Gaf I'm 21

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Time pass so fast, I'm technically a "responsible adult" and still did nothing in my life.

Is someone in the same case ?

It's normal if this thread reminds you something
 
Gonna turn 21 in latter half of this year. I am doing pretty good actually, but yes, I do agree that time passes so fast. I still remember 8-9 years ago watching beyblade and shit.
 
I turned 20 today. It's a pretty strange experience. I feel a little stuck in life too.

Also I know it's normal these days, but still living my parents feels odd.
 
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I'm 22 and I don't feel all that different compared to when I was in High School, except I am gaining weight more easily than before.
 
21 year olds are kids who can buy alcohol.

i wish someone had given me the memo back then that worrying about how old I was then was completely delusional.
 
I'm 32 today. 30's have been far kinder than 20's so far, but they were definitely fun. 20's are for fumbling and figuring out stuff. And you don't ever really "figure it out." Sometimes I'm still surprised that I'm doing grown up things. Lol. Happy birthday. Enjoy it.
 
I turn 27 in March and I've felt this way for years.

I want a reset button on a part of my life so I can be more successful instead of putting faith in the wrong people like I did in my past.
 
I can relate. I turn 22 in a couple months and I feel like I've squandered my time as a young adult because I keep jumping college careers searching for a path in life, but never finding anything that ignites any passion or self-identity.

I know I'm still young, but it depresses me to see my friends and siblings commit to a career early on and get degrees/real world experience, while all I really have to show for myself is nearly 4 years in fast food.

I keep thinking about it daily and it sucks all my self-confidence, which reflects in my poor performance towards taking risks or going on dates.

But in the end, I realize its the mindset that destroys me, which I hope you don't adopt OP. I've never been bullied and nobody ever tried to put me down, so its sadly humorous how I made myself my worst enemy.
 
It's time to get drunk and go out. Post a play-by-play of your sexcapades here on GAF. Include pics and a vocaroo of your victim.
 
OP, are you in good shape??
If not, start getting into good shape NAOW!

I only started proper exercise a year ago at age 28 and its so much harder when you're older.
 
Being a responsible adult is a myth adults create to scare kids. There's no such thing.
You just bumblefuck your way through life.
But that's okay. Because GAF has taught me that so long as you exercise and work out, that's all that matters.
 
I turn 20 in two months. Shit is weird. Go get drunk and hit a strip club or bar.

Same boat, except next month for me.
Oh God.
But I feel nothing. Since 19 is okay for everything in Ontario, I'm going to be 19 until I'm 21. Then I'll be 21 for many, many, many years. It's how it was meant to be.
 
Go out and get fucked up, you've got plenty more years to constantly question if you've gotten past some arbitrary line in the sand in regards to your age and life accomplishments.
 
Now try to do something with your life otherwise you'll have a bunch of regrets. Make sure to make mistakes that will propel you forward but not too many that they'll bring you down. Date a lot, a lot, the more experience the better. Don't forget to make friends and show care. I'm out.
 
You aren't supposed to have done much yet. You're at the very beginning of your adult life. Quit worrying and go have some fun.

Yep. 21 is a blip on your adult radar. If you're 40 and feel like you've done nothing, then maybe you'd have a problem.

*cliche saying*
You have your WHOLE LIFE ahead of you, stop worrying that you haven't done anything yet at your young YOUNG age and have fun.
*cliche saying*
 
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