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ivysaur12 said:
Well, I had sex with the guy I had been texting... then he stopped responding. Went to a bar tonight, he was there and walked out as soon as he saw me.

I really only thought guys were that dick in movies.
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If it's any consolation, this has happened to every sexually active person ever at least once.
 
What a git! Was there no date/meet-up between the text & sex? Some people are content with banging someone once and then moving on to the next goal.

At the very least he could have made polite, if awkward, conversation for a few minutes.
 
ivysaur12 said:
Well, I had sex with the guy I had been texting... then he stopped responding. Went to a bar tonight, he was there and walked out as soon as he saw me.

I really only thought guys were that dick in movies.
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most of the time it isn't personal, it just means " I don't want to get that attached and don't know how to speak about it, so I do moronic things like hiding and bailing out"
 
Hey GayGaf, first time poster long time lurker. Been keeping up with this community since the first gay mega thread, the first gay thread helped me, along with my boyfriend to come out so I thank you lot for that. :)

The Skype chat people should know me already (hi it's Grailey) for those who don't know me
My facebook that's me.

So yeah happy that my account has finally been approved after waiting for years, thanks for all the advice gifs and sexy pics you lot have provided while I lurked. :)
 
SomeoneCool said:
Hey GayGaf, first time poster long time lurker. Been keeping up with this community since the first gay mega thread, the first gay thread helped me, along with my boyfriend to come out so I thank you lot for that. :)

The Skype chat people should know me already (hi it's Grailey) for those who don't know me
My facebook that's me.

So yeah happy that my account has finally been approved after waiting for years, thanks for all the advice gifs and sexy pics you lot have provided while I lurked. :)
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Shhhiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiieet your facebook is hm, an inspiration let's say. I should come to skype more often!
Anyway Welcome hottie!

About skype actually guys, i have a question. I closed definitely the gaf chat cause it constantly alerts me and that's boring, plus the chat are so long that it kills my netbook for exemple, when loading. But real problem is that to stop it to alert me every fucking seconds i have to be away, but then i miss the people actually talking to me personally (like my friends!). Any suggestion ?
 
orioto said:
Shhhiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiieet your facebook is hm, an inspiration let's say. I should come to skype more often!
Anyway Welcome hottie!

About skype actually guys, i have a question. I closed definitely the gaf chat cause it constantly alerts me and that's boring, plus the chat are so long that it kills my netbook for exemple, when loading. But real problem is that to stop it to alert me every fucking seconds i have to be away, but then i miss the people actually talking to me personally (like my friends!). Any suggestion ?
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You can change the conversation settings to only alert you when your name or a series of phrases specified by yourself are mentioned. :)

Nice to have you Ricky <3
 
orioto said:
Shhhiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiieet your facebook is hm, an inspiration let's say. I should come to skype more often!
Anyway Welcome hottie!
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Thanks for the warm welcome

Kyon said:
Omg you are the bf of that other member :O hawt. Welcome! Have a seat
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Yes that's me. I need to tell gothpunk (my boyfriend) to post some new pictures he has put on more weight and muscle since the last pics he posted. I'm so proud of him

runlikehell said:
You can change the conversation settings to only alert you when your name or a series of phrases specified by yourself are mentioned. :)

Nice to have you Ricky <3
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Matthew <3

So I need some gay gaffers to play with on Xbox so if you got the Xbox add me please Bailey wv. On the subject of games, is anyone buying Kingdom of Amular, I'm so excited for the game
 
Ive been trying to join all this skype chat business but I havent figured it out, or gotten the right people to add me
 
SpaceBridge said:
Speaking of ass, and our love for it, how much are gaygaf into when it comes to
rimming
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Yotsuba"NO".jpg

I'm completely anal about things like that. Just... no. :| Reason why I go through these monthly questioning myself sessions.
 
Box of Bunnies said:
Doesn't really mean much out of context, and Simpsons did it, so I think you'd be in the clear.
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Cool, thx!

Necromanti said:
This 20 year old virgin has never been on a date in his life, let alone so much as hugged another guy in a romantic capacity. I am nervous as fuck. I can't believe this is happening.

Consider me surprised that the power of the booty managed to create interest in someone relatively unattractive.
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See what happens when you advertise the goods? ;)

Have fun!

sphinx said:
most of the time it isn't personal, it just means " I don't want to get that attached and don't know how to speak about it, so I do moronic things like hiding and bailing out"
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Pretty much this, unfortunately. Best to move on and not dwell on it.

SomeoneCool said:
Hey GayGaf, first time poster long time lurker. Been keeping up with this community since the first gay mega thread, the first gay thread helped me, along with my boyfriend to come out so I thank you lot for that. :)

The Skype chat people should know me already (hi it's Grailey) for those who don't know me
My facebook that's me.

So yeah happy that my account has finally been approved after waiting for years, thanks for all the advice gifs and sexy pics you lot have provided while I lurked. :)
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Welcome, welcome! (your facebook link doesn't work?)
 
Putting my dick everywhere is not really a problem but my tongue... it's another story! I eat with this! and it actually have the power to feel taste! Also it's not far from the nose unfortunately.
 
orioto said:
Putting my dick everywhere is not really a problem but my tongue... it's another story! I eat with this! and it actually have the power to feel taste! Also it's not far from the nose unfortunately.
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Some taste really nice though. ^_^
 
SomeoneCool said:
Hey GayGaf, first time poster long time lurker. Been keeping up with this community since the first gay mega thread, the first gay thread helped me, along with my boyfriend to come out so I thank you lot for that. :)

The Skype chat people should know me already (hi it's Grailey) for those who don't know me
My facebook that's me.

So yeah happy that my account has finally been approved after waiting for years, thanks for all the advice gifs and sexy pics you lot have provided while I lurked. :)
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Yay! Knew your account would be activated :)
 
Last night I finally celebrated my birthday, went bar hoping with my lesbian friends and then hit the local gay club, grinding and smashing. Still wasn't drunk enough to accept a hookup :|
 
Coppertracks said:
What a git! Was there no date/meet-up between the text & sex? Some people are content with banging someone once and then moving on to the next goal.

At the very least he could have made polite, if awkward, conversation for a few minutes.
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We had gotten dinner. Was fun. We both went to the same college, seemed like something that could be more long term or else I wouldn't have slept with him. Oh well, I know, but still... super embarrassing.
 
He's probably just not interested, but has a lot of trouble being upfront about it, so he chooses to ignore you instead. I'm guilty of it myself.
 
ivysaur12 said:
Who isn't? Still sucks when you're on the other end of it. Ah, well.
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It does, which is why it's good to force yourself to at least send a text saying you're not interested after all. But yeah, the whole feeling from you as you enter the bar... Maybe it's good that it won't go further.

And clean ass taste like liking your arm.
 
ivysaur12 said:
We had gotten dinner. Was fun. We both went to the same college, seemed like something that could be more long term or else I wouldn't have slept with him. Oh well, I know, but still... super embarrassing.
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Don't be embarrassed. :( It's part of the risk of dating/hooking up.

And if it makes you feel better...I've totally been that guy. I've gone out on a date, had a legitimately good time, hooked-up...but then ran into the guy unexpectedly while I was out with friends and was totally fucking awkward about it. Even though I legitimately liked the guy. The guy was out with people, I was out with people...we made eye-contact but I didn't go over and speak to him. For some reason I just felt like it wouldn't be appropriate if I did.

He shot me a text the next day and was like "Yo, you didn't have to be a stranger..." and I told him that I didn't want to bother him or his friends and be weird or anything. He told me I was being silly, and we out again.

I guess what I'm trying to get at is that he probably wasn't meaning to be an asshole. I think that, especially in the gay community with hook-up culture and all, sometimes it's kind of hard to read if what you're doing with a guy is an actual date that could lead somewhere, or just a prelude to a hook-up. Sometimes people get caught-up in the awkward gray area.

Don't beat yourself up either way.
 
royalan said:
Don't be embarrassed. :( It's part of the risk of dating/hooking up.

And if it makes you feel better...I've totally been that guy. I've gone out on a date, had a legitimately good time, hooked-up...but then ran into the guy unexpectedly while I was out with friends and was totally fucking awkward about it. Even though I legitimately liked the guy. The guy was out with people, I was out with people...we made eye-contact but I didn't go over and speak to him. For some reason I just felt like it wouldn't be appropriate if I did.

He shot me a text the next day and was like "Yo, you didn't have to be a stranger..." and I told him that I didn't want to bother him or his friends and be weird or anything. He told me I was being silly, and we out again.

I guess what I'm trying to get at is that he probably wasn't meaning to be an asshole. I think that, especially in the gay community with hook-up culture and all, sometimes it's kind of hard to read if what you're doing with a guy is an actual date that could lead somewhere, or just a prelude to a hook-up. Sometimes people get caught-up in the awkward gray area.

Don't beat yourself up either way.
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Yeah, but I'm trying to "graduate" from the hook-up culture now that I'm in the real world. I'm a much more relationship oriented person, which I guess makes me an outlier.
 
ivysaur12 said:
Yeah, but I'm trying to "graduate" from the hook-up culture now that I'm in the real world. I'm a much more relationship oriented person, which I guess makes me an outlier.
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An outlier? I haven't heard that term before. Either way royalan is correct as usual. You have to play the game differently as in there is no game. You have to be honest, upfront and sadly sometimes it means wearing your heart on your sleeve. Trust me there's s guy out there for you who will appreciate it. *hug*
 
In my case, I've always been in the other end. XD
Even online-wise like "lets meet at the mall", "yeah", *other guy sees that I'm there, I recognize the guy based on the pictures*...*guy walks away or comes says "hi" and "brb"...and never returns*

Even on the guys, that "something" happened (food, movie, sex, whatever); I still called them, contacted them, etc. just to be ignored in person, online, phone, etc.

It still sucks, but I'm used to it and just laugh at it. Most of the things that has happened to me are stuff that many don't believe happened, because if the kind of stuff one usually watches in movies.
 
Dear Lord, fernoca, that's horrible. :S I would probably go home and cry or something if that happened to me, haha, maybe not, but I would've been hurt and humiliated. :/
 
fernoca said:
In my case, I've always been in the other end. XD
Even online-wise like "lets meet at the mall", "yeah", *other guy sees that I'm there, I recognize the guy based on the pictures*...*guy walks away or comes says "hi" and "brb"...and never returns*

Even on the guys, that "something" happened (food, movie, sex, whatever); I still called them, contacted them, etc. just to be ignored in person, online, phone, etc.

It still sucks, but I'm used to it and just laugh at it. Most of the things that has happened to me are stuff that many don't believe happened, because if the kind of stuff one usually watches in movies.
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Wow.. I could never be that rude (IRL).

Even if I didn't like the person, I would endure it for the sake of GOOD MANNERS.
 
fernoca said:
In my case, I've always been in the other end. XD
Even online-wise like "lets meet at the mall", "yeah", *other guy sees that I'm there, I recognize the guy based on the pictures*...*guy walks away or comes says "hi" and "brb"...and never returns*

Even on the guys, that "something" happened (food, movie, sex, whatever); I still called them, contacted them, etc. just to be ignored in person, online, phone, etc.

It still sucks, but I'm used to it and just laugh at it. Most of the things that has happened to me are stuff that many don't believe happened, because if the kind of stuff one usually watches in movies.
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:-\
 
royalan said:
I guess what I'm trying to get at is that he probably wasn't meaning to be an asshole. I think that, especially in the gay community with hook-up culture and all, sometimes it's kind of hard to read if what you're doing with a guy is an actual date that could lead somewhere, or just a prelude to a hook-up. Sometimes people get caught-up in the awkward gray area.
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I'm finally supposed to go to the movies tonight when he gets off at 9 PM, I'm starting to have doubts that this could become a relationship. :/
 
What Fernoca says is pretty common when you're meeting guys from the internet i guess. I've known worth than that! But never when i was younger. It seems now there is something with my real self compared to my pics lol... I actually think my face is kinda changing and people can totally imagine something else and be disappointed. Anyway i've been to a deaf guy's home one day and he just .. wrote me to my face "sorry not my type" and gave me back my coat lol! BUT in that particular case i should have felt the guy was a douchebag by some things he said online. He's the kind of guy who doesn't really care about random other people let's say, and the fact that he's deaf, he has to avoid communication problems by being quiet direct. Anyway in Paris, you can meet some gays who consider you like some piece of meat, for sure. But it happens with direct hook up more than when you have a more traditional meeting. I guess you got what you deserve by looking for direct and uncivil hook up.
 
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