
 
This thread is a such a black pill. That obstensibly intelligent people can be happy to live in the most boring, soul compressing era of recorded history. Especially if you're born somewhere with access to consumer electronics and the internet. No one envies a house cat. Nothing is forged. There are no victories. The contests are fake. Without these ingredients true love is not possible, so it's not as if you're going to be getting the most of the downtime. It's basically prison.
 
This thread is a such a black pill. That obstensibly intelligent people can be happy to live in the most boring, soul compressing era of recorded history. Especially if you're born somewhere with access to consumer electronics and the internet. No one envies a house cat. Nothing is forged. There are no victories. The contests are fake. Without these ingredients true love is not possible, so it's not as if you're going to be getting the most of the downtime. It's basically prison.
this is why we do this...

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Any time I find myself in, I can make an existence in.

But this time has comic books and doritos. Im happy about that
 
I've always counted myself blessed that I was born in the late 80s and got to experience the 90s and 2000s in my childhood and adolescence. It was probably the greatest era to be a kid in.

But as a parent that's what's sobering to me. I got to experience what I consider to be a Golden Age for America, and then over the past 15-20 years I've been watching it slowly rot further and further with no end in sight. I get scared wondering what kind of world my kid will grow up in.
 
I don't know man. I feel like some sort of balance between technology/comfort and connection to nature would be better for the soul.

When I grew up I spent my summers with my grandfather in his cabin deep in the woods. We'd hike, fish, work the earth and row. He'd teach me about nature/animals, how to read maps & use a compass, gut and clean fish and basic camp skills and cooking over a flame. Best summers of my life.

Since then I went hiking by myself for several weeks every summer, just a backback, a tent and a map. Pure bliss. But sadly, as responsibilities grew and time became a premium, my time really interacting with nature became less and less. Until it reached a point where we (wife + kids) just hired a modern cabin for a weekend ...at which time I gave up trying.

I might be a hippie tree-hugger at heart or it might just be age catching up with me, but I've never felt so disconnected with myself as I've felt over the last decade+. I do belive that spending prolonged time in nature helps to ground us. Doom scrolling sure as fuck can't fill that hole.

Ah well, it is what it is. Wishing for things that can't be is a fools errand.
 
I do hate that I spend my free time before and after work just doom scrolling stupid slop on youtube or reddit. But what is there to even do on the internet other than that? Maybe I should try taking up reading. Like actual books.
 
If I wasn't born in our time, or least in the last ~70 years I'd almost certainly be dead. I had bacterial meningitis as a kid.
 
"We live in a dystopia" say the people with better standards of living than 99% of humans who have ever lived

Maybe not now but everything points to dystopia in the future:

- higher and higher cost of living with stagnant wages
- quick climate change (no matter if it is caused by humans, change is real)
- extreme pollution, plastic, toxins, pesticides etc.
- Ai taking our jobs (very real prospect, already happening to some people)
- wars about resources (first conflicts already happened)
- low fertility rates in developed countries (happening in developing countries as well)
- corporations having more and more control (Cyberpunk future)
- billionaires hoarding wealth like crazy

And all the things that I did forget about...

I'm talking about first world and maybe second world countries here. Third world countries often don't have much better better life conditions than medieval Europe (and that is happening right now).
 
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I agree that it's good to be alive today, but I think you're painting a way too grim picture of the past. Since the people back then did not know they could have it any better, at the end of the day they weren't any unhappier than anyone of us on average. You could even argue that they probably were happier than we today despite the circumstances. There is lots of good literature on this. I myself read about it from Jung and Frankl. That fact that having and getting food was your primary objective and hence loomed on everyone's mind constantly was what gave humans lives purpose by default. And the lack thereof is precisely the reason why many today struggle mentally as many/most are not able to fill the void this left behind. Some are able to fill it with something productive, many do not.
 
I think people who are aguing that it's still a good time to be alive are missing the point. Yes it's better to be alive now than it was hundreds of years ago, but there is a very real and noticeably decline in our living standards, ethics and prosperity over the past decade or two. On top of that there doesn't seem to be any real and meaningful changes being put in place to course correct the vast majority of serious problems we're having. This party is coming to an end, and there's a good chance we'll witness it in our lifetime, whatever it looks like.

Maybe not now but everything points to dystopia in the future:

- higher and higher cost of living with stagnant wages
- quick climate change (no matter if it is caused by humans, change is real)
- extreme pollution, plastic, toxins, pesticides etc.
- Ai taking our jobs (very real prospect, already happening to some people)
- wars about resources (first conflicts already happened)
- low fertility rates in developed countries (happening in developing countries as well)
- corporations having more and more control (Cyberpunk future)
- billionaires hoarding wealth like crazy

And all the things that I did forget about...

I'm talking about first world and maybe second world countries here. Third world countries often don't have much better better life conditions than medieval Europe (and that is happening right now).

I'd also add that many people in our society have abandonded basic human empathy. Go back 20 years ago and most people would find sensless violence and assassinations to be a tragedy. Nowadays we got people laughing at or celebrating the death of Charlie Kirk, and on the other side you've got people laughing at or saying shit like "Rip Bozo" about Renee Good. That feels dystopian to me. That we've grown to hate each other so much and that we're so used to violence now, that a lot of people can't just go "damn that sucks".
 
I'd also add that many people in our society have abandonded basic human empathy. Go back 20 years ago and most people would find sensless violence and assassinations to be a tragedy. Nowadays we got people laughing at or celebrating the death of Charlie Kirk, and on the other side you've got people laughing at or saying shit like "Rip Bozo" about Renee Good. That feels dystopian to me. That we've grown to hate each other so much and that we're so used to violence now, that a lot of people can't just go "damn that sucks".
More and more people are engaging socially online, and digital just doesn't replicate real life. You end up abstracting communication, so people don't have the same attachments to events that actually happen in their local community to people they know (or know somebody they know). People can fragment into their own bubbles being fed more of the exact views they have, so over time they have more disconnection with dissenting ones.

Throw in stupid statements like "we can't tolerate the intolerant", so if someone has a different view, you can dehumanize them, and abdicate any responsibility for decency.
 
Yeah.. Imagine using that 💀

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And this is happening in XXI century in many places in Russia.

Just consider that a lot of Russians are still living in Khrushchevkas.
These were low cost apartments built during the 60s, on mass. They were poorly built, but for the Russian serfdom, i was a huge improvement. And they were only meant to be used for around 15 years, until the government could catch up with demand and build better housing.
But this is Russia, so what was a temporary solution, became a permanent one, due to extreme corruption and incompetence.
 
Just consider that a lot of Russians are still living in Khrushchevkas.
These were low cost apartments built during the 60s, on mass. They were poorly built, but for the Russian serfdom, i was a huge improvement. And they were only meant to be used for around 15 years, until the government could catch up with demand and build better housing.
But this is Russia, so what was a temporary solution, became a permanent one, due to extreme corruption and incompetence.

Those are the lucky ones - running water, plumbing, electricity, central heating, sometimes elevators etc. Most of the poor bastards out of Moscow area have far worse conditions.

In Poland most of post soviet blocks are renovated (and insulated). I personally live in one from late 60s and it's solid as fuck - not ideal of course but better in some ways than new apartments build by develops trying to cut costs on everything.
 
Those are the lucky ones - running water, plumbing, electricity, central heating, sometimes elevators etc. Most of the poor bastards out of Moscow area have far worse conditions.

In Poland most of post soviet blocks are renovated (and insulated). I personally live in one from late 60s and it's solid as fuck - not ideal of course but better in some ways than new apartments build by develops trying to cut costs on everything.

Mind you, not all buildings in the USSR biult in the 60s are Khrushchevkas.
The Khrushchevkas are pre-fabricated, with slabs of concrete walls bind together.
There were concurrent projects at the time, with properly built apartments. But these too longer to build, were more expensive and often only meant for the "right people".
 
Mind you, not all buildings in the USSR biult in the 60s are Khrushchevkas.
The Khrushchevkas are pre-fabricated, with slabs of concrete walls bind together.
There were concurrent projects at the time, with properly built apartments. But these too longer to build, were more expensive and often only meant for the "right people".

Yeah, mine was build using some kind of hollow bricks but there are a lot of buildings that used pre-fabricated slabs - mostly from 80s.

Images from Ukraine with building like that are fucking terrifying:

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I wonder what life will be like 500 years from now.
I asked Grok to calculate how many native people there will be in Europe, Asia and Americas in the year 2500 if the current birthrate stays the same as it is now

Europe: approximately 30 million (compared to today's 750 million)
Americas: approximately 60 million (compared to today's 1 billion)
Asia: approximately 600 million (compared to today's 4.5 billion)

Of course, the birthrates are likely to go down even further, and I don't really see how they could go up, without some drastic use of force (such as outlawing under death penalty porn, contraceptives, abortions..).
Or maybe we will just grow children in laboratories or some shit.
 
I wonder what life will be like 500 years from now.
I asked Grok to calculate how many native people there will be in Europe, Asia and Americas in the year 2500 if the current birthrate stays the same as it is now

Europe: approximately 30 million (compared to today's 750 million)
Americas: approximately 60 million (compared to today's 1 billion)
Asia: approximately 600 million (compared to today's 4.5 billion)

Of course, the birthrates are likely to go down even further, and I don't really see how they could go up, without some drastic use of force (such as outlawing under death penalty porn, contraceptives, abortions..).
Or maybe we will just grow children in laboratories or some shit.

Yeah, I said it in some thread while ago, human population will start collapsing at some point:

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Women may face handmaid style future ~100 years from now. So far nothing that developed countries tried (to improve birthrate) worked so it may end up with force or children from laboratory like you said.
 
Women may face handmaid style future ~100 years from now. So far nothing that developed countries tried (to improve birthrate) worked so it may end up with force or children from laboratory like you said.
Ain't going to be any laboratory babies. Rich people who complain about lower birth rates don't actually help out with the main thing that is stopping people from having children which is the cost when the are barely getting by as is. Laboratory babies would be more expensive than just helping people out financially or creating a society where people didn't need to work as much to meet basic needs.
 
main thing that is stopping people from having children which is the cost when the are barely getting by as is.
This is untrue. Birthrates are lowest in the most developed, wealthiest countries. People were vastly poorer for all of human history and had lot more children. It made sense because kids worked and contributed and child mortality was much higher. There were no contraceptives and no instant access to infinity naked women in the palm of everyone's hand though.
 
This is untrue. Birthrates are lowest in the most developed, wealthiest countries. People were vastly poorer for all of human history and had lot more children. It made sense because kids worked and contributed and child mortality was much higher. There were no contraceptives and no instant access to infinity naked women in the palm of everyone's hand though.
Child rearing is the sort of labor that cannot show up in GDP measurements. GDP also tells you little about how affordable it is to live in that country. It might tell you that the richest people in that country can afford to have as many test tube babies as they want and hire staff to raise them, but it can't tell you about how much regular people are feeling the pinch of costs, how much extra cost related to child care they would have to take on and how much they feel they have to keep working just to live instead of staying home to raise kids. Now if you are saying that suddenly billionaires are going to start lobbying for free IVF and universal generous childcare benefits instead of things like more tax breaks for them, more government contracts for them, then GDP might be leveraged.
 
Birthrates are lowest in the most developed, wealthiest countries.
Where the wealth gap is at its highest, so the common folk have to pay more on things like mortgages, rent, utilities, etc compared to those of the poorer countries.

Want to entice young people to breed? Maybe change things so a modern blue collar household doesn't have to have both parents working full time and therefore having to spend like an additional months rent on childcare just so you can afford to stay living in your home whilst bringing up said children.
 
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