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Obsessed said:
Oh trust me, I am.

I'm too embarrassed to work out in public, but I've been trying to do more calisthenics while alone.

It is actually kind of a miracle I've managed to stay so thin. I eat junk food all day long, and until recently the only exercise I got was walking to/from the bathroom, and to/from the dinner table.
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metabolism and all. I used to be like that as well until a year ago when body decided to hold on to the fat. Supplements(protein shakes, bars) will help you gain weight though
 
So at work the other day, i was on my lunch sitting at one of the tables in the lobby. I had my left leg crossed on my knee of my right leg and some customer that's a regular came up and said some gay joke... i kind of just laughed and said it would have been funny if i wasn't gay and he walked out without even buying anything LOL.
 
Twinks have all the fun, Obsessed. Wait until the guys faun over you. Trust me you do not want to be fat, no one wants you when you are fat.
 
dragonlife said:
Doh. I wish I encountered people who thought the same. I'm a friendly guy (in b4 fucking hateradio) and people usually mistake it for me hitting on them.
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That's because you're nothing but a jerk to the people who want to be your dear friends.
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Obsessed said:
Oh trust me, I am.

I'm too embarrassed to work out in public, but I've been trying to do more calisthenics while alone.

It is actually kind of a miracle I've managed to stay so thin. I eat junk food all day long, and until recently the only exercise I got was walking to/from the bathroom, and to/from the dinner table.




Skin & Bone GAF represent!
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Pfft... at 15 I was about average height for that age (It's been so long I forgot how tall I was back then lol) and 85lbs. 'Course I was dangerously underweight enough that I had to have a tube put up my nose and force fed. Before anyone asks, no I wasn't bulimic or anorexic. I've always had a high metabolism and can't gain weight for shit. Everyone kept thinking I was purposely starving myself even when I kept telling them I wasn't.

Have you hit on anyone yourself. Sometimes you gotta make the first move.
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You're missing the point. This isn't about dating, it's about feeling wanted/attractive. It's hard to hit on someone when you don't feel like anyone wants you to begin with.
 
Did anyone watch The Adonis Factor? It is a pretty crappy documentary on how having a hot bod is paramount in gay circles. But they have a lot of hot guys with hot bods lamenting how they can't meet anyone nice and sweet because their bodies attract assholes.

Just hit mute and fap.
 
Teh Hamburglar said:
Did anyone watch The Adonis Factor? It is a pretty crappy documentary on how having a hot bod is paramount in gay circles. But they have a lot of hot guys with hot bods lamenting how they can't meet anyone nice and sweet because their bodies attract assholes.

Just hit mute and fap.
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you dont need a docu to see it, just check out the millions of personals with things mostly pertaining to guys shirtless with no face pic/ putting on their profile that they are only on said site for muscular buff guys etc
 
Teh Hamburglar said:
Did anyone watch The Adonis Factor? It is a pretty crappy documentary on how having a hot bod is paramount in gay circles. But they have a lot of hot guys with hot bods lamenting how they can't meet anyone nice and sweet because their bodies attract assholes.

Just hit mute and fap.
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To be fair, isn't that no different from straight/bi guys going after big breasted blondes? I'm guessing this docu made it seem really cutthroat (which I'm sure it is..and one of the many reasons I loathe the "gay scene").
 
I'm 5'8 and 130. :(
I've been 130 since I was 13, and I'm 29.

I eat a lot, but burn it fast. Tried weight-gain shakes, diets, gym and other things and ended losing weight (went down to 127 during one of the diets, after around 4 weeks). So, I just accepted it, moved on, and hey! I love food, so bring it!!! XD


Teh Hamburglar said:
Did anyone watch The Adonis Factor? It is a pretty crappy documentary on how having a hot bod is paramount in gay circles. But they have a lot of hot guys with hot bods lamenting how they can't meet anyone nice and sweet because their bodies attract assholes.


Just hit mute and fap.
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Hahahaha.
I have it on my Netflix queue! XD
 
fernoca said:
I'm 5'8 and 130. :(
I've been 130 since I was 13, and I'm 29.

I eat a lot, but burn it fast. Tried weight-gain shakes, diets, gym and other things and ended losing weight (went down to 127 during one of the diets, after around 4 weeks). So, I just accepted it, moved on, and hey! I love food, so bring it!!! XD
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The gay gods have blessed you with that body. I wish i could take mine back.
 
Kyon said:
i dont like that word, and i dont hate them
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I guess u are that rare 1% as 99% of gay people hate fat people. Even fat gay people hate fat gay people. I'm not even going to bring up being black and gay as that a whole different type of people gay people hate.
 
neojubei said:
I guess u are that rare 1% as 99% of gay people hate fat people. Even fat gay people hate fat gay people. I'm not even going to bring up being black and gay as that a whole different type of people gay people hate.
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i always hated that lol
 
neojubei said:
I guess u are that rare 1% as 99% of gay people hate fat people. Even fat gay people hate fat gay people. I'm not even going to bring up being black and gay as that a whole different type of people gay people hate.
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God Black and gay is another can of worms -_-
 
fernoca said:
I'm 5'8 and 130. :(
I've been 130 since I was 13, and I'm 29.

I eat a lot, but burn it fast. Tried weight-gain shakes, diets, gym and other things and ended losing weight (went down to 127 during one of the diets, after around 4 weeks). So, I just accepted it, moved on, and hey! I love food, so bring it!!! XD



Hahahaha.
I have it on my Netflix queue! XD
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I liked the security guard in the super max prison best. Mmmm.
 
fernoca said:
I'm 5'8 and 130. :(
I've been 130 since I was 13, and I'm 29.

I eat a lot, but burn it fast. Tried weight-gain shakes, diets, gym and other things and ended losing weight (went down to 127 during one of the diets, after around 4 weeks). So, I just accepted it, moved on, and hey! I love food, so bring it!!! XD
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Had the same problem (same height/weight too), but recently got a personal trainer and I've started slowly packing on the muscles (and pounds). 140 lbs now and still going.
 
I'm 1.80m and 65-70kg. Right now I'm probably sitting at 70kg. Lowest I ever weighted was a scrawny 58kg back in college.

No inches and pounds for me. :p
 
SpaceBridge said:
I cant even begin to imagine the shit black gay people have to go through. Throw in being black, gay and a woman and I imagine it gets worse.
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I have a black, bisexual and bipolar (I) female friend for several years now and she's been through major shit in her past and present -- the worst of it from her own family and the black community (for being with another woman and also being weak like white folks and seeking psychological treatment). All I can say about it is people are especially ignorant down here and some are willing to do unspeakable things to "show you what a real man is" in this situation.

She's 15 years older than me and an awesome person. We always get lots of looks when we go out together; I'm white as snow and she's built more like a man than I am.
 
SpaceBridge said:
I cant even begin to imagine the shit black gay people have to go through. Throw in being black, gay and a woman and I imagine it gets worse.
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Actually I think it's worse if you're a Black gay man, but that could easily be debatable and either way you're right. It's even worse if you're Caribbean. I have a decent amount of young black lesbian, bi friends and for the most part a lot of things in live and dealing with people seems easier for them and more accepting. The young black gay men I know including myself not so much. More likely to be closeted still and/or take a lot of shit from people. It seems like the Afro American community has this obsession over masculinity and an expectation of being a "strong black man" that sexuality some how makes you a lesser human. Even Don Lemon said in an interview and I believe his book that being a black gay man is one of the worse things you can be in the eye of your own community[It was definitely something among those lines].

As for body types, This is something in the gay community that kind of annoys me. There seems to be a lot of tension between contrasting body types. Slimmer/muscular/twinks may say fat people are not welcome and not attractive while bears/cubs/ chubs etc will say eww twinks eat a sandwich you're unattractive and gross. Yes liking a specific range of body types is one thing but these added insults as if we aren't the same in the long run is ridiculous.
For the record, I'm about 5'9-5'10 about 150-155. And I love all body types
Especially if you have a little weight on you :p. Hey I can't help myself
 
xelios said:
I have a black, bisexual and bipolar (I) female friend for several years now and she's been through major shit in her past and present -- the worst of it from her own family and the black community (for being with another woman and also being weak like white folks and seeking psychological treatment). All I can say about it is people are especially ignorant down here and some are willing to do unspeakable things to "show you what a real man is" in this situation.

She's 15 years older than me and an awesome person. We always get lots of looks when we go out together; I'm white as snow and she's built more like a man than I am.
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We really need to have schools educate people about mental illness. So many people think of it as emotional/mental weakness when in actuality mental illness is a biological condition.

And is homophobia a much bigger problem in the black community?
 
xelios said:
I have a black, bisexual and bipolar (I) female friend for several years now and she's been through major shit in her past and present -- the worst of it from her own family and the black community (for being with another woman and also being weak like white folks and seeking psychological treatment). All I can say about it is people are especially ignorant down here and some are willing to do unspeakable things to "show you what a real man is" in this situation.
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This is why we need to educate people on mental health more. I could never understand this ass backwards thinking. That's really unfortunate that your friend has to put up with that but good for her for doing whats right for her own being.

Obsessed said:
And is homophobia a much bigger problem in the black community?
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Yes. Want a small glimpse. Go to theroot.com look up any article about the lgbt community read the comments and die a bit inside. Also i hate it when people pull the oppression Olympics on who had worse the black community or lgbt. My grandmother and another family member was complaining why people are comparing the lgbt movement to the african american movement and that us blacks had it worse. While I really don't want this thread to turn into a debate into which one is worse because it shouldn't matter and we've seen that on gaf way too much, one thing is for certain. If you were black and gay during the african american movement... yeah that doesn't sound so grand does it. In the end people in the world have it hard and that sucks.
 
My boyfriend and I are going to New York to celebrate our 6th anniversary, but now with the hurricane I think our flight will be canceled. It was booked for tomorrow.
 
chronos4590 said:
Yes. Want a small glimpse. Go to theroot.com look up any article about the lgbt community read the comments and die a bit inside.
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I don't want to die inside today. I've been in a pretty good mood all day.

Hmm... this isn't exactly related to the thread, but how do I go about viewing porn while at college? I'm almost certain it doesn't fall under the "acceptable use" policy.
 
Obsessed said:
I don't want to die inside today. I've been in a pretty good mood all day.

Hmm... this isn't exactly related to the thread, but how do I go about viewing porn while at college? I'm almost certain it doesn't fall under the "acceptable use" policy.
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Are you paying for the internet? Then why not. I did, nothing came of it.
As long as you are not torrenting it
 
Marius_ said:
Are you paying for the internet? Then why not. I did, nothing came of it.
As long as you are not torrenting it
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Nope. Unless it is a cost hidden in room/board.

Basically here are the policies:

http://policies.emory.edu/5.1

And this bit has me concerned:

Personal Usage:

Limited and reasonable personal use of Emory’s IT resources is acceptable and allowed, as long as it does not:
Interfere with the fulfillment of an employee's responsibilities;
Adversely impact or conflict with any activities that support Emory’s mission or operations;
Involve the viewing or distribution of pornography;
Result in any measurable cost to Emory;
Reflect poorly on the institution;
Violate any other applicable University policies.
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It clearly says you can't view pornography. Not sure if there are ways to get around that (probably are), up to you if you want to risk the consequences.
 
I'm in college, I've watched porn a lot this week in my dorm room.

I definitely watched it last year too. I find it hard to believe I'm the only person on campus who is watching porn regularly. Nothing has happened to me yet...
 
Fantastical said:
I'm in college, I've watched porn a lot this week in my dorm room.

I definitely watched it last year too. I find it hard to believe I'm the only person on campus who is watching porn regularly. Nothing has happened to me yet...
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You must have a room to yourself then lol. There's no way I could watch porn if I shared a room with someone. I'd be too afraid they'd walk in on me while I was jerking it.
 
Henchmen21 said:
You must have a room to yourself then lol. There's no way I could watch porn if I shared a room with someone. I'd be too afraid they'd walk in on me while I was jerking it.
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I lucked out by having a single dorm in college because they somehow lost my application and filled up all the double and triple rooms. So I got my own room for the price of a double.

First time in my life I ever had so much privacy. So yeah, I really delved into porn those two years...haha
 
xelios said:
It clearly says you can't view pornography. Not sure if there are ways to get around that (probably are), up to you if you want to risk the consequences.
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I'm going to have to try to find some way around it. Or I can possibly get off on my reserves + imagination until the Thanksgiving break.
 
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