I tried to use them as confidence boost, but ended depressed.
So forgot about that, and started visiting "for teh lulz". Laughing at the pics of (actual) assholes and penises looking for friendships, or the "divas" that swear were "straight acting", or the ones with laundry lists of "not interested in white, black, hispanic, tall, short, fat, skinny, etc" kind of guys.
Or the classic "Not Out guys" looking for "discreet action" because they aren't out to anyone, yet every pictures was showing their faces, and the info was basically just missing their social security number.
XD
Haven't been on ages, might go back again to see if things are slightly different now.