Actually, for many individuals, obesity is linked to a lack of happiness and self-acceptance. If you look fat, feel fat and are called fat, you already feel outcast enough that you go to food for comfort. It just perpetuates the cycle.
There is a psychological benefit to accepting yourself as you are. Modern society has a huge problem with body shaming and general body image issues, especially among young girls and women. If you feel you are fighting a losing battle and can never achieve that perfect body that relies as much upon genetics as diet and activity, you may give up trying.
If you can love yourself, you may be more motivated to take better care of yourself. So maybe there is some good that can come of these movements.
Preach.
But isn't the message "you are good just like you are now", as opposed to "you can make yourself better"? If you use "You are good just like you are" to deal with negative emotions then people will make that thought part of the center of their new self. Or in other words, no amount of "You can improve yourself" will get trough because that would invalidate the one thought they used to solve their issues ("Being overweight is OK") --> all the mental issues with being overweight would come straight back.
It will make people feel better but I don't see how it will have a positive effect on long term physical health.
When it comes to the psychological foundations behind obesity, it gets really thorny and there is no good answer that covers most cases. That said, self-image is a significant factor for alot of it and simply put, the message of 'you can be better' has an inherent judgment of you are not acceptable. More to the point though, it also works with an assumption that the person has a measure of value for their own self image. If their self-image is compromised, the answer to 'you can be better' is 'No, i'll never be better'. It is s positive message, but not an affirming one and you're dealing with a very negative self image problem.
'You are good as you are' is not just positive but affirming. Its meant to boost the self image and possibly take that person from reliance on food for positive reinforcement, even if only a bit.
ArkhamFantasy said:
I agree with your sentiment though.
Really. Any idea why soda has sodium in it? A substance that dehydrates you in a beverage, in theory, meant to give you hydration?
How about where you find the least processed foods in a grocery store? The perimeter of the store, as far from the entrance as they can make it.
Ever see chocolate commercials where it is equated with sex? How about cereal commercials that specifically call it happiness? Or the huge feasts at the dinner table with the happy family?
Ever price check eating healthy versus eating bad? Eating bad wins by a mile.
As I said, people have to be responsible about their own health. Any other method would be infeasible. So in that sense, I agree with the both of you.
But let's not act like food companies have been acting responsibly towards consumers either.