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JeFfRey said:
Same if you say that it's all the rage at American Apparel, I would never shop there.

Just as an example, take this Rotweller t-shirt from last fall's Givenchy collection. I mean it's a dog on a shirt... it looks straight from Wal Mart.

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American Apparel has more of neon-80s feel and it's (mostly) awesome for people who can work it out.

The Ed Hardy shit like that dog thing need to die though. Tacky tacky tacky.
 
JeFfRey said:
The thread was about the importance of the size of a penis and I said that size matters. And people didn't like that. But yes, size does matters and I wouldn't date a guy with a small penis.
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Your preference is your preference, but I'm curious. How exactly would you have the break up conservation? I don't imagine it would just be: "I'm sorry, but your penis too small for me."
 
JeFfRey said:
Some people like blond guys, but for me I like them with big cocks. That's all.
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I know you mean no harm and people have different tastes and this isn't supposed to be a therapy forum but.. There are many people on this forum and this thread who seem to have all kinds of self-esteem problems and saying stuff like that definitely won't make them feel better about themselves.

I know you're only talking about your own preferences but still, just a thought.
 
neojubei said:
why not, doctors and therapists haven't helped one bit.
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Did you specifically go to a cognitive therapist? Therapists use different methods for different problems. Someone using psychoanalysis probably won't help you. However, cognitive therapy at least has some evidence showing it's effectiveness.

http://www.apa.org/divisions/div12/rev_est/cog_depr.html

What kind of therapy did you go to specifically?


neojubei said:
Looking back i think maybe my friend was trying to make me feel better. It felt like a horrible night, least from my perspective.
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And this is why a boyfriend won't magically solve your problems. Once you have a boyfriend you'll probably just have different self-destructive thoughts. "He only loves me for X," "He is definitely cheating on me, nobody loves me and there are millions of guys better than me," etc...
 
Some of you must have buckets for arseholes, if someone busted out 9 inches anywhere near me I'd just suggest we do something else. Knitting, perhaps.
 
I agree with JeFfRey.

It's just a preference. Much like liking red heads, or tall guys or whatever.

I wouldn't date a guy with a small cock more than once. We could be awesome friends but there would be zero long term potential. I would say the same about a guy shorter than me. I don't get the same feelings for shorter guys, sexually.

Not everyone is suited for everyone else. It's not a matter of self esteem issues, as there are guys out there that love shorter guys and smaller cocks.
 
Cosmic Bus said:
...which are not mutually exclusive, mind you. ;)
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I've done the research. *grin*

And there are exceptions. One of my fave flings back in the day was a shorter guy built like a fireplug and he was packing heat. But even that in the long term wasn't going to work as when we cuddled, I felt like I was protecting a hobbit from the Nazgul. HAHA
I wasn't getting the right feel from him as a romantic partner.

Great guy for a fuck though.
 
Phonomezer said:
Some of you must have buckets for arseholes, if someone busted out 9 inches anywhere near me I'd just suggest we do something else. Knitting, perhaps.
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Preach. I mean, I enjoy a big one as much as the next dude, but there are limits. Maybe I'm just out of practice (which is fairly accurate, this dry spell is getting ridiculous).
 
Lear said:
Preach. I mean, I enjoy a big one as much as the next dude, but there are limits. Maybe I'm just out of practice (which is fairly accurate, this dry spell is getting ridiculous).
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It's part of the fun. It'll never fit, it'll never fit, it'll never fit but ouch it did!
 
I think that in the end, when it comes to size is one of those things that "you have to see".
Some look bigger than others, others are growers, others use their own dick as a rule to measure others (i.e. anything smaller than mine is a no-no), etc.

Basing it just by the numbers; many "7 inches" would fall short..so to speak; and so on. Or the guys that are like 7.5 but round it to 8 and say "it gets bigger when I'm really excited". ; etc.

Unless some carry rules around and measure each guy to make sure. But at the same time that might be why so many lie in their online profiles in "those sites". Writing "I have 8 inches" gets more attention, than " I have 6 inches"...and in the heat of the situation; unless the other guy has actual 8 inches; is not like one's going to measure the other and say "Nah-ah ".
 
JeFfRey said:
It's part of the fun. It'll never fit, it'll never fit, it'll never fit but ouch it did!
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Oh i'm aware that with enough lube and perseverance you can manage some quite surprising things. There just comes a point where it's such a production that it's not worth the time and effort. Then again, I've never slept with anyone larger than about 7.5 so perhaps I should withhold judgment.
 
Lear said:
Oh i'm aware that with enough lube and perseverance you can manage some quite surprising things. There just comes a point where it's such a production that it's not worth the time and effort. Then again, I've never slept with anyone larger than about 7.5 so perhaps I should withhold judgment.
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Unlike a dildo, a penis is being squeezed when entering, so it's easier,
 
The claws are out in this thread. Time to make some popcorn.

Related question for tops: Do you care about the size of the bottom's penis? If so, why?
 
Lear said:
Oh i'm aware that with enough lube and perseverance you can manage some quite surprising things. There just comes a point where it's such a production that it's not worth the time and effort. Then again, I've never slept with anyone larger than about 7.5 so perhaps I should withhold judgment.
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For some the production is the whole point. =)

For some sex is perfunctory. For some sex is a stage show. For some a Harlequin romance. For some, a power exchange. For some an escape. For some, all of the above.
 
Lear said:
Oh i'm aware that with enough lube and perseverance you can manage some quite surprising things. There just comes a point where it's such a production that it's not worth the time and effort. Then again, I've never slept with anyone larger than about 7.5 so perhaps I should withhold judgment.
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I only occasionally allow guys to park their bikes up the dirt track, but anything more than 7.5 would make me feel like a pig on a spit.

I think 6 or 7 is my ceiling, anything else is just a waste of real estate and I am far too tight to have monsters poking in and out of the cupboard.
 
Cosmic Bus said:
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Hi Lear. :)
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Hello!

krypt0nian said:
For some the production is the whole point. =)

For some sex is perfunctory. For some sex is a stage show. For some a Harlequin romance. For some, a power exchange. For some an escape. For some, all of the above.
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Oh trust me, I love the production. I do. But at the moment the sensible part of my brain is saying 'you have Finals to revise for, you don't have time to have sex for hours'. Though saying that, when I'm horny the sensible part of my brain does tend to sit in a corner being ignored. So basically I'm not really sure what my point was, but please forgive me, I've been revising EU law all day and my brain has pretty much closed up shop in protest.
 
Phonomezer said:
I only occasionally allow guys to park their bikes up the dirt track, but anything more than 7.5 would make me feel like a pig on a spit.

I think 6 or 7 is my ceiling, anything else is just a waste of real estate and I am far too tight to have monsters poking in and out of the cupboard.
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This post is legendary.
 
Penis size doesn't matter to me, I think I prefer average or smaller then average. I don't know what I'd do if he had a micropenis. If I'd really really like him I guess we could use toys.

Fun part of sex for me is hearing a guy moan and getting him (and myself ;) ) off. If I have butterflies and like the guy, I couldn't care less about his size.

But that's just how I feel.
 
GasProblem said:
Penis size doesn't matter to me, I think I prefer average or smaller then average. I don't know what I'd do if he had a micropenis. If I'd really really like him I guess we could use toys.

Fun part of sex for me is hearing a guy moan and getting him (and myself ;) ) off. If I have butterflies and like the guy, I couldn't care less about his size.

But that's just how I feel.
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See? There's someone for everyone. *grin*
 
GasProblem said:
Penis size doesn't matter to me, I think I prefer average or smaller then average. I don't know what I'd do if he had a micropenis. If I'd really really like him I guess we could use toys.

Fun part of sex for me is hearing a guy moan and getting him (and myself ;) ) off. If I have butterflies and like the guy, I couldn't care less about his size.

But that's just how I feel.
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I saw micropenis on Wiki, that's a problem I think.
But even slighly below the average is still fine for me.
It depends also on what you like to do during sex.
 
Cosmic Bus said:
Thread is now making me want to get laid. :(
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..me too :<

...

plan a trip 2 chi-town bby ;)))

Random note, a friend linked me to this website: http://lovegodsway.org/GayBands

I was laughing so hard. It's some stupid website about bands that will apparently turn kids gay. I just love this quote from there "
They lure children in with Pop Grooves and Salacious Melodies leaving them wanting more."

That's how they got me. Damn you, pop music!
 
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