Feel like I'm at the end of the road in terms of my education.

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I had to put a lot of thought into how I was going to put this to the weird and specific way these events worked out.

I'll start with some backstory as it fits in to all of this. So, here goes: I lived in Manhattan throughout my entire life until a terrible series of events committed by my step-father lead to us going homeless. We lived in special housing and had to go from place to place, until we hit Staten Island. Once Hurricane Sandy hit, we were unable to afford living there.

For my first full year of high school I was homeschooled. This is because we moved to a very small area in New Hampshire which had no major opportunities (e.g. AP exams, IB, school ECs) So, I was homeschooled. It was a great experience. I read a lot more books than my peers did, got a lot more opportunities, mastered a second language, as well as came out with more experience in certain life experiences. My mother homeschooled me and was able to afford textbooks and other materials because it was cheaper to do so where we chose to live.

I graduated at 17 and also took extra high school courses alongside the tenure. At the end of the day, my GPA was 3.71. My strongest subjects were reading (I used Goodreads and the NYT Bestsellers lists for recommended books to read; Great Global Conversation speech collection for reference and speechwriting, as well as a resource to use alongside some of my historical courses)

As for ECs, there were no major volunteer opportunities and the local high school had none of the major EC opportunities such as class president or editor for the school newspaper. So, I furthered a project I began working on at 14 -- starting a translation group dedicated to translating video games, printed materials, news, and other similar types of things for people around the world. This was brought to fruition when I was 15. I purchased the domain and web hosting; setup the server and other necessary elements, as well as designed the site and invested in its graphic design and branding. After that, I scoped out work.

So, to continue with that, a skill of mine began to really mature after graduation. This skill was Japanese proficiency. I studied the language from second grade up until I became proficient in it. As of today, my JLPT ranking is "N2," the second highest proficiency rank you can get. During this time (from age 15 up to 18; the game was announced in 2013 and released in 2016), I was enlisted by a reporter to translate information (This includes: printed interviews and media; trailers; text interviews; video interviews) for a major new game that was launching in Japan within three years (The game was Persona 5; I did and still do translations for Persona Central)

I took on the offer and had my translations publicly published and would translate for every event, as well as translate every new bit of official info revealed. This would sometimes mean staying up at odd hours, translating four hour events live for viewers, and more. I did this from 2013 to 2016, and I was offered earlier this year to partner with a composer in Japan on translating materials for his concerts, which I will start working on in the spring of 2017. This means that I will be heading down to Tokyo to appear at the venues and meet with this composer.

The reporter wrote me a letter of recommendation. I was also chosen to be a student ambassador before I was homeschooled, but could not afford it. My main issue was not affording major things outside of the necessary tuition as part of my homeschool curriculam. So, a lot was sacrificied to pay the bills.

Before that, during the years of 15 up to my graduation, I worked on deencrypting and reprogramming a game in order to translate it. I also went to California for two months. As part of my homeschooling, I was taught political science and US history as an honors course. Throughout my homeschool tenure, I read sources such as The New York Times every day as part of a "Current Events" discussion class.

Doing the work I did and with me readjusting financially, I could never take the SAT and ACT before or right after graduating. There was a lot of work to balance, including a part-time job I started. Due to where I currently live, I had wanted to craft my own skills and ECs that challenged me and interested me, both educationally, socially, as well as business-wise. I also used the opportunity I got by translating for a wide and diverse community by speaking to people from countries such as India, Japan, China, Taiwan, South Korea, France, Canada, Italy, as well as Germany and Brazil.

Now I'm recently 19 and finally have time to take both tests and rebalance my schedule in preparation to enter college, and am realizing it's late to apply to NYU 2020. I'm not nervous about getting mediocre scores, but I'm nervous about it being too late -- or rather, too late to enjoy the carefree college years or the experience of writing for a a school newspaper.

I worry that maybe someone like me wouldn't be able to get into NYU, or that my prime years have passed. A lot happened to me when I was young, from being abandoned by my biological father to being abused by my step-father and watching him gamble away all our money, leaving us penniless to pick up the pieces and experiencing financial and social challenges -- these hurdles that I had to leap across as hard as they may have been.

But now, it feels like maybe it's too late for me to go to NYU, my dream school ever since I was in grade school due to the fact that I'd be enrolled in 2018, when I'd be 20 turning 21. My other fear is that maybe I won't get in because I was homeschooled and due to me not being as financially able as most.

It's truly made me depressed. I feel like I'm past my prime when it comes to going to a university like NYU as a freshman/undergraduate and am not like a traditional student in any way. And it's that which lead me to making this thread.

I also really do want to go back home to Manhattan, and this feeling that I won't be able to live out these dreams at all has made me feel pretty sad.

Any advice? Did I mess up in how I did things? What should I do now? I originally posted this somewhere else (not on GAF), but didn't get any responses there yet.
 
You are 19.

You have plenty of time to go to college and still enjoy living the college life.

Talk to an admissions counselor, that is the reason why the exist.

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Also take the SATs as the ACTs are largely irrelevant now a days.

Also reconsider going to NYU for 4 years, go to community college for two years. You don't want to graduate with tons of financial burden because NYU was your dream school. You'll kick yourself for it later in life.
 
You have plenty of time, and you seem to have plenty of skills to succeed. Take a deep breath, then take the exams and apply. You will be fine.
 
Edit:
Also take the SATs as the ACTs are largely irrelevant now a days.

It's exactly the other way around -- the ACTs are become more relevant compared with the SATs, and especially this year because the SAT format change has universities antsy about the scaling.
 
dude i'm 21, i just transferred to a new school, and im a sophomore again

nobody cares lol, hell nobody will even know probably unless you tell them

i also had these fears when i transferred, but it's fine, you're still in the same age range and phase of life
 
It's exactly the other way around -- the ACTs are become more relevant compared with the SATs, and especially this year because the SAT format change has universities antsy about the scaling.

I didn't realize the SATs changed format this year? What is the change?

Aren't both tests not being required by a lot of campuses now?
 
I didn't realize the SATs changed format this year? What is the change?

Aren't both tests not being required by a lot of campuses now?
Depends on the school/area of the country, but most schools take both now, and the ones that don't usually just take the ACT. No idea about NYU
 
I didnt graduate with a Bachelors degree until I was 25. I took time off to explore things too.

I graduated magna cum laude with Mathematics BS degree and did the pre-med curriculum. Along the way I got A+ in Organic Chem 2.

Now I'm a PhD student doing research for infrastructure resilience and reliability using simulation and new algorithms.

Dude you have not lost on anything, yet anyway.
 
A lot of people do not reach their dreams...that is how life goes, but you are still a pup. You can do it if you really want to.
 
YOu'll be fine. You got time to get your undergrad. You can then decide on a Masters. Then there are the other nerd degrees after that.
 
Now I'm recently 19

I worry that maybe someone like me wouldn't be able to get into NYU, or that my prime years have passed.

I know that this is serious to you but thinking your prime is over at 19 is ridiculous.

At your age I worked an office job for several years being going back to college.

Now I have a STEM PhD.
 
At you're age, I dropped out and was working as a waiter at home after earning a 0.6 GPA.

I took a delay in the middle to work some more, got sick, and dumped >_<

But I'm about to finish my degree for Ch E, while working as a Technical Resource Developer and doing Research in Biofuels.

The only thing is, it's much harder for me to learn than the other younger students around me. Simply because you had 16 years of conditioning going into College, while I had about 5 years of rot I've never been able to shake off. It took me longer to re-learn Calc then it did for me to learn it the first time, and I'm worse at it still. Heh.
 
Honestly, just tell this to them. Colleges don't want to see perfection, they want to see tenacity, perseverance through hardship, and dedication to education. If you use your essay to do this, you're a shoo-in. Fuck dude, your resume is infinitely stronger than mine, and I got in to this college! Verbalize this to them and they'll recognize your potential and give no shits as to your age.

Speaking as an NYU student, if financial viability is your main priority, the only way you can make this work is if you don't live in a dorm here because that really inflates your tuition costs. If you have any other questions about it, I can try and answer it if you want to know about the """NYU""" experience.
 
I went back to school when I was 26 so you're never too old. Felt a little awkward, but no one really gives a shit about age and lots of people start school at different ages.
 
What am I reading. I went back to school when I was 26, competed a degree after turning 30, and now I work at a major company.

Ah to be young enough to think you were old, again...
 
#1 dude, you sound farther ahead than probably 90-95% of everyone else your age. You've got people barely able to function on a daily basis without their parents help and you're already setting up international contacts, running freelance work, and cultivating actual marketable skills. That's amazing.

#2 College doesn't have to have anything to do with age. I graduated with my undergrad at 30 because of major life setbacks and I'm glad I did it. If it's important to you, do it no matter your age. In fact, there's research that argues taking 2 years off before starting college can actually be a real boon to future success there.

#3 being poor can really help with college due to grant opportunities and having a rough background that you overcame will only help you in an application letter.

Life is crazy at this age, but your 20's are for finding yourself and making mistakes and you're not even there yet. You have goals and wants. Try to work towards them, but it's OK if priorities or circumstances change. As long as you keep working towards a future where you keep trying to better yourself, you'll absolutely land on your feet somehow even if it's in ways you'd never have expected right now. Just look at where you were even 5 years ago and I think you'll see that.

Good luck!
 
Man, I just went back to community college this fall at 30 to finish my associates degree. I was homeschooled for high school but I kind of forgot about the schooling part.

I'm pretty sure you'll be fine.

Even if you can't get into NYU you're definitely not at the end of the line unless you choose to be.
 
I was expecting you to be way older, OP. You're so young and have a hell of a resume at your age. I won't echo what other users said except that you can still go to college despite being poor. You'll most likely get grants and even if that doesn't help, you can try scholarships. I came from a poor family, worked 2 jobs to pay for my semester in college, and got a BS in CS. Grants usually have a minimum how requirement, mine was a 3.2.

I wish the best for you. I always love seeing people who came from nothing to rise in their lives.


Edit: oh, the poster below also made a good point. Go to a community college first to save a ton of money. After that, make sure your credits are actually transferable to the college you want to go to.
 
Maybe do some time at Community College first? Stack up cash so you can pay for school and be debt-free if possible. There's no rush, don't worry
 
Jesus, you've accomplished and done more than I've done in 30 years.


And by that I mean I haven't done dick, never went past High School.


You'll be fine.
 
OP..not trying to be a dick but wtf is this bs? You are 19, too old "past your prime" my ass lol Plenty of uni students work for a few years before going to college, and many veterans are in the mid/late 20s or even their 30s when they start using their GI Bill and start their freshman classes. I doubt anyone is gonna notice or care about your age, you'll fit right in. And with your work experience you already have a better resume than most of your peers, you'll be fine. You should be feeling pretty damn confident instead of worrying.
 
Don't despair. You might be too late to apply to NYU for the fall. You should try to get in regardless, but accept that it might not be in your immediate future. Your story is compelling though, you should at the very least contact their admissions department and explain the situation.

If you don't get in, however, you should not give up. There is always next year. Plan on how to make the next year of your life productive. You mentioned not having many extracurricular activities? Well, now that you are almost out of school, how about picking a few up? Maybe volunteering somewhere outside of the school would be more your style. Well, you've got some time to do it, give it a shot.

You could also try taking a few classes at a local community college? Do you still live in the city? I'm pretty sure the deadline for CUNY and other community college institutions have not passed. It may even be a better fit for you financially (since you mentioned that you were not in great shape in that way). You can take a few classes and transfer later on.

The main thing is not to give up. You've got your whole life ahead of you, and school can wait. Just don't let the time you did spend go to waste.

BTW, one of my good friends from college designed a mod for a game (Myth: The Fallen Lords). He used that experience to get him into a top notch school. Your experience sounds similar to his -- so, use that to your advantage. Producing something substantial at your age is no joke.
 
You're 19 years old. Keep doing what you're doing and you'll be fine. Hell, you accomplished more than most of the people I know.

Most people I know my age (23) didn't get jack shit done with their lives, or are still don't know what they want or are going to do. You should be confident and feel accomplished as hell
 
I'm 32 and just started as a junior at the university. Even at CC level, there's plenty of people of all ages. Plus most 19 yr olds are flunking their first semester trying to live up to a hyped college life that doesn't really exist.

The downside to being young is being considered a dependent and the requirement of parental income for your EFC. Maybe try to find a job that helps with tuition assistance. But don't downplay opportunities to go to a different college. I used to dream of living back in my hometown, but the further away I lived and the longer I lived away, the more I realized that home is my memories and not what it is today. Places change, people change, and what you remember might not be today's reality.
 
To put this as candidly as i can, it seems you have a history of overachievement compared to most people. So i can see how this may seem a slight against you. But it isn't. Truth is life will throw these curveballs every now and again. But it should never stop you.
 
OP, the first half of that post could very well make for a bragging post.
High grades, second language, etc, only 19....

There are people who will go their whole lives without any single thing you listed in the OP.

Some of those people go back to school later in life, and are able to accomplish something. Maybe not a 3.7 GPA, maybe not a second language, but people come to college of all kinds to accomplish something. There was a 70 year old who was in my anthropology class.
 
Thank you so much for the responses, guys. It really got my head straight. I really was worried that because I'd be two years older (applying for Class of 2021 in 2018 due to just missing the deadline, so I'll be 21 if I start in Fall 2018) that it'd be odd compared to an 18 year old fresh out of high school applying.

I had no ECs, which is why I had to craft my own ECs as you all may have read, and it's for that reason that I am now going in later. I was mainly worried that at 20, it'd be too late to have the same college experience my peers would have or something silly like that. I want to experience being in a dorm, writing for a school newspaper, studying abroad, as well as working for my community.

I lived in Manhattan for most of my life and had to leave right when I was in the middle of landing those opportunities. I had some rough teenage years due to being homeless, losing finances, losing family and having to readjust while focusing on my education and translating. So, reading your responses gave me confidence that my school days aren't past my prime as I was so anxiety riddled about.

That anxiety is mainly in response to my fears, especially my yearning to go back home after almost five years here. So, I really worried about being the "odd one out" per se if I went in at 20, instead of say, 18.

This is my dream school, and I'd do anything to get into it. I know what I want to major in and where I want to go for graduate school. So, I used these two extra years to craft a unique résumé that shows my experiences and interests.

Thanks for your advice and reassurance, guys. In 2017, I will get this done now that my schedule, as well as path are clear and set towards this. I'll keep you all updated.

EDIT: Also, this post was never meant as a brag of any kind. I wanted to list what I did in exchange for the lack of traditional ECs, as well as the things I did lack due to finances. I am sincerely sorry if it came off as a brag, and I forget sometimes how major my ECs are compared to most ECs. I just didn't know how to piece this whole post together while mentioning those, and I wanted to be as concise as possible on what my strengths are.
 
Thank you so much for the responses, guys. It really got my head straight. I really was worried that because I'd be two years older (applying for Class of 2021 in 2018 due to just missing the deadline) that it'd be odd compared to an 18 year old fresh out of high school applying.

I had no ECs, which is why I had to craft my own ECs as you all may have read, which is why I am now going in later. I was mainly worried that at 20, it'd be too late to have the same college experience my peers would have or something silly like that. I want to experience being in a dorm, writing for a school newspaper, studying abroad, as well as working for my community.

I lived in Manhattan for most of my life and had to leave right when I was in the middle of landing those opportunities. I had some rough teenage years due to being homeless, losing finances, losing family and having to readjust while focusing on my education and translating. So, reading your responses gave me confidence that my school days aren't past my prime as I was so anxiety riddled about.

That anxiety is mainly in response to my fears, especially my yearning to go back home after almost five years here. So, I really worried about being the "odd one out" per se if I went in at 20, instead of say, 18.

This is my dream school, and I'd do anything to get into it. I know what I want to major in and where I want to go for graduate school. So, I used these two extra years to craft a unique résumé that shows my experiences and interests.

Thanks for your advice and reassurance, guys. In 2017, I will get this done now that my schedule, as well as path are clear and set towards this.
Motherfucker, aim higher. I had a third of the experience you had and I got into this stupid university. Apply to some Ivys, for god's sake. Seriously, your story is too impressive for NYU, unless you're applying to Stern. Even then, aim so much higher than us.
 
Motherfucker, aim higher. I had a third of the experience you had and I got into this stupid university. Apply to some Ivys, for god's sake. Seriously, your story is too impressive for NYU, unless you're applying to Stern. Even then, aim so much higher than us.

Seriously. OP. I resent and hate you lol.

Save the "I'm fucking things up" thoughts for those of us who have earned it. :P
 
My last boss went back to school to get her law degree at age 53. Had graduated, worked a career, retired, then decided she wanted to become a lawyer. Had to go back and dig up her high school transcripts from 35 years ago, all that.

Did it, opened her own practice, did that for fifteen years.
 
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