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badcrumble said:
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Wait, is this you or him?
 
badcrumble said:
Aaaaargh just as I'm about to move to New York an impossibly hunky guy from Connecticut wanted to date me but it won't work out because I'm leaving the state. Like, out-of-my-league, composite-of-every-guy-I've-ever-crushed-on hot. And I haven't had a really good date in, like, years. FML
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Oh man that stinks. Damn he's..something else. faints* What part of New York are you moving too?
 
Ratrat said:
im not seeing a price or a guy button. Also weird that it doesnt appear in the search.
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Freudian slip? :P

Anyway, you probably don't see them cause the book is not available in your region (it isn't on mine).
 
Sagitario said:
Freudian slip? :P

Anyway, you probably don't see them cause the book is not available in your region (it it's on mine).
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Hahaha.
I'd love a "guy button" ...with Free
Super Savers
Shipping too.
 
Met a guy, got coffee.

He's a surfer. Very hot and nice. Everything's going well.

"Hey, what's your birthday?"
"October 7th... why?"
"What year?"
"...1989? Again... why?"
*whips out phone*
"???"
"...Oh"
"Oh?"
"You were a waning crescent when you were born"
"Excuse me?"
"The moon. It was a waning crescent on your birthday day"
*Shows me phone*
"And this is relevant because?"
"Oh, I'm really into Astrology. I'm really good at ready auras and energies, too"

Mreh.
 
ivysaur12 said:
Met a guy, got coffee.

He's a surfer. Very hot and nice. Everything's going well.

"Hey, what's your birthday?"
"October 7th... why?"
"What year?"
"...1989? Again... why?"
*whips out phone*
"???"
"...Oh"
"Oh?"
"You were a waning crescent when you were born"
"Excuse me?"
"The moon. It was a waning crescent on your birthday day"
*Shows me phone*
"And this is relevant because?"
"Oh, I'm really into Astrology. I'm really good at ready auras and energies, too"

Mreh.
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Okay, 2 things

1. Screw you for being so young lol. I remember '89

2. You run that risk when you meet the cute one. Sadly most of them can coast on their looks and end up being stupid.
 
Yeah, I was 7 in 1989. :p

Anyway, that didn't sounded so bad. I'm not into astrology, but I would've asked "Hey, so what else can you say about me? Can you read my aura?"
 
fernoca said:
Yeah, I was 7 in 1989. :p

Anyway, that didn't sounded so bad. I'm not into astrology, but I would've asked "Hey, so what else can you say about me? Can you read my aura?"
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Oh i was four. :O
 
SpaceBridge said:
I was, 11. And the Berlin Wall came down.

Do you know what that was?
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I do. :p
Still rememeber the news..and the celebration on TV.

And the local channels ending at 10PM, and stores closing at 7PM and not opening on Sundays. *shrugs*


Marius_ said:
Guess who just came out to his parents????
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Ryan Kwanten? :O!!
 
julls said:
Roberto Arango?
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Haha, but not yet. His letter goes right along of what was rumored and expected.
Basically during the time he divorced (or maybe the reason he divorced?), he started talking to a girl and sending (harassing) pictures to her.

So she (and/or a friend) took the pics and uploaded on Grindr and spread the word around.

Granted the letter only says about "people using his pictures for other things"; but the original rumor started with a girl claiming he was sending pictures to her.
 
fernoca said:
Haha, but not yet. His letter goes rght along of what was rumored and expected.
Basically during the time he divorced (or maybe the reason he divorced?), he started talking to a few girls and sending pictures to her.

So she (and/or a friend) took the pics and uploaded on Grindr and spread the word around.

Granted the letter only says about "people using his pictures for other things"; but the original rumor started with a girl claiming he was sending pictures to her.
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Wasn't one of the pix of his ass from behind?
 
julls said:
Wasn't one of the pix of his ass from behind?
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Yep. There are newer ones too. :p
One of the new ones (not showing ass) has him on briefs, so it all but confirms that all pics were from him.

Loved my mom's reactions to the new pics: "Eeew..so what gym he was visiting that his body is that bad?"


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Oh wow, there are uncensored pics too. Every site kept showing censored ones; even the ones that originally leaked them. XD
 
fernoca said:
Yep. There are newer ones too. :p
One of the new ones (not showing ass) has him on briefs, so it all but confirms that all pics were from him.

Loved my mom's reactions to the new pics: "Eeew..so what gym he was visiting that his body is that bad?"
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I know, gross. His responses to the pics made me cringe.
 
So I need some advice. I'm in a weird situation, and I don't have sufficient dating experience to deal with it. I was in a relationship for 9 1/2 years which ended 2 years ago, so I've not had a lot of dating experience outside that.

I've been dating a guy for a few months. He was into me like right away and one of those kinda clingy pushy types, which was nice at first because my ex pretty much ignored me. My problem is that as I've gotten to hang out with him more, he's gotten clingier and clingier, and pushy to the max, constantly referencing "when we move in together" and asking me when I think I'd want to. He also says "I love you" which after 4 months is waaaaaaaaaaay too much for me. I haven't said it back, but he keeps saying it.

The other day, I was online on a chat site that we both have profiles on, chatting with friends, and fell asleep because I was tired after work. He called me multiple times because he saw me logged in there, and when I woke up and answered he accused me of not wanting to talk to him, because I was logged into the site but not answering my phone. Which made me mad, getting criticized for taking a nap while logged into a site that he was logged into as well! When I explained, he didn't seem to believe me that I was napping, and accused me of being too defensive.

We also haven't had sex yet, at first because I wanted to take it slow because of only having sex once since my LTR broke up, but lately I've realized I'm not very attracted to him.

Also, I'm not feeling the connection personality-wise. Literally almost every movie I hate, he loves. The third matrix movie. The Twilight series. BATMAN AND FUCKING ROBIN. He is into the same kinda stuff as that surfer dude a few posts up, zodiac, moon cycles, etc. The only thing we have in common is playing video games, really. I like to analyse things and speak really passionately when I like or dislike something, and he is not a critical thinker at all. And so on. We're just not all that compatible.

All that said, he IS a nice guy. He doesn't yell at me or treat me poorly. He's constantly buying me presents, and admitted that he always trys to buy guys' affection when he dates them. I tried to tell him to spend the money on himself, but he didn't listen. Just 2 days ago on msn, he said he noticed I wasn't very affectionate lately with kisses or hugs. I took that opportunity to tell him I wasn't feeling as affectionate towards him, and I wasn't ready for a sexual relationship right now and didn't know when I would be. His response? "Gee, I'm glad we can talk about these things, just don't make me wait forever for sex LOL" I feel like a jerk because I can't tell him I don't feel a connection because I know it would devastate him, and the thought of hurting someone's feelings like that is more than I can handle emotionally. Is this a "rip off the band-aid" situation where I just tell him we aren't right for each other? Is there really any non-devastating way to handle this?
 
fernoca said:
Hahaha.

So how was it Marius? (the coming out)
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Idk, it was done indirectly I'm in another town. My sisters told them because someone found out and was intending to use that fact to cause me drama with my parents, so yeah. Apparently there were some tears. I wont see them for like 2 more weeks

But a huge weight lifted off my shoulders, but I wasnt expecting it
 
fernoca said:
I do. :p
Still rememeber the news..and the celebration on TV.

And the local channels ending at 10PM, and stores closing at 7PM and not opening on Sundays. *shrugs*



Ryan Kwanten? :O!!
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I was 9. I vaguely recall Berlin Wall coming down. I certainly don't remember Hasslehoff singing (that's probably for the best). I do recall Tianemann Square and that lone guy with the groceries standing in front of a tank. I also remember going to see Honey I shrunk the Kids, Ghostbusters II, Indiana Jones and The Last Crusade, and Batman all summer that year.
 
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