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MidnightScott said:
So I just saw that thread about squeezing your left hands thumb in between your fingers to stop your gag reflex. It works...and then someone posted how it helps them suck a cock, rofl XD

I know random lol.
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I need a visual explanation of this. I can't visualize what you wrote
 
Gvaz said:
I need a visual explanation of this. I can't visualize what you wrote
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Basically, I squeezed my left hands thumb between my other fingers on my left hand. And stuck my right hands pointer finger down my throat and touched the uvula and I didn't gag or choke or anything. No, I am not making a video! :<
 
MidnightScott said:
Basically, I squeezed my left hands thumb between my other fingers on my left hand. And stuck my right hands pointer finger down my throat and touched the uvula and I didn't gag or choke or anything. No, I am not making a video! :<
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So, the only thing that went in your mouth was your right pointer finger? how is that supposed to help
 
MidnightScott said:
So I just saw that thread about squeezing your left hands thumb in between your fingers to stop your gag reflex. It works...and then someone posted how it helps them suck a cock, rofl XD

I know random lol.
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That was me!

I don't actually need to do it because I can deep throat goddamn well but I wanted to get some attention
 
I've never done oral. I've come close, but the smell put me off. Does is taste as bad as it smells? Or maybe I'm weird cause it's supposed to smell good? :/
 
Stabbie said:
I've never done oral. I've come close, but the smell put me off. Does is taste as bad as it smells? Or maybe I'm weird cause it's supposed to smell good? :/
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umm.. tell them to wash first, it taste like skin then salty with the pre-cum
 
Stabbie said:
I've never done oral. I've come close, but the smell put me off. Does is taste as bad as it smells? Or maybe I'm weird cause it's supposed to smell good? :/
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You don't like the smell of smegma?
 
Hmm, I've never had severe gag reflex while sucking, only at the last stage of oral, when my boyfriend gets really hard and well, you know the rest! And it's only at certain times, like if it's after dinner! I can never get the gag reflex on my own (even putting my finger all the way in, nothing!), not like I'd want to, or anything!

About the smell, it depends, really. My boyfriend is very clean and cut and never once smell/taste anything on him other than the shampoo of the fabric (not even after a night sleep). I'm the opposite, since I'm uncut, even showering everyday if I spend a couple of hours after (moreso if we're making out), I'll need to "refresh it". We usually make it a fun time and works as an excuse to get another shower. Sometimes I wish I was cut but I don't want to start a debate like that! It'd be scary, not to mention I'm the one who's really into oral, in our relationship!
 
I dunno, I think a dick can smell pretty good if you like the guys natural scent. I've never been with a guy that was smelly, ha! These were all mostly uncut guys btw. ;)

Then again, I really like giving head so... ymmv.
 
ayeorkean said:
Mine smells like a rotting corpse if I don't clean and boyfriend refuses to suck it. :(
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GothPunk said:
I dunno, I think a dick can smell pretty good if you like the guys natural scent. I've never been with a guy that was smelly, ha! These were all mostly uncut guys btw. ;)

Then again, I really like giving head so... ymmv.
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Difference between natural scent and BO...
 
CHEEZMO™ said:
When was this, eh?
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The thread about a professor at some university ordering students to double their masturbation routine. Ambiguous Cad mentioned his tastes for whatever reason and made mention of a GAF community thread. I pm'ed him and he said that you were basically the only other contributor of that thread.
 
Obsessed said:
The thread about a professor at some university ordering students to double their masturbation routine. Ambiguous Cad mentioned his tastes for whatever reason and made mention of a GAF community thread. I pm'ed him and he said that you were basically the only other contributor of that thread.
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lol, if it was the BDSM thread then I remember it well. Captain Spanky made it while I was still planning to make it as my first thread.
I'm still a little bitter about it.

But yeah, there's loads of people on GAF into varying levels of BDSM.
 
CHEEZMO™ said:
lol, if it was the BDSM thread then I remember it well. Captain Spanky made it while I was still planning to make it as my first thread.
I'm still a little bitter about it.

But yeah, there's loads of people on GAF into varying levels of BDSM.
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I bolded the letters in my post dude. But yeah it was that thread.
 
Obsessed said:
Anything specific you are in to?
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Most stuff, to be honest.

Well I'm not into PVC/latex clothing, but I do like me some reasonable amount of leather.

Edit: And blood-play, of course.

Probably easier to list things I'm not into hehe.
 
CHEEZMO™ said:
Most stuff, to be honest.

Well I'm not into PVC/latex clothing, but I do like me some reasonable amount of leather.
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Yeah latex/leather does nothing for me, but I don't mind it.

And I pretty much place my limits at scat (never ever ever ever ever ever ever!), breath play, and hard SM (which includes blood play).
 
So, I met this guy at a bar about 2 weeks ago. We really hit it off and we've been hanging out since. I like him a lot and I could maybe see it turning into something.

However, things have been getting a lot more serious than I expected. He's been saying he wants to "take it slow," but things are actually getting more serious than I thought it could after two weeks. I like him, but he's obviously more into me than I'm into him. His attitude towards this potential relationship is a huge turn off. He wants me to go visit him tonight, and I said I would... but I'm tempted to make up an excuse not to go. Obviously this means I feel I should cut it off, but I really feel bad because I like him as a person a lot but I just don't feel anything there in the long run.

Any advice?
 
ivysaur12 said:
So, I met this guy at a bar about 2 weeks ago. We really hit it off and we've been hanging out since. I like him a lot and I could maybe see it turning into something.

However, things have been getting a lot more serious than I expected. He's been saying he wants to "take it slow," but things are actually getting more serious than I thought it could after two weeks. I like him, but he's obviously more into me than I'm into him. His attitude towards this potential relationship is a huge turn off. He wants me to go visit him tonight, and I said I would... but I'm tempted to make up an excuse not to go. Obviously this means I feel I should cut it off, but I really feel bad because I like him as a person a lot but I just don't feel anything there in the long run.

Any advice?
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Dump him.

If you really care about him as a potential friend then don't lead him on longer than you have to...which isn't very long at all. You need to be completely straight forward with how you feel about him.
 
ivysaur12 said:
So, I met this guy at a bar about 2 weeks ago. We really hit it off and we've been hanging out since. I like him a lot and I could maybe see it turning into something.

However, things have been getting a lot more serious than I expected. He's been saying he wants to "take it slow," but things are actually getting more serious than I thought it could after two weeks. I like him, but he's obviously more into me than I'm into him. His attitude towards this potential relationship is a huge turn off. He wants me to go visit him tonight, and I said I would... but I'm tempted to make up an excuse not to go. Obviously this means I feel I should cut it off, but I really feel bad because I like him as a person a lot but I just don't feel anything there in the long run.

Any advice?
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Say him the truth? I mean, just telling him you really don't fancy going to his place tonight is OK. He'll get the point hopefully.
 
CHEEZMO™ said:
Rarely and even then not with dudes.
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Isn't it odd how these sort of things get gendered? For some reason I'm super into feet, watersports, leather, fetish clothing in general with women, but only mildly turned onto them with guys, despite being to the gay side on the kinsey scale.
 
ivysaur12 said:
So, I met this guy at a bar about 2 weeks ago. We really hit it off and we've been hanging out since. I like him a lot and I could maybe see it turning into something.

However, things have been getting a lot more serious than I expected. He's been saying he wants to "take it slow," but things are actually getting more serious than I thought it could after two weeks. I like him, but he's obviously more into me than I'm into him. His attitude towards this potential relationship is a huge turn off. He wants me to go visit him tonight, and I said I would... but I'm tempted to make up an excuse not to go. Obviously this means I feel I should cut it off, but I really feel bad because I like him as a person a lot but I just don't feel anything there in the long run.

Any advice?
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how can you "see it turning into something" and at the same time "don't feel there is anything there in the long run"?
 
I think you should dump him, too. IME romantic feelings are rather clear-cut, once you separate your actual feelings from what you wish you could feel for someone. If it ultimately results in 'eh', it's probably better to just end it as the alternative generally results in you using him somewhat. At the very least tell him so he can make the decision for himself if he wants to chance your feelings deepening with time or something.
 
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