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ayeorkean said:
How do you guys deal with being gay at work? Is it out in the open or on a need to know basis...
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Same as every place else. I don't hide or deny it, but I don't go around telling everyone I am. In most cases they assume I'm straight and start talking about girls and heck at my last job apparently I was married and with a kid. :p
 
royalan said:
Yeah...

So I was out with some girlfriends today, and something weird came up. We were talking about sex, as we usually do, and they both admitted to me that, as much as they like sex with guys, they think penises look disgusting.

Grotesque, even.

I was really shocked. I mean, I think the penis is a work of fucking art (literally).

Is this generally the case with people? Do I have a monster in pants that I should be ashamed of?
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Yeah I know quite a few straight girls who think the same thing, it's kind of weird to me too. I think it's maybe an acquired taste and they lack exposure or the right attitude to see it, or something. I say this because I used to think that penis looked kind of funny, but I've certainly cultivated an aesthetic appreciation since then.

dragonlife said:
I don't like seeing penis when it's flaccid. If it's a photo of a guy/model, etc, it ruins it for me. I'm much more attracted to face/body, so I prefer when they're shirtless and wearing shorts/underwear. Also, teasing works well for me, so there's that.

Well...I don't like seeing dick pics much, either, even if they're hard. I'm generally never interested in knowing what anyone's dick looks like online.
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I get what you're saying, I'm interested in pretty much everything else first, as well... this isn't directed at you so much, but I don't get the lack of appreciation for flaccid penis. It just makes me think of art 'au naturel', or something, like it can seem more candid or vulnerable somehow :)
 
Marius_ said:
Did you get a raise?



Is this him?
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looks like he has a belly?
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Are bellies bad?
 
Heck I don't mind bellies..and I barely see one in him. Guy's incredibly great looking overall.

And as far as nudity goes, I prefer watching a flacid one. And when it ocmes to the actual model/guy I'm more attracted to the eyes and the smile (if they're smiling that's it :p)
 
SpaceBridge said:
Are bellies bad?
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As long as it doesn't jut out past the penis I guess or bump against your forehead? I actually prefer flat tummies but without much muscle definition.
 
Phonomezer said:
On my second week we went out for work drinks on the company and I told everyone when I got really, really drunk.

Then I slipped my hand down my bosses jeans in front of his wife.

Walked in on monday like a boss.
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Phonomezer said:
He did, a few months later ;)
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Sounds hot, please say there's more to this story.
 
ivysaur12 said:
Got drinks with a bunch of college friends last night as our first official "night out" in LA. I'm the only gay one of the group, but we met at some cheap bar near WeHo. They all have to work today (I don't start till Monday) so I decide to hit up the WeHo bar scene and see what it's like.

Some notes:

- If you want to hit on me, don't have the second thing out of your mouth be about how you moved here for the amateur porn industry.

- There is a WeHo gay look that is completely unattractive. It usually involves manicured eyebrows, a fake tan, and look on your face like you just smelled a really bad fart but don't want to say anything.

- No covers except for one bar. Yay!

- Why do gay guys go to bars just to dance with some attractive lady friend? Unless they're in a relationship, doesn't that defeat the purpose?

- The Starbucks on Santa Monica Blvrd is the gayest places I've ever been. Ever. I felt so judged walking inside.

Pretty piss poor night, but I had to drive so I only had one drink. HOWEVER, the Eleven Lounge has beer pong! If anyone wants to play, hit me up. I love beer pong.

Also, don't hit on me on Grindr by saying "Cute". I hate Grindr, actually. I need a good dating dating website too.
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WeHo isn't all bad. It's sort of like going to the zoo. I've only been a couple of times (went to the abbey and eleven), but both were a lot of fun. I did go with an attractive female and straight male friend, but didn't stop me from getting hit on, making out, and having a good ol drunk time. There are nice and attractive guys there, just have to sift through the crazy WeHo freaks you mentioned ;).
 
Marius_ said:
Im talking about Ted Price, in every conference or video he is always with a huge button up shirt that doesnt fit him
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;p Yeah, maybe he thinks he's too skinny, so he wears an undershirt (or several) underneath a long shirt? Long shirts hide undershirts better than short shirts. Or, acne arms?
 
Fellow homos, I got a chance today to meet one of the only three ladies on Earth I'd turn straight for. YES (and my friend that took the video for me actually told Katee as much, I was mortified for a few seconds, lol)

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Magnus said:
Fellow homos, I got a chance today to meet one of the only three ladies on Earth I'd turn straight for. YES
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Who is this woman? From the background, I'm assuming she has something to do with space. Scientist? Alien? Is she the woman from the 5th Element?
 
Delio said:
Oh we have been together like two years long distance. I'm just always worried cause my low self esteem kills shit for me. Just random relationship problems from me.

And yeah Happy Puppy,i do realize it's my problem i have to make myself interesting.
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I would say being interesting is a very low priority compared to low self-esteem. I think a healthy self-esteem would make that problem you had go away.
 
HappyPuppy said:
I would say being interesting is a very low priority compared to low self-esteem. I think a healthy self-esteem would make that problem you had go away.
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Alright i will work on the Self-esteem.
 
Well, one good thing about this crazy storm, here in Philly this is what our ABC weatherman looks like:

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And he'll be on the air allllll night....
 
Magnus said:
Fellow homos, I got a chance today to meet one of the only three ladies on Earth I'd turn straight for. YES (and my friend that took the video for me actually told Katee as much, I was mortified for a few seconds, lol)

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You were at FanExpo Magnus? I was there too. Thats Sackhoff right? Gosh, your cute. We should hang out sometime for drinks or something...
 
Since we're talking about cute tech/gaming people, I'd like to say that Google's Senior Product Manager Paul McDonald is a beautiful man.

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He has an especially cute smile in this one.
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I got these from his google plus profile /stalker :(

I think he also looks cute in the Gmail Motion video.
 
SpaceBridge said:
You were at FanExpo Magnus? I was there too. Thats Sackhoff right? Gosh, your cute. We should hang out sometime for drinks or something...
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Yeah, that's Katee! And sure man (thank you by the way!)! Sorry I wasn't able to commit to meeting Toronto-GAF. Too much craziness as usual this weekend. Another time!
 
SecretMoblin said:
Some people get off on that sort of thing.

Not me, of course... *cough*

But no, he's actually kind of attractive and really, really gay:

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So is ours!

I'm really digging this gay weatherman thing...
 
fernoca said:
Same as every place else. I don't hide or deny it, but I don't go around telling everyone I am. In most cases they assume I'm straight and start talking about girls and heck at my last job apparently I was married and with a kid. :p
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I need to start being honest. I think...

Not at work, but I've recently entered college. A day ago at lunch some person that was in my orientation group invited me to sit with him and some strangers. They started talking about the girls on campus and the kid asked me if I thought any were nice.

I froze for a second and then just gave some generic response.

The thing is... I consider my sexual orientation to be private information. I haven't even told my family or best friends.

Anyone else have this problem? Is it even a problem really?

I was only planning on coming out to my family if it actually became relevant to my everyday life. Like if I met someone and got into a long term relationship.
 
Obsessed said:
I need to start being honest.

Not at work, but I've recently entered college. A day ago at lunch some person that was in my orientation group invited me to sit with him and some strangers. They started talking about the girls on campus and the kid asked me if I thought any were nice.

I froze for a second and then just gave some generic response.

The thing is... I consider my sexual orientation to be private information. I haven't even told my family or best friends.

Anyone else have this problem? Is it even a problem really?

I was only planning on coming out to my family if it actually became relevant to my everyday life. Like if I met someone and got into a long term relationship.
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I suggest you take college as your opportunity to start coming out and being true to everyone. It should be the perfect time for you and it was for me.
 
Obsessed said:
I need to start being honest. I think...

Not at work, but I've recently entered college. A day ago at lunch some person that was in my orientation group invited me to sit with him and some strangers. They started talking about the girls on campus and the kid asked me if I thought any were nice.

I froze for a second and then just gave some generic response.

The thing is... I consider my sexual orientation to be private information. I haven't even told my family or best friends.

Anyone else have this problem? Is it even a problem really?

I was only planning on coming out to my family if it actually became relevant to my everyday life. Like if I met someone and got into a long term relationship.
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What was your generic response? I'm curious. Just because you're gay doesn't mean you can't take part in lady talk with the guys. I would do it even with people that knew I was gay.
 
Obsessed said:
I was only planning on coming out to my family if it actually became relevant to my everyday life. Like if I met someone and got into a long term relationship.
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Well how are you going to meet someone if they don't know you are gay.


A bit OT:
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I actually thought I had posted more
 
_Isaac said:
What was your generic response? I'm curious. Just because you're gay doesn't mean you can't take part in lady talk with the guys. I would do it even with people that knew I was gay.
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Something like "yeah, they're are some pretty nice ones here."


Marius_ said:
Well how are you going to meet someone if they don't know you are gay
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I'm fine being open online with people I will never meet in person. I can join a dating site.

And I did join a lgbt group at college (though... idk what happened since they never emailed me back) so there is that.

And I doubt I'd meet anyone open, or not. I'm a very skinny/underweight/short 18 year old with little to no muscle mass.
 
SpaceBridge said:
Is this your way of telling me to quit hanging out here???
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You are the winner of the thread, lol. What was your avatar before this current one?

I creeped your facebook and added you, by the way, haha.
 
Marius_ said:
Well how are you going to meet someone if they don't know you are gay.


A bit OT:
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I actually thought I had posted more[/QUOTE]
Oh wow i didn't realized i posted that much in here.
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SpaceBridge said:
Is this your way of telling me to quit hanging out here???
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No its my way of saying that I am bored and have nothing to do.


Honestly these depressing threads on GAF made think for a bit, its the first Saturday night of college and I'm stuck in my apartment. My roommates are here yet they are so boring, like seriously none of them would like to go out ever. I need some new friends and especially gay ones, because my party people are in another city
 
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