That would be girl
and my big talk (which is rare for me) it's only because I have a connection to the guy who purchases and manages the phone lines/trees there and handles tech support.
His answer: They don't have an 800 number for non subscription based games because they offer free web support. Also right now they are receiving over 5000 calls a day for Sims 2 alone, which is being handled by a team of eight people. Needless to say they have to turn calls away.
Support for common issues is posted at techsupport.ea.com. He's willing to bet the problem has to do with trying to run it below specs, and that just won't work with this game. You have to meet all specs. You can also e-mail for specific support, and turn around time is usually 24 hours, but with the current rush he says expect it to be a couple of days.
He says if you post the problem and your computer specs to the board or PM me he'll see about getting you an answer when he goes to work tomorrow. If he's feeling nice he could have someone CALL YOU. So please don't cop a 'tude.