RPGCrazied
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Dead Man said:
What are your secrets? I can't even get a response back from the people I message on the date sites I go to.
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What are your secrets? I can't even get a response back from the people I message on the date sites I go to.
dragonlife
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You just need to find one that likes video gamesRPGCrazied said:
SpaceBridge
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Marius_ said:
Hmmm, sounds like you piqued his interest with your dashing personality. Do it, call him, or give him your number and let him call you.
Sometimes you need to jump in feet first, and not let your suspicions override everything else.
RPGCrazied
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dragonlife said:You just need to find one that likes video games
LOL, that's why I message them though.
I do a search for gaming, games, RPGS. Bleh! 
Your name seems familiar, did you ever go to gaygamer forums?
Well... I haven't used a dating site since about 2002. All I do is go out with a few friends, or even by myself, have some drinks, dance like an idiot, smile at people, and offer a drink if the guy is really cute. Pubs are better for talking, clubs if you just want some sweaty sex.RPGCrazied said:
Not so much these days since I am off the market, but I still get offers. Confidence is everything. Think about the guys you like when you go out, or that you meet. I guarantee not all of them have perfect bodies or perfect faces.
SpaceBridge
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So getting back onto GayGAF google+ thing. Since this morning, some of you have added me and vice versa, so when/how do you guys do this virtual hangout thing?
PS-I still wanna see a pic of Replicant. ;P
PS-I still wanna see a pic of Replicant. ;P
RPGCrazied
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SpaceBridge said:
Why don't you just PM him and ask? Either he will tell you yes or no, that way you know the answer without having to keep asking. Just a thought.
SpaceBridge
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RPGCrazied said:
Its a joke. Trying to lighten the mood in here.
Wish I had your luck. I smile at people and they turn away when I used to go clubbing. I'm not much into drinking so I don't go to bars and when I ask someone to dance at a club I get rejected. The Asian guys in Boston are only attracted to one type of guy and it's not me.Dead Man said:
SpaceBridge
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Marius_ said:
Thanks Marius, just did.
Soulscribe
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I'm becoming such a cynic on relationships now. Everything just ends with disappointment lately. BLEH. Boys.
Crumpet Trumpet
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Never been in this thread before. Just wanted to say 'ello to my gay brethren!
Also I need a relationship stat lolol
Also I need a relationship stat lolol
SpaceBridge
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Crumpet Trumpet said:
Welcome Crumpet Trumpet.
Electivirus
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I am also new here (to the thread, not NeoGAF, obviously).
Hey there, guys.
Hey there, guys.
My Google+ page says something like "Got an invite? We've already exceeded our capacity. Try again later".
And wellcum Crumpet. Don't get scared, it's fun around here! (And Electivirus in here..WTF?)
In my case, no matter what I eat, or do to gain weight I don't. So I just accepted it...skinny forever!
And wellcum Crumpet. Don't get scared, it's fun around here!
(And Electivirus in here..WTF?)Nah, you'll see. Just focus.neojubei said:
In my case, no matter what I eat, or do to gain weight I don't. So I just accepted it...skinny forever!
RPGCrazied
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Electivirus said:I am also new here (to the thread, not NeoGAF, obviously).
Hey there, guys.
Welcome. Enjoy your stay.
Electivirus
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RPGCrazied said:
Sadness. I have yet to find a guy who loves the bears as much as I do and isn't twink-crazy. :C
fernoca said:
dohohohoho~
TheSeks said:
Marius_ said:
Well whenever I see a cute guy, especially the summer intern at my office I feel like if could look a certain way I would have enough courage to ask him out or maybe he might notice me and of course that doesn't happen. The really sucky thing is the summer intern covers the front desk during lunch so I have to pass by him and oh man he looks soo good he makes me hate how I look even more.
fernoca said:My Google+ page says something like "Got an invite? We've already exceeded our capacity. Try again later".
And wellcum Crumpet. Don't get scared, it's fun around here!
Nah, you'll see. Just focus.
In my case, no matter what I eat, or do to gain weight I don't. So I just accepted it...skinny forever!
No matter what I do I can't. So we cannot invite people into google+ anymore? That sucks.
Electivirus said:I am also new here (to the thread, not NeoGAF, obviously).
Hey there, guys.
Hi there.
RPGCrazied
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Electivirus said:
I normally don't like guys with lots of body hair, but body I really don't care about. As long as he is around my weight. But I'm trying to get into shape myself. I'd date a guy with some pudge, seeing as how I have some.
Crumpet Trumpet
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I'm tall and skinny. Been trying to gain weight for months now, but nothing works. Et tu, whole milk?
SpaceBridge
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Marius_ said:
This. 100%
RPGCrazied
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Crumpet Trumpet said:
Take about 25lbs from me, I don't want it!
ZephyrFate
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Work out.RPGCrazied said:Take about 25lbs from me, I don't want it!
No, seriously. Working out is awesome. It also will make you way, way less bitter.
SpaceBridge
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Electivirus said:
Honestly, the trend here in the gay community in Toronto has been more towards either bear/cub types, or alternative gay hipster style. Twink and muscle guys are a dying breed.
Maybe you guys should consider moving to another city with larger and more diverse population.
RPGCrazied
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ZephyrFate said:
I do. I do 30 situps and 30 pushups nightly. Sure that might not seem like much, but just a month or so ago I could barely do 5 pushups. I say thats an improvement.
Crumpet Trumpet
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Haha yeah I've been aiming to get 30lbs by the end of the year.RPGCrazied said:Take about 25lbs from me, I don't want it!
re: twink/bear wars
I've always liked the type of guy in between a twink and a bear. What are they called? rofl
SpaceBridge
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RPGCrazied said:
Have you tried doing some cardio too. Running or jogging is an excellent way to burn fat. Also, maybe invest in free weights, like some dumbells and weights. Put together a simple workout plan. And reconsider your diet as well.
I still understand neojubei. Probably becuase I'm like that, even when in some ways I don't mind.
I know people say and have good intentions when they do about "loving/accepting yourself", "if you dont think you're ugly, others won't think it"; and stuff like that. But it's sadly not as easy. You better believe that if it was as simple as me tomorrow just waking up and saying "Hey I'm attractive..fuck the world"; I'd do it. But I guess there are other things involved, more than just "accepting ourselves".
I mean, in my case (awesome parents excluded) I grew up getting punched, pushed, insulted through elementary school. Even once kicked in the face and throw a big piece of "something" (rock, cement..like a piece of a wall) to my knee; just because of "lol nerd, GTFO!". Eggs, trash, more rejection on top of the usual insults (frog, pizza-face, abortion). I spent my 5 years in college basically finding alternate routes to avoid big groups in order to arrive on time to classes; since big groups usually meant more insults, more trash, and since I've always liked to "dress well", but according to many my clothes didn't matched with my face/body, so of course I looked ridiculous.
Still, I tried approaching people. I went and talked to people in the computer labs that I saw browsing IGN and Gaming-Age, just so they could ignore me and then point and laugh at me. I tried talking to guys I saw with Game Boy Advances while waiting for the next class not only to be ignored and made fun of, but also made fun of by others when they saw me with a [lol kiddy] GBA (and ironically, they going to talk to other guys with GBA..about how" cool Pokemon was".)
That's excluding how even through my different jobs I was made fun of my face even by customers and other employees. Or in the mall; just waiting in line to buy food. Sadly, it sounds as stuff made out by me or taken from movies; so many just don't believe it or don't care. And since is not as big as using drugs, or getting shot or other "worst things"; is not seen as important and told to just "accept ourselves".
I guess what I'm trying to say is that, well..we some of us do try; and is not as easy as "growing a pair". But sometimes, a simple gesture of someone coming by and saying "Hey, zup"..and start a conversation while it may be normal to most, is just but a mere wish to some like me.
Darn, this ended longer than I anticipated and to drama queen-ish. Sorry. XD
I know people say and have good intentions when they do about "loving/accepting yourself", "if you dont think you're ugly, others won't think it"; and stuff like that. But it's sadly not as easy. You better believe that if it was as simple as me tomorrow just waking up and saying "Hey I'm attractive..fuck the world"; I'd do it. But I guess there are other things involved, more than just "accepting ourselves".
I mean, in my case (awesome parents excluded) I grew up getting punched, pushed, insulted through elementary school. Even once kicked in the face and throw a big piece of "something" (rock, cement..like a piece of a wall) to my knee; just because of "lol nerd, GTFO!". Eggs, trash, more rejection on top of the usual insults (frog, pizza-face, abortion). I spent my 5 years in college basically finding alternate routes to avoid big groups in order to arrive on time to classes; since big groups usually meant more insults, more trash, and since I've always liked to "dress well", but according to many my clothes didn't matched with my face/body, so of course I looked ridiculous.
Still, I tried approaching people. I went and talked to people in the computer labs that I saw browsing IGN and Gaming-Age, just so they could ignore me and then point and laugh at me. I tried talking to guys I saw with Game Boy Advances while waiting for the next class not only to be ignored and made fun of, but also made fun of by others when they saw me with a [lol kiddy] GBA (and ironically, they going to talk to other guys with GBA..about how" cool Pokemon was".)
That's excluding how even through my different jobs I was made fun of my face even by customers and other employees. Or in the mall; just waiting in line to buy food. Sadly, it sounds as stuff made out by me or taken from movies; so many just don't believe it or don't care. And since is not as big as using drugs, or getting shot or other "worst things"; is not seen as important and told to just "accept ourselves".
I guess what I'm trying to say is that, well..we some of us do try; and is not as easy as "growing a pair". But sometimes, a simple gesture of someone coming by and saying "Hey, zup"..and start a conversation while it may be normal to most, is just but a mere wish to some like me.
Darn, this ended longer than I anticipated and to drama queen-ish. Sorry.
XDZephyrFate
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Gotta do more than that broseph. You'll see results when you add more to your workout.RPGCrazied said:
fernoca said:Darn, this ended longer than I anticipated and to drama queen-ish. Sorry.
I don't understand, what's so obviously wrong with your face that people from everywhere laugh? Acne? Acne scarring? I've never really known people to laugh at either (I don't laugh either). Is there something in particular you can point out?
RPGCrazied
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I haven't started the running part, I do even own a treadmill in the other room. I sometimes curl a 20lb dumbell. I do see results, my arms are bigger and i have wannabe pecs, its the tummy I'm having the problems with.
Yeah, diet is a killer, I have fast food once a week. I'm sure thats not helping matters.
Yeah, diet is a killer, I have fast food once a week. I'm sure thats not helping matters.
SpaceBridge
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xelios said:
Ive seen pics of Fernoca, and theres nothing wrong with him physically. Nothing. But he doesnt know that.
ZephyrFate
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Best way to kill a tummy is to run, but more than that just go to town on your abs. Get a medicine ball and do some situps with it.RPGCrazied said:
Also, yeah, fix the diet. But fast food once a week isn't SO BAD unless you're doing enough to counterbalance the fat intake.
SpaceBridge said:
Well if his face was made fun of by everyone from school to work to the mall to random people on the street, there should be something he can point out or he's probably just extremely paranoid and insecure and it never happened.
SpaceBridge
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RPGCrazied said:
You need to use that treadmill STAT! Thats the only you will lose fat, even if you alter your diet, your still need to burn it away with cardio. But you need to set reasonable and achievable goals for yourself. You may never get a washboard stomach, but then again, your goal should be to become healthier and feel better....everything else will fall into place.
lordfroakie
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First time in this thread and hello fellow gays
Also, add me on gplus: gplus.to/vectorman
Also, add me on gplus: gplus.to/vectorman
fernoca said:Darn, this ended longer than I anticipated and to drama queen-ish. Sorry.
Neo's first problem is his lack of confidence. GAINING that would give him the ability to go "fuck other people, I'm awesome." He won't do that if he WON'T FUCKING BOTHER "growing a pair" and putting himself on GAF to get comments.
But no, let's feel sorry for poor poor neojubei because he's the only one that has been rejected and feels ugly.
Give me a break. I've been there, I've done that. I got the t-shirt and you know what? People suck. FORGET THEM. FORGET RELATIONSHIPS. WORRY ABOUT YOURSELF FIRST OF ALL. And since Neo's problem first of all seems to be his looks, he should POST HIMSELF UP to get comments to possible make himself look better and feel better after taking those peoples advice.
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