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Small clip of a gay wedding one of my fag hag friends just sent me. Usually i get annoyed when she keeps sending me youtubes of vogue battles, gay weddings, and gays fighting, but this was pretty cute (That fuck ugly haircut on the guy aside. Why do gay guys always get retarded hair styles? -_-)

I've never had sex so I don't know if I like to bottom. Although I do fantasize about it a lot...
...Just do it. Get a one night stand after reading up on some info and preparing yourself and get 'er done. Honestly, too much stock is placed in that "Love must wait" bullshit. Get your practice in now so when you meet someone you like, you will know how to do it and they won't have to deal with bad or boring sex.
 
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All Jakes are hawt!
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Alright. Regardless of the methods you are where you want to be. I hope everything works out for you.

Small clip of a gay wedding one of my fag hag friends just sent me. Usually i get annoyed when she keeps sending me youtubes of vogue battles, gay weddings, and gays fighting, but this was pretty cute (That fuck ugly haircut on the guy aside. Why do gay guys always get retarded hair styles? -_-)

...Just do it. Get a one night stand after reading up on some info and preparing yourself and get 'er done. Honestly, too much stock is placed in that "Love must wait" bullshit. Get your practice in now so when you meet someone you like, you will know how to do it and they won't have to deal with bad or boring sex.
Why does anyone get stupid hair cuts? >>;

Personally, I think it would be fun to experience some things with the one you love. It can only go up from there. har har
 
way to generalize and stereotype, but no when Robyn gets play the club dies

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Robyn doesn't even get played here.
 
[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=OUORFGDwe9s[/youtube]

Small clip of a gay wedding one of my fag hag friends just sent me. Usually i get annoyed when she keeps sending me youtubes of vogue battles, gay weddings, and gays fighting, but this was pretty cute (That fuck ugly haircut on the guy aside. Why do gay guys always get retarded hair styles? -_-)


...Just do it. Get a one night stand after reading up on some info and preparing yourself and get 'er done. Honestly, too much stock is placed in that "Love must wait" bullshit. Get your practice in now so when you meet someone you like, you will know how to do it and they won't have to deal with bad or boring sex.
The thing about it is that I'm worried about getting a disease which is why I want to wait until it's someone I can trust though. :/
 
The thing about it is that I'm worried about getting a disease which is why I want to wait until it's someone I can trust though. :/

Condoms, dude :/ and even if you trust someone, unless youre into those droll "Lets wait 6 months" type relationships, and even then they can be hiding something

On top of that, with a stranger you can kinda go "You know what, this is/isnt for me" and kind of just go about your business afterwards. Even if you picasso (paint) its not something that would get back to their friends with your identity attached.

I say hit the nearest big town and go for it.

Wait... i forgot, were you the young guy? Am I giving sex advice to a <18 ?
 
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When homophobes always have a gay panic and say gay men "all want to have sex with me," someone will always tell them, "That's stupid. We don't want to have sex with you." That's true&#8212;because that guy is ugly. If he was hot, gay guys will want to have sex with him. I mean, that's just nature. Gay guys are attracted to hot guys, no matter of their orientation. And if they're in the locker room or at the beach or even walking down the street, we're totally going to be checking them out. Also, many gay guys think straight guys are even hotter because they're so naturally butch and hard to get. It's like straight guys' obsession with girl-on-girl action, but in reverse. Falling in love with a straight guy is a difficult and painful trap that many gay men fall into as well, but we're not talking about that. We're talking about just the lust. If they're hot, it's there&#8212;even for your boyfriend.

Not always true. Lots of my straight friends are very good-looking but the idea of having sex with them are so fucking gross. Because I've come to see them as a brother figures. So when someone asks "Are you somewhat attracted to him?", the answer is always "Ew, fuck no. That'd be like if you ask me if I'm attracted to my brother."

At the end of the day it depends on the kind of relationship you have with each man you encounter in your life. Of course, I have had crush on straight guys (who are good-looking). But the chemistry and how I'd end up interacting with them is set very early when we get to know each other. Some ended up as a crush, others despite their good-looks, ended up being close friends.
 
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Short trailer for Ira Sachs' Keep the Lights On, which sounds like it could end up being this year's Weekend (i.e. a moderately intelligent, realistic gay relationship drama).

1997. Ben is another gay man in New York trying to make a connection through a phone sex line. He meets Nick - closeted, handsome and with a girlfriend attached. From the start, this casual encounter extends itself into a hopeful moment between potential lovers. As Ben negotiates life as a documentary filmmaker, his relationship with Nick, a precociously young lawyer in a prominent publishing house, becomes more than just a fling. Nick breaks up with his girlfriend and soon the two men move in together and start to build a home. But over the years, they discover that it’s easier to get out of the closet, than it is getting rid of its shadow. Nick’s drug use gets out of control, as Ben becomes increasingly sexual compulsive. After 10 years together, Ben realizes that it’s not the relationship he needs to save: it’s himself.

Sachs based the story on his own past relationship(s) and was able to fund the movie partly through Kickstarter donations.
 
Hahaha.. So true :x ran into a guy in the gym today in the locker room and tried my hardest to not look at him. Then he tried to have convo with me :x

Was he naked? P:

I can't even tell you the horrible stories my female (or metrosexual male) friends tell me -_-.

I'm curious...

Even if you picasso (paint) its not something that would get back to their friends with your identity attached.

I don't understand this sentence. If he's a painter, he might not want his friends to know? If I were a painter, I would let everyone see my awesome painting skillz!
 
Condoms, dude :/ and even if you trust someone, unless youre into those droll "Lets wait 6 months" type relationships, and even then they can be hiding something

On top of that, with a stranger you can kinda go "You know what, this is/isnt for me" and kind of just go about your business afterwards. Even if you picasso (paint) its not something that would get back to their friends with your identity attached.

I say hit the nearest big town and go for it.

Wait... i forgot, were you the young guy? Am I giving sex advice to a <18 ?
I'm 22, got a blowjob twice from a friend last year, I only did it back a little bit.
 
...Just do it. Get a one night stand after reading up on some info and preparing yourself and get 'er done. Honestly, too much stock is placed in that "Love must wait" bullshit. Get your practice in now so when you meet someone you like, you will know how to do it and they won't have to deal with bad or boring sex.

Good advice, but at the same time: Kinda bad advice. I've had terrible sex with one-night stands before.
 
Wow, what a night.

My friend and I left her house and went to Phoenix. Due to miscommunication, we ended up getting there at around 12, an hour and half later than I had planned.

We entered the bar, (glad there was no cover) and it was nothing like I pictured. I had imagined bars like in Cheers or HIMYM, or at least something quieter. Instead it was a mass of bodies drinking, talking, and dancing to the music (very loud).

Of course there's nothing wrong with this. I glad some people can enjoy that type of environment, but I was like a deer in a warzone. Once again I'm fascinated by how people can be so different.

Anyway Father_Brain says he's over at the Metropolitan, so we head over there.

The Metropolitan (once again thankfully no cover) is completely different from Phoenix. Foremost, it's a lot bigger. Which made it a much better venue.

So my friend goes to check her coat, and I see someone who looks like Father_Brain (it's actually his twin brother, FoneBone. Soap Opera gasp). At first I'm like no, forget it, don't bother him. But after a minute, I find my balls and introduce myself. I eventually meet Father_Brain, and he mercifully keeps me company.

Eventually we parts way (I hope you got home safely, Father_Brain). Along the way back, I process the situation and came to the following:

Conclusion (TL;DR): The bars weren't how I imagined they'd be (no gay bar is probably how I imagined they'd be), and I was incredibly incredibly awkward. Nevertheless it was enlightening experience, and even though its not for me, I'm glad I went.

P.S. Father_Brain, you're awesome. Thank you for spending time with me.
 
You should be honest with him and tell him you're not looking for anything serious, but you'd like to be his friend. And don't (or try not to) sleep with him unless he's clear you're not ready for a new relationship. Don't want to give him any false hope.

But also, be open to it. Who know where this could lead. Relax and have fun, but be honest with him etc etc.

we had this discussion, he knows I am not anywhere near ready or willing to go into any kind of relationship, and that I just want something relaxed, and fun. He seems game.

Then we were both drunk last night and texting bad things.

Today is going to be interesting....
 
I LOVE that this movie is all of a sudden picking up some small gay cult following. My old coworker and friend, Keith, is one of the leads in that movie. ahahahaha

I actually saw it around the time it came out (not sure how I got to see it but I did) and I was genuinely surprised by how light and happy it made me.
Everything about that movie is cute and I'm so happy that I can now claim I know a guy who knows that guy from the movie. Ha.
 
Was he naked? P:
Like he literally started undressing at the locker next to mine, by the mirror. I kept my eyes focused on my locker as not to get caught, and then he was like "hey, what did you do when working out" or something like that and i gave his full body eye contact when i meant to look at him to be friendly :x luckily he either wasn't offput or (now that I think about it, probably) gay
I'm curious...

Per the faghag I was complaining about a few weeks ago in this thread, I learned that you're supposed to get brazillian waxes from the Chinese because they will bedazzle your nether region with crystals and have special makeup that will make your dark spots down there lighter and your inside pinker or something. yeah.

But usually its stuff they'd assume I'd be into, like womens fashion, 'ballroom scene', mens couture, shaving and waxing and ultraretarded grooming, and whatnot. Things you'd assume a gay guy to be into, I guess. Never videogames :( guess gays don't game.

I don't understand this sentence. If he's a painter, he might not want his friends to know? If I were a painter, I would let everyone see my awesome painting skillz!

oh... you dont want to paint :P or be painted. Noone likes a shitty kitty. Artistry isnt appreciated in the bedroom

Good advice, but at the same time: Kinda bad advice. I've had terrible sex with one-night stands before.

Not that i'm a whore, but one night stands are usually learning experiences, and as every guy does things a little bit different from each other, you will understand more and more with each encounter what you like and what you aren't into. I'm not saying set up a bunch of one nighters and just go to town, but if its your first time... might as well.
 
Hey everybody. Thanks for the nice words. Everything is going really well so far and it keeps getting better and better.
Chronos is too cute. Congrats. I bet y'all get freaky over Oovoo/skype
LMAO
Hi congratulations to you both! I just want to share, something I already posted like 100 pages ago but I had a similar situation, back in 2009......
Patience is mandatory and even then, you may question if it makes sense what you are doing but there is nothing willpower and real feelings can't overcome. I wish you both best of luck and may you get together soon and stay like that forever.
Thanks for the advice. Much appreciated
 
Wow, what a night.

My friend and I left her house and went to Phoenix. Due to miscommunication, we ended up getting there at around 12, an hour and half later than I had planned.

We entered the bar, (glad there was no cover) and it was nothing like I pictured. I had imagined bars like in Cheers or HIMYM, or at least something quieter. Instead it was a mass of bodies drinking, talking, and dancing to the music (very loud).

Of course there's nothing wrong with this. I glad some people can enjoy that type of environment, but I was like a deer in a warzone. Once again I'm fascinated by how people can be so different.

Anyway Father_Brain says he's over at the Metropolitan, so we head over there.

The Metropolitan (once again thankfully no cover) is completely different from Phoenix. Foremost, it's a lot bigger. Which made it a much better venue.

So my friend goes to check her coat, and I see someone who looks like Father_Brain (it's actually his twin brother, FoneBone. Soap Opera gasp). At first I'm like no, forget it, don't bother him. But after a minute, I find my balls and introduce myself. I eventually meet Father_Brain, and he mercifully keeps me company.

Eventually we parts way (I hope you got home safely, Father_Brain). Along the way back, I process the situation and came to the following:

Conclusion (TL;DR): The bars weren't how I imagined they'd be (no gay bar is probably how I imagined they'd be), and I was incredibly incredibly awkward. Nevertheless it was enlightening experience, and even though its not for me, I'm glad I went.

P.S. Father_Brain, you're awesome. Thank you for spending time with me.

Sorry I had to head out before we got to talk, I was exhausted.

But yeah, pretty much any bar is going to be crowded on a Friday night after 10 or 11. Do happy hour if you want lower-key.
 
Wow, what a night.

My friend and I left her house and went to Phoenix. Due to miscommunication, we ended up getting there at around 12, an hour and half later than I had planned.

We entered the bar, (glad there was no cover) and it was nothing like I pictured. I had imagined bars like in Cheers or HIMYM, or at least something quieter. Instead it was a mass of bodies drinking, talking, and dancing to the music (very loud).

Of course there's nothing wrong with this. I glad some people can enjoy that type of environment, but I was like a deer in a warzone. Once again I'm fascinated by how people can be so different.

Anyway Father_Brain says he's over at the Metropolitan, so we head over there.

The Metropolitan (once again thankfully no cover) is completely different from Phoenix. Foremost, it's a lot bigger. Which made it a much better venue.

So my friend goes to check her coat, and I see someone who looks like Father_Brain (it's actually his twin brother, FoneBone. Soap Opera gasp). At first I'm like no, forget it, don't bother him. But after a minute, I find my balls and introduce myself. I eventually meet Father_Brain, and he mercifully keeps me company.

Eventually we parts way (I hope you got home safely, Father_Brain). Along the way back, I process the situation and came to the following:

Conclusion (TL;DR): The bars weren't how I imagined they'd be (no gay bar is probably how I imagined they'd be), and I was incredibly incredibly awkward. Nevertheless it was enlightening experience, and even though its not for me, I'm glad I went.

P.S. Father_Brain, you're awesome. Thank you for spending time with me.

Awww, thanks. You seem like a really great, smart guy. It takes time to get over yourself and find your social footing, but I've been there and it can be done.

BTW, my housewarming is in two weeks if you want to come. I can PM you the details.
 
I'm still recovering from last night, but I resisted the urge to drunk text. Fone bone, Father Samus, how was your San Diego visit? What was your impression of the scene here? Sorry I could not make it and meet up with you guys. I was having boy drama at the time.
 
Looks like I get all the share of weirdos. Last one spent the whole Thursday night looking and smiling at me at the bar, even following me to to the bathroom too keep with his sheepish smile. He did not dare to talk to me a single time even though I was alone at some times.

Now, he has just sent me a message on BearWWW saying I didn't pay attention to him two days ago (Of-fucking-course, he was creeping me out and I started hiding behind my buddies to stay away of his sight line) and that I was cute and wanted to meet me. He's not even hot, but even if he was, I wouldn't touch him either, I mean, what can you expect from somebody that is completely unable of saying basic stuff face to face?
 
I'm still recovering from last night, but I resisted the urge to drunk text. Fone bone, Father Samus, how was your San Diego visit? What was your impression of the scene here? Sorry I could not make it and meet up with you guys. I was having boy drama at the time.

I had a great time. Met a few very interesting people at Urban Mo's and had a pretty hot night, and I wish NYC had Welfare Wednesdays somewhere.
 
Like he literally started undressing at the locker next to mine, by the mirror. I kept my eyes focused on my locker as not to get caught, and then he was like "hey, what did you do when working out" or something like that and i gave his full body eye contact when i meant to look at him to be friendly :x luckily he either wasn't offput or (now that I think about it, probably) gay

I need to start going to the gym.

Per the faghag I was complaining about a few weeks ago in this thread, I learned that you're supposed to get brazillian waxes from the Chinese because they will bedazzle your nether region with crystals and have special makeup that will make your dark spots down there lighter and your inside pinker or something. yeah.

But usually its stuff they'd assume I'd be into, like womens fashion, 'ballroom scene', mens couture, shaving and waxing and ultraretarded grooming, and whatnot. Things you'd assume a gay guy to be into, I guess. Never videogames :( guess gays don't game.

And perhaps Chinese waxers, too!

But seriously, I hate when people make assumptions about your interests based on your gender/orientation. >.<

oh... you dont want to paint :P or be painted. Noone likes a shitty kitty. Artistry isnt appreciated in the bedroom

Ohh...

Oh
 
Gay's do game, but we're like unicorns. Well those of us that make it a fulltime job instead of "YEAH, BRO, I PLAY THE CALL OF DUTY AND GO TO THE GYM. HOO-HAH!"
 
That was me ;)

Don't play with my emotions.....

Gay's do game, but we're like unicorns. Well those of us that make it a fulltime job instead of "YEAH, BRO, I PLAY THE CALL OF DUTY AND GO TO THE GYM. HOO-HAH!"

You know, Ricky O (FGC knows him) is one of the people I look up to. I could totally see myself playing games with the guys, and I actually wanted to enter SSF4/MVC tourneys awhile back. That fact alone creeps straight people out, let alone the gays.
 
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