callous said:
I very much doubt a person who finds, for example, the design of some well-proportioned cartoon female with feline facial features and a tail pleasing to the eye, would automatically also want to fuck your cat. Relax, christ.
Honestly, at this point a lot of the haters (who seem to spawn from the closet-queer/gamer/hipster geek crowd - oh look, a stereotype!) don't realize that actual furry fans generally roll their eyes and laugh at all the hate - although it can be exapserating, stupid, and annoying. Essentially it's white noise and trash that just gets in the way of everybody chilling the hell out and enjoying whatever they enjoy.
Part of the irony of the hatred of non-humanized characters (in every way, from "sensuality" to "gay" to "uncool") is that a huge part of what started the formal furry/anthropomorphics fandom over 20 years ago, was artists, comic fans, and writers being
bored to tears with the same generic human and human-oid characters. In science fiction, fantasy, super heroes, and comic books.
Furry, some in the fandom feel, has gotten so much hatred and stereotyping on the Internet and used as "freak show" material in the media, because it happens to cross over many subjects that a lot of people have issues with. Ironically, it seems to be literally too "happy" for some. It's "inane". Here it garners some of the same hate that Japanese pop-culture does for similiar reasons. Due to nearly accidentall circumstances in the early formation of the fandom, there are a lot of gay and bi men and women in it. The stereotype that it's virtually all gay or bi is ridiculous however, and simply isn't true. However we all know how a lot of people see any hint of a gay person and flip their lid, and begin coming up with wonky theories, presumed statistics, and whatever. There's a lot of use of "pr0n" in furry - this is quite true. Why? Because the exotic nature of the anthropomorphic characters is sensual to a lot of people. One thing that's misunderstood with absolute determination by a lot of people is that it is the fusion of human and non-human characteristics that creates an "alien" and exotic attraction for the vast majority of people who find something sexual - or even merely sensual (there is a difference, geekdom - dare I say, get a girl/boyfriend?) Not that this makes a difference to some - despite the fact that human beings have a huge range of tastes, kinks, and attractions. I mean, plenty of people still get squicked over gay people (even when they proclaim tolerance). And you know what? If you're squicked, fine, you're squicked. Merely being squicked though, doesn't excuse a lot of the over-the-top hatred and vilifiying that goes on.
Are there people in furry fandom who do act without any social skills or intelligence? Why yes, there are. Due to the mechanics of sub-cultures, one could even say there are a larger number of
obvious people of this sort. There's also a lot of num-nuts of different flavors - but the same basic issues - in the Linux community, comic book fan, and in computer gaming. Get a mirror or get over it - geeze.
One of the most amusing yet sad things I've seen on the Internet was on another general forum, that happened to have a large gamer population. The forum has a FAQ which lists logical fallacy and bad arguments, and the mods proclaim that everybody should be a grown up and able to discuss things without stereotypes and flames and acting like children. On the same forum, a new person posted a question about anthropomorphic characters that by any adult, sane standard, was inoffensive. The mod immediately locked the thread and told him to bugger off to a furry board.
Yeah. Right.
By and large, the perspective among anthropomorphic fans and people who amazingly don't flip out over the entire thing, is that there seem to be an awful lot of 20-something geeks, nerds, and hipsters who are looking for the next lowest man on the social totem pole to push down. I find it intriguing that on this very form, gamers continually moan and sometimes even rage about the persistant public perception of gaming as "teh kiddy" or causing violence or being a horrible thing, full of perversion and celebrating "poor values", what with all them soldier games where you gib heads. And of course, they turn around and happily participate in applying the same treatment to the next sub-culture they percieve as being the thing to hate on.
Ultimately, there's a lot more to something like furry than all the stereotypes that get tossed around. (Which is true of most anything.) Furry will still be here when the online jerk and cynic culture of the day moves on to something else, and proceeds to freak out anew. In the meantime, the Internet gets itself blanketed by absurd amounts of ill-will, chaff, and haterade. And we get to watch absurdities like people feel unable to look at anthropomorphic characters without being a "sicko", or gamers argue now that classic game characters are disgusting, because they're furry. I know a lot of people like to argue that furry has "ruined" anthropomorphics even - which I find equally absurd. Anthropomorphism is something far too large and pervasive.
There's some hope at least for people on all sides to cease being stupid. A few days ago on a furry Livejournal community, somebody posted a general appology to anthro fans as a whole. Maybe it didn't make much of a difference in the big picture, but they'd mindlessly joined in the fur-frying on Something Awful for years. Then one day thought "I want to be a good person. I try to be kind to others. Why in hell am I doing this?" They looked at furry again and realized it was nothing particularly evil as a whole. Then felt like an asshole and fool.
I more think that a lot of people need to get over their own hatred, discomfort, and issues - just move on, for God's sake. Everyone will be happier, including yourselves.
Just think, you could play Starfox again!