n January 24th, 2011, a representative of the Toronto Police gave shocking insight into the Forces view of sexual assault by stating: women should avoid dressing like sluts in order not to be victimized.
As the citys major protective service, the Toronto Police have perpetuated the myth and stereotype of the slut, and in doing so have failed us. With sexual assault already a significantly under-reported crime, survivors have now been given even less of a reason to go to the Police, for fear that they could be blamed. Being assaulted isnt about what you wear; its not even about sex; but using a pejorative term to rationalize inexcusable behaviour creates an environment in which its okay to blame the victim.
Historically, the term slut has carried a predominantly negative connotation. Aimed at those who are sexually promiscuous, be it for work or pleasure, it has primarily been women who have suffered under the burden of this label. And whether dished out as a serious indictment of ones character or merely as a flippant insult, the intent behind the word is always to wound, so were taking it back. Slut is being re-appropriated.
We are tired of being oppressed by slut-shaming; of being judged by our sexuality and feeling unsafe as a result. Being in charge of our sexual lives should not mean that we are opening ourselves to an expectation of violence, regardless if we participate in sex for pleasure or work. No one should equate enjoying sex with attracting sexual assault.
We are a movement demanding that our voices be heard. We are here to call foul on our Police Force and demand change. We want Toronto Police Services to take serious steps to regain our trust. We want to feel that we will be respected and protected should we ever need them, but more importantly be certain that those charged with our safety have a true understanding of what it is to be a survivor of sexual assault slut or otherwise.
it should've happened a few weeks ago, we had a false spring for a week. Now real spring got delayed.