Ones I don’t use at all anymore would be Gamefaqs and Resetera. Gamefaqs was just so dead and boring.
Resetera seemed like the place to be but it was quickly made clear you had to have the correct thoughts, say the right things, and fall in line or you’d be banned. I got banned many times and decided to quit because I knew I wasn’t welcome there. I’ve been banned a lot on here too lol so yeah I’ll admit I can go too far at times but I didn’t think I was saying shit that was controversial/offensive on there so I was getting banned and left wondering the reason.
I do still read gaming subs on Reddit but haven’t posted anything in years. It’s another place you gotta watch what you say. You say the wrong thing and you get downvoted so basically they like to hide stuff they don’t agree with and silence people. People are more aggressive and looking to start arguments.
GTA Forums I have posted on it the odd time over the last decade…I mean it’s been a decade since we had a new GTA game so not really much reason to go there. Well not until the leaks of VI last year. I posted for a while when that happened but probably won’t go back until we get some new info.
Yeah there is a lot of truth to that. Resetera never appealed to me because after spending so much time on other forums where awful controlling and biased moderators ruined any enjoyment or engagement to be had, I had zero interest in having anything to do with another site like that. Those sites are fine for the kind of cronies and yes-men that the moderators like and agree with, but it sucks for everyone else. No thanks.
As for Reddit, you are right in that it's not exactly a place for casual discussions outside of some small specific subs you might fall into. On all the popular subs popular consensus seems to rule and if you're the odd man out you have a target on your back for all the downvoting and negativity. That's why I just stick to specific topics, like I never really go there for a sense of community, I go there because I have a question about a specific topic or something. It's the only forum site where it's size and variety is what gives it value.
I used to go on NTSC-uk a lot but it got a bit boring. It was the same old people posting the same old things over and over again. It also got a bit cliquey with some people just looking for arguments.
That is honestly what I have against most smaller or dying forums after a while. The userbase gets really cliquish, with the same old users who all have problems with everyone else, and most attempts at a discussion simply result in petty arguments with very argumentative people. It's basically the final nail in the coffin that finally drives me away.
IGN Boards before Insider, Insider-only boards, and the Vestibule ruined them.
On man, you're a real old timer just like me! Heck you might even predate my peak era on that site, I had the best time there before the insider boards broke up community boards and everything got consolidated onto the vestibule, although the early years of the vesti were still pretty fun though, back in the Tal era, when it was stern but fair.
Peak Gametrailers was the golden age of videogame forums for me. So many good people, tight community. Great laughs, nice threads. In its final moments before death they even added privately controlled subforums. Amazing idea.
Tons of trolling and console warring as well, but that was the norm then.
Of course then Gametrailers was bought [or something, I don't even remember] and a new horde of mods cracked down on all the fun. People were permabanned left and right, early stage wokeism caused rot and turned users away. A lot of instances where power-tripping mods went way over the line, made the forums a dire place. It's amazing how fast something like a forum can collapse.
I kept connecting with some of them during every big videogame event to watch events together, but even that has passed as time goes on.
Godspeed to all former Gametrailers forum members.
What happened to Gametrailers sounds a lot like what happened to Gamefaqs and IGN boards. I guess most failed or failing forums seem to fall into same pattern. Abusive/authoritarian moderators driving everyone away, normal people being turned away by their biases, eventually causing the userbase to collapse, which has been the death of every forum I have seen come and go.