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Gay and Bisexual relationship thread |OT|
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Ollie Pooch
In a perfect world, we'd all be homersexual
Fuck, now i want some chicken nuggets.
SpaceBridge
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The Abominable Snowman
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I dont think you ever liked meBesides i'm SURE you flirted your way to a discount. Someone with your looks shouldn't have to pay a dime for anything.
See what I did there? Now where do you work and what kind of discount do you recieve?
The Broken Ska Record
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Mercury Fred
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Thanks for the perspective, everyone.
I'm willing to sacrifice and willing to risk getting very badly hurt. The trick is that I don't know what the extra mile means right now. My biggest fear is that if I do the wrong thing, I'll ruin any chance we have and that if I do nothing, he'll just drift off. He is very, very special and dear to me-- I've never met anyone like him in my life.
Ouch.
Royalan, you're painfully on point here. He used to say to me all the time "don't over-think things" It's very much in my nature to do just that but I can see how I might have gotten in my own way here by doing that =/ And yeah, if we do end up back together, I will have to try to find a way to quell that a bit.
I know it's worth going the extra mileCosmic Bus said:In the meantime, consider the pros and cons of both directions this could head, and how much effort and/or sacrifice you're willing to put in. Sometimes you just know when a person is worth going the extra mile for, and now you get to evaluate if this is one of those times.
I'm willing to sacrifice and willing to risk getting very badly hurt. The trick is that I don't know what the extra mile means right now. My biggest fear is that if I do the wrong thing, I'll ruin any chance we have and that if I do nothing, he'll just drift off. He is very, very special and dear to me-- I've never met anyone like him in my life. In my opinion, it sounds like you over-thought things a little. Especially in this post here
From the way you described things in your first post, it seemed like you two had a pretty natural progression. And then you started thinking too much about your past relationship...and his past relationship...which caused you to place an artificial (and quite possibly unnecessary) blocker on what was, until that point, a very naturally developing relationship.
My advice is to keep your distance a little but definitely let him know that you're still there for him and that you still care. Hopefully you two get back together ().
And, when/if you guys do get back together, don't over-think things. It's easy to get caught up in the failings of past relationships, but you shouldn't let yourself get so caught up in the past that it affects new relationships. If the pace you're moving at feels natural, and is good for the both of you, go with it...and fuck the bullshit of the past.
Ouch.
Royalan, you're painfully on point here. He used to say to me all the time "don't over-think things" It's very much in my nature to do just that but I can see how I might have gotten in my own way here by doing that =/ And yeah, if we do end up back together, I will have to try to find a way to quell that a bit.
Ollie Pooch
In a perfect world, we'd all be homersexual
Nah like proper non-US chicken breast ones, not that goopHere you go:
Ahh! I love the Janet Talk! *Throws bark252 in a chair and does strip dance to Discipline*
So I flaunted my sexuality just a little bit for the first time in order to gain something. I flirted with the guy in McDonalds and he didnt charge me
Reminds me of that thread with the guy who got that free Chic Fil A sammich... Is he posting in this thread yet?
*sings...I need some discipline tonight....baby don't hold back....*
Did you talk to your co-worker?
Ohhhhhhh, okay thanks! Just wondering. I still have BR2 on a shelf somewhere because I forgot to give it back to a friend in high school. :lol
So I flaunted my sexuality just a little bit for the first time in order to gain something. I flirted with the guy in McDonalds and he didnt charge me
RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
Cool. How do you think your parents will react?
Tell that to the BF. We always go dutch. =(
Besides i'm SURE you flirted your way to a discount. Someone with your looks shouldn't have to pay a dime for anything.
See what I did there? Now where do you work and what kind of discount do you recieve?
I kid. The guy's a sweetheart.
Ain't that the truth. 'Grats! You'll have to give us an update after telling the parents.
The Abominable Snowman
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VERY short, disjointed convo, yes. I INSTANTLY decided that any further friendship will have to come naturally, not forced, especially from my end when im bad at it!
Not all McDs have chicken selects, but if they do, you NEED to try it. I dont know if they changed the formula, but it tastes fresh and delicious.
Meet me at my ice cream truck <3
SpaceBridge
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Weird thing: Ive actually never come out to my mom yet. Even after being out on my own for 14 years. Something about not disappointing her. I dont know. Its an issue.
Ollie Pooch
In a perfect world, we'd all be homersexual
I don't think any of the Aussie Macas do it. Boo.
Still, regular nuggies would go down well
I don't think any of the Aussie Macas do it. Boo.
Still, regular nuggies would go down well
Wikipedia says y'all call them McDippers in Australia.
Why do you think you would disappoint her?
It took me a few years to tell my dad, but he was surprisingly subdued about it. If he were disappointed in any way, I don't think he'd ever say so.
Frozen margaritas are sooooo good.
Congrats! I really enjoy [positive] coming out stories. Any more details about the non-event? Also, good luck with your parents. Keep us posted.
So, she doesn't have clue? Why do you think she would be disappointed?
BTW, I got RE5 GE today
SpaceBridge
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So, she doesn't have clue? Why do you think she would be disappointed?
BTW, I got RE5 GE today
Dont know. Just a hang up I have. I know she knows, afterall, she knew I worked at a gay club in my early 20's. I just never felt when the right time was. Even during my long term relationship (s).
Cosmic Bus
pristine morning snow
This week is the right time. Do it.
Well, my point of view would be to look at it as some sort of closure, not to make a big deal out of it if that's not what you want.
Which club did you work at dude?
Also, who else has at least 1 night a week of rampant hormonal surges that needs to be quelled by aimless online flirtation?
I feel 17 again this week, it's weird.
i can never get into cam stuff. it just feels awkward to me.
MidnightScott
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Is being in a relationship as hard as they make it seem to be? I hope I'm up for the challenge...
How do you feel about coming out?
I'm a hopeless romantic so i tend to deal with the ups and downs within a relationship in pretty dramatic fashions lol. If you know what you both want out of the relationship, then you should have lots of fun being in the relationship.
Wrong thread. Please stay on topic.
You just gotta be up for it. It's not really hard and like Cid I'm super dramatic with my bf hah.
videogamer
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What's harder is the breakup. Relationships can feel fantastic while you are in one, but be prepared to feel terrible and become damaged goods once it ends.
Someone's been dumped.
Never been dumped, but yeah . . . :|
However, all relationships can be challenging.
Everything about this is perfect. Great writing, timing, editing, hilarious:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m31TOu27kzk
The best of the Shit ___ says to ____ youtube vids. 5 million hits and counting.
"Heeeyyy bitch! ...sorry bitch." Gets me every time, lol.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m31TOu27kzk
The best of the Shit ___ says to ____ youtube vids. 5 million hits and counting.
"Heeeyyy bitch! ...sorry bitch." Gets me every time, lol.
Ollie Pooch
In a perfect world, we'd all be homersexual
Some of that had me laughing - love how she had a coffee or some type of food in her hand in nearly every shot.
This was posted earlier.
So many of those lines have been used on me. One of the worst is:
"You're not a regular gay guy."
I need to think of something clever to say next time I hear that one. All I could think to say before was "Oh, you mean, like, feminine?"
Their response: "Ya, like, you're just one of the dudes."
Me: "Um... Okay." *rolls eyes*
"You're not a regular gay guy."
I need to think of something clever to say next time I hear that one. All I could think to say before was "Oh, you mean, like, feminine?"
Their response: "Ya, like, you're just one of the dudes."
Me: "Um... Okay." *rolls eyes*
That is the most convincing man in a frock I have seen in a loooong time. Even including the beard. The man has talent.
*SCREAAAMMSSSS* I can't breathe
Sigh...i brought up my idea for my Valentine's Day, but now it looks like i won't have that opportunity anymore... :/
listen to depressing pop music and eat food
krypt0nian
Banned
Wow. Perfection. I cannot tell you how many times I've had to stop a girl from calling me "girlfriend" or "girl". I have a Harley and cock. I am not your girlfriend or one of "your gays"
Ugh.
There's always next year.
The Abominable Snowman
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Yep. lots of masturbation. We're gonna discuss our sore loins in this thread all day on VDay.
And exchange hot MyVidsters on PM
You and your boyfriend are boring.
sorry
I met a boy on V Day once. You never know what might happen.
Ooh, sorry, sore subject. Check your PM
i didn't send u a PM
moniker
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For me, it's easier than being single.
...You really need to fuck already.
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That odd creaking sound you all just heard were my eyeballs rolling for the first time this year.
Mystic Theurge
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