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RPGCrazied said:
Yes, Ew. I have no problems finding a nice guy that says nice things to me. Be it they are already involved with someone or live in another state, hell I've talked to nice people in another country before. I don't know why all the Texas guys suck. And since no one will do a long distance relationship(to get things rolling), I fear I will be alone for a very long time. Unless I move, but that takes a lot of money, so that's out. I had no problems when I was in my 20s, I guess everyone at that age could be with someone.

I'm just tired of being 34, and most guys thinking I'm already dead.
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Hmm :/ your situation seems very unfortunate. May i ask why you don't save up and move out to a different state? It may take a couple years but i think it would pay off if you really hate Texas that much.
 
fernoca said:
Hey stud, is everything alright? Haven't seen you in a while around Facebook..and not much in here. ;)
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Bel Marduk said:
Oh they already did.. I don't think the military did sting operations on gay soldiers for a long time. They did in the past but the far past like in the 70s and 80s.
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I have no idea how old you are, but that certainly puts it into perspective. My how I dont envy gay youth these days. There's ignorance, and there's blantant disregard for the historical struggles of the Gay Lesbian Bisexual Transgender movement of the last 50 years, from which sprouted cross dressing, transvestites, drag queens, ki ki, vogueing, Stonewall, pride parades, AIDS awareness, etc.

Im not going to get into a debate cuz Im not in the mood, and also because you have a Devil Summoner avatar, but honestly, please try consider that being a part of the gay community includes being a part broad spectrum of people.
 
RPGCrazied said:
Yes, Ew. I have no problems finding a nice guy that says nice things to me. Be it they are already involved with someone or live in another state, hell I've talked to nice people in another country before. I don't know why all the Texas guys suck. And since no one will do a long distance relationship(to get things rolling), I fear I will be alone for a very long time. Unless I move, but that takes a lot of money, so that's out. I had no problems when I was in my 20s, I guess everyone at that age could be with someone.

I'm just tired of being 34, and most guys thinking I'm already dead.
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Least u met someone in your twenties. I never had that luck. I was always rejected. Maybe I should move too. Even though Boston has a growing gay population it seems this is the worse place for me to actually met anyone. Then again I'm short I don't have abs or anything like that.
 
neojubei said:
Least u met someone in your twenties. I never had that luck. I was always rejected. Maybe I should move too. Even though Boston has a growing gay population it seems this is the worse place for me to actually met anyone. Then again I'm short I don't have abs or anything like that.
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Again, for like the 10th time.
 
red_13th said:
Share plz! :D
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I'll msg you the search term if you really want to see him! lol I think he trolls GAF from time to time... he might even be in this thread. He is a big Tekken player :p

ilikeme said:
voguing is awesome lol

you can do it in a slightly more organized and dancey way like this here man Mike Gamble Voguing

he teaches a class on it here in Gothenburg :D.. I attend!

actually getting *less* attracted to someone because they vogue.. wow that's hard to imagine for me. it's such a stupid fun dance. STYLIN' yahh, and! you get to make your own catwalk walk, which is quite difficult to achieve. trying to look like a model walking down a runway is harrrrd

they're so fierce!
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Well, i was a bit more insecure with my sexuality then, and there were other things, like how he acted with his friends and his 'house' family (he was a Balenciaga now hes in a different gay house) and how he was when he was with me, but the more he got comfortable with me the more he acted like he was when he is with his house family.

Choreographed vogue is fine though!
 
SpaceBridge said:
I have no idea how old you are, but that certainly puts it into perspective. My how I dont envy gay youth these days. There's ignorance, and there's blantant disregard for the historical struggles of the Gay Lesbian Bisexual Transgender movement of the last 50 years, from which sprouted cross dressing, transvestites, drag queens, ki ki, vogueing, Stonewall, pride parades, AIDS awareness, etc.

Im not going to get into a debate cuz Im not in the mood, and also because you have a Devil Summoner avatar, but honestly, please try consider that being a part of the gay community includes being a part broad spectrum of people.
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Bridge I have to say that I really like how you always stress that we must never disregard our diversity community and now with this post, our history as well. That's something I really admire. It's similar to how I feel with African American youth and history. How most of us in my generation can only name MLK, Malcom X, etc and then straight back to our scheduled BET or Black
Evil
Television and our Tyler Perry minstrelsy.Then you hear crying and moaning that "we" struggled" but clearly my generation has not in the way that our predecessors did, but excuse me I'm went on a bit of a tangent. That's for a whole other thread.

Edit: I agree with DarkUSS. Where are you getting these LOL?
 
Space's gifs are from Beast Wars...I think.

At least I remember seeing them on TV under that name back then. :p


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Yep; the one in this page is Cheetor.

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Well tomorrow I'm going to meet someone else who I have talked to online. He is a friend of a friend. He's a big gamer like me, just gonna hang out tomorrow. Just want to be friends is all. At least I won't have a boring Sunday like I usually do. The guy is gay but I don't have those kind of feelings for him lol.
 
MidnightScott said:
Well tomorrow I'm going to meet someone else who I have talked to online. He is a friend of a friend. He's a big gamer like me, just gonna hang out tomorrow. Just want to be friends is all. At least I won't have a boring Sunday like I usually do. The guy is gay but I don't have those kind of feelings for him lol.
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Cool, friends are always nice. Though if you're not looking "for something" (or at least not with him); find a way to know if he thinks the same and doesn't have a crush on you..or something. :p
 
chronos4590 said:
Bridge I have to say that I really like how you always stress that we must never disregard our diversity community and now with this post, our history as well. That's something I really admire. It's similar to how I feel with African American youth and history. How most of us in my generation can only name MLK, Malcom X, etc and then straight back to our scheduled BET or Black
Evil
Television and our Tyler Perry minstrelsy.Then you hear crying and moaning that "we" struggled" but clearly my generation has not in the way that our predecessors did, but excuse me I'm went on a bit of a tangent. That's for a whole other thread.

Edit: I agree with DarkUSS. Where are you getting these LOL?
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Bro fist!

And yes, the gifs are from Beast Wars. Ive been rewatching the series the last few days. Such a great show.
 
SpaceBridge said:
I recommend you all take an hour and half and get a glimpse into being gay, black, and struggling in New York in the 80's:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5_S4fibeoMU&feature=related
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I'm going to have to give this a watch. I've heard of this film plenty of times but it always slips my mind to watch it. One of the first lines on being black and gay is true and its something Don Lemon said recently too when he revealed his sexuality to the public eye.
On similar terms Here is a interesting comment from Author James Baldwin on being Poor, Black, and Gay. This man is a hero in both communities.
 
Paris is Burning is incredibly sad. To me, it had the same kind of dream-crushing hopelessness that was present in another classic 1990s doc, Hoop Dreams. The basic message of both films is that certain things are inescapable -- and while it may feel that way for a lot of people, it's not always true.
 
SecretMoblin said:
Paris is Burning is incredibly sad. To me, it had the same kind of dream-crushing hopelessness that was present in another classic 1990s doc, Hoop Dreams. The basic message of both films is that certain things are inescapable -- and while it may feel that way for a lot of people, it's not always true.
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It's a great song by Ladyhawke though.
 
Bel Marduk said:
I never said it did. What I was getting at is that there are plenty of gays who don't fit a stereotype. Also, do you follow me from thread to thread looking for an argument? I'm flattered.
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Obviously. I mean I've never posted in this thread before so this was clearly just following you around.

And really? You only meant that there are gays that don't fit the stereotype? Then what the fuck was the word transvestite used for?

Sorry, but I don't think you meant it as a joke considering the "enlightened" views of transsexuals and transvestites you've shared in the past.
 
SpaceBridge said:
I have no idea how old you are, but that certainly puts it into perspective. My how I dont envy gay youth these days. There's ignorance, and there's blantant disregard for the historical struggles of the Gay Lesbian Bisexual Transgender movement of the last 50 years, from which sprouted cross dressing, transvestites, drag queens, ki ki, vogueing, Stonewall, pride parades, AIDS awareness, etc.

Im not going to get into a debate cuz Im not in the mood, and also because you have a Devil Summoner avatar, but honestly, please try consider that being a part of the gay community includes being a part broad spectrum of people.
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Really? I've read pretty much everything out there on gay history... what I was posting was from what I know of gay friends in the military versus what I've read about in the book Conduct Unbecoming by Randy Shilts. Indeed, I've read all of his books and watched Milk yesterday which was based on his mayor of Castro Street. Indeed, I read EVERYTHING I can related to gay history.. just because I wasn't there (because I wasn't alive) doesn't mean I'm ignorant of past struggles. Kind of painting all younger gays with a broad brush, aren't you?

Did you know that the Mattachine Society did not accept transgendered members? Did you know that the Stonewall was not a transgender bar?
 
neojubei said:
Least u met someone in your twenties. I never had that luck. I was always rejected. Maybe I should move too. Even though Boston has a growing gay population it seems this is the worse place for me to actually met anyone. Then again I'm short I don't have abs or anything like that.
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Hmmm.. are some of you shy and introverted? That was my problem for a long time.. but Boston is not the same as rural Texas at all when it comes to gay population. Maybe you're just not "putting yourself out there?" That probably has a lot more to do with it than your lack of abs. Confidence!!
 
Bel Marduk said:
Hmmm.. are some of you shy and introverted? That was my problem for a long time.. but Boston is not the same as rural Texas at all when it comes to gay population. Maybe you're just not "putting yourself out there?" That probably has a lot more to do with it than your lack of abs. Confidence!!
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Boston is a racist gay city. I hate this place. I wish j could met some gay basher and he could just kill me so I can be over with this life.
 
The Broken Ska Record said:
I swear to God, I'll fly to Boston and smack some sense into you. >:[
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He'd like that and wish you'd kill him in the process.
 
SpaceBridge said:
Im not going to get into a debate cuz Im not in the mood, and also because you have a Devil Summoner avatar, but honestly, please try consider that being a part of the gay community includes being a part broad spectrum of people.
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You know just because you prefer to do something specific with your genitalia doesn't preclude you from being a member of THE community. I feel sorry for people who equate their sense of self and history with their sexuality. Seems a real pale thing to base ones self on.
 
HeadlessRoland said:
You know just because you prefer to do something specific with your genitalia doesn't preclude you from being a member of THE community. I feel sorry for people who equate their sense of self and history with their sexuality. Seems a real pale thing to base ones self on.
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Certainly. But I now have the right to do stuff with my genitilia, as well as get married, own a home, have insurance for my partner, adopt a child, get a divorce and not be discrimated against because of GLBT community and its struggles for eequality.
 
RPGCrazied said:
Fuck Texas, don't come here. Unless you look like super model, then maybe. Guy's here wont pay you any attention if you are not.
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Welcome to every place in the world I guess. Though I'm from Puerto Rico; but is not like things I've heard and been told from other places are any different. :p

Been single all my 29 years. I've tried at least; so while I may feel bad sometimes for been alone; well...is not like I sat here waiting for Prince Charming to come rescue me. :p

Now I'm like, well..whatever. I'd like to be in a relationship, always wanted; but hey; if the guy's there cool. If not, well is not like there's a law that I have to be with someone.
 
neojubei said:
Boston is a racist gay city. I hate this place. I wish j could met some gay basher and he could just kill me so I can be over with this life.
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Dude, cheer up. It can't be as bad as all that... Sucks that racism is such a problem in your city, I usually associate that with people from here (The South) and hoped the rest of the country was a bit more progressive although I suppose there's racism everywhere.

What about Providence?

NYC?

Seriously.. Just put yourself out there. Everyone can't be racist or what about guys of your own race? It seems you have a self-defeating attitude.
 
RPGCrazied said:
Fuck Texas, don't come here. Unless you look like super model, then maybe. Guy's here wont pay you any attention if you are not.
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Funny enough, when I was staying in Houston for a month I ran across an underwear model on Craigslist. Couldn't honestly tell you what he looks like now, because he certainly wasn't a national model, but I find your snide comment funny because of that.
 
TheSeks said:
Funny enough, when I was staying in Houston for a month I ran across an underwear model on Craigslist. Couldn't honestly tell you what he looks like now, because he certainly wasn't a national model, but I find your snide comment funny because of that.
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Even lately I try and talk to guys, that have the same interests, but look the other way when they see my profile or my photos.
 
I highly recommend for anyone interested in learning about love, being in love, suffering of love, searching for love etc. to read this book Erich Fromm - The Art of Loving. It's a classic in Psychology that offers insightful information about interpersonal relationships.
Be warned that it doesn't offer a recipe or plan to follow and talks about abstract concepts but I find it appropriate for this thread, hopefully some of you can benefit from this book.
I'm thinking of rereading this book since there is a lot of information I didn't understand at the time or wasn't prepared to, it's a great book.
 
Sai-kun said:
And...?

And...?!

DETAILS.
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We didn't play games at all. He is a licensed massage therapist and he was touching me almost the whole time we were talking. Laying on me, rubbing my back. He came very close to touching my crotch, pressing on the inside of my leg, but he never did. Hugging me too and rubbing my arms. I let him do it all and enjoyed it.

By the time I was leaving I was leaking, and he saw that and told me that I was leaking. I was really horned up and thought about doing something but had to get back home for dinner. >.>;

I'm either horned up because he was touching me everywhere or because of that and I am attracted to guys. He told me he didn't want to cross the line with me.

He's really kind of flamboyant but I enjoyed talking to him too. Might go hang out again in a few days.
 
Sounds nice and hot, MidnightScott. XD
But were you naked, just in underwear or wearing some really short pants?
Because if you were doing "that" and even he could see it...damn. XD
 
MidnightScott said:
We didn't play games at all. He is a licensed massage therapist and he was touching me almost the whole time we were talking. Laying on me, rubbing my back. He came very close to touching my crotch, pressing on the inside of my leg, but he never did. Hugging me too and rubbing my arms. I let him do it all and enjoyed it.

By the time I was leaving I was leaking, and he saw that and told me that I was leaking. I was really horned up and thought about doing something but had to get back home for dinner. >.>;

I'm either horned up because he was touching me everywhere or because of that and I am attracted to guys. He told me he didn't want to cross the line with me.

He's really kind of flamboyant but I enjoyed talking to him too. Might go hang out again in a few days.
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Eh, I'd say
save your actual sexual experience for a guy that you're actually attracted to, not just some random guy because you're horned up. Also, my Osteopath looks like Michael Vartan and he massage me on a monthly basis but I don't get horned up from that (although damn, looking at him up close sure is a sight to behold, especially when he jumps on top of me). So I'd say you just have a lot of pent up sexual desire from men on men contact.
 
fernoca said:
Sounds nice and hot, MidnightScott. XD
But were you naked, just in underwear or wearing some really short pants?
Because if you were doing "that" and even he could see it...damn. XD
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Also, what color socks were you wearing?
 
Bel Marduk said:
Also, what color socks were you wearing?
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:p
I'm just asking because he said that the guy could see he was
leaking
. And he didn't mention of the other guy asking him to remove clothes or actually do a massage, just
"talking and touching".

Just wondering the kind of clothing since that kind of "thing" is not something that can be seen by others...that easily.
 
fernoca said:
:p
I'm just asking because he said that the guy could see he was
leaking
. And he didn't mention of the other guy asking him to remove clothes or actually do a massage, just
"talking and touching".

Just wondering the kind of clothing since that kind of "thing" is not something that can be seen by others...that easily.
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Unless you have a giant penis, then you might be able to see the tent, and the dark spot from the leak.

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SpaceBridge said:
Unless you have a giant penis, then you might be able to see the tent, and the dark spot from the leak.

http://plumbingsos.com/plumber/gas-leak.gif
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Guess I have a giant penis then. :p

Or not?! :p
But I'm known for leaking a lot, even the guys I've been with has been surprised by it. But while wearing clothes they can't see I am. >:)

Usually pisses me off, because I feel like I peed myself and walking around all wet...then again I usually wear black pants or jeans.
 
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