I wasnt exactly posting for attention just giving an update overall. I maybe expected some people just to tell me go ahead lose weight and good luck but as I can see that wont happen anytime soon anyhow thanks. I guess I wont post here for a while now.
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I wasnt exactly posting for attention just giving an update overall. I maybe expected some people just to tell me go ahead lose weight and good luck but as I can see that wont happen anytime soon anyhow thanks. I guess I wont post here for a while now.
Working out is not a solution to chest pains. Seeing a doctor and getting their opinion definitely is. I know a girl who also doesn't like doctors because they have fucked her over more than a couple times, but even she has to go once in awhile for things.
krypt0nian
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No people actually give a shit about you and aren't going to baby you and tell you lies about weight loss curing heart disorders.
So grow a set, think of how your family will feel if you died from an untreated ailment, and get to the doctor.
Please don't pretend that you can treat life threatening illnesses with pushups and broccoli.
I've been fucked over multiple times, diagnosed with things that wasnt exactly what I had usually they were simpler stuff than what they diagnosed and by one of their accidents I lost one of my teeth. So I got reasons to be not so doctor friendly but I'll be looked down now as attention whore or selfish so might as well just stop posting so there will be less bitching about me being a mess.
krypt0nian
Banned
Bullshit. I've had someone in my family die because she was afraid of doctors.
That's worse than any fear you have. You are being selfish if you don't see one. Bottom line.
Nevermind. You've returned this into a martyr roll. Forget I ever tried to help.
That's worse than any fear you have. You are being selfish if you don't see one. Bottom line.
Nevermind. You've returned this into a martyr roll. Forget I ever tried to help.
Hi guys.
Just found out I acquired herpes. My second sexual partner ever, too.
He swears he was completely clean, but I guess not. I guess a lot of people have it and don't even know it because they never receive breakouts. I feel like my life is over.
I'm also freaking out that I have HIV, too, because I read that men with herpes are 5x more likely to acquire HIV. He swears he doesn't have that, too, but I'm going to get tested for it regardless. I feel like throwing up. For the record: no anal sex, just oral. Do you think I somehow got HIV? I also read somewhere that HSV (herpes) and HIV sometimes share a relationship.
I'm so afraid and feel so alone......I don't know where else I can talk about this
Did you ask him if he was clean before you did anything? Had he gotten tested recently? If you are worried about HIV get tested and ask that guy to get tested too.
I found out I had herpes on Christmas Eve Eve. I had this "symptom" of itchiness and redness on the penis head so i went to the general clinic and the doctor said it could be herpes or a jock itch. I got tested for herp and it came back positive. They couldn't tell me which type so I went elsewhere to get tested. Planned parenthood fucked up and they only tested for oral even though i requested for both types. So I had to go again. The oral came back positive and the genital was negative. I never had a cold sore that I can remember. I think I'm asymptomatic. The symptom I had on my dick was probably not herpes related. I could have had it as a child and not know it. There's no way to tell when I got it but it is quite common. I don't see it as the end of the world. You just gotta tell everyone upfront about before you do anything and hope they are ok with it. Even if it's genital it is still treatable.
Ollie Pooch
In a perfect world, we'd all be homersexual
Tritroid, not sure why you're even responding to this douchebag. Given what he did to you - repeatedly - it seems like you need to boost your self respect and tell him to fuck off, and mean it. He's playing with you like crazy.
SpaceBridge
Member
Ollie Pooch
In a perfect world, we'd all be homersexual
This again.
Also:
Im missing your January avatar already Julls. :_(
HAHA it's Agro! Then again, only Aussies know who he is... still, it felt weird having my pic still up outside of Realpic times!
dragonlife
Member
Red flag in regards to what?
I don't know, kind of sounds like I'm just fetish material at that point and makes me wonder just what he's looking for exactly.
Phonomezer
Banned
I feel compelled to get an Ann-Maree avatar
I love these filthy outtakes http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fpt2FN4OvxU
SpaceBridge
Member
If your not comfortable doing something sexually then dont do it.
dragonlife
Member
"At that point"? Have you already had sex with him? Or did he request you dress up as a woman as it was about to happen?
Sounds harmless to me, but if you're uncomfortable with it and he absolutely cannot have sex any other way, move on.
RadioHeadAche
Member
Maybe he just wants to have a little extra fun. It doesn't exactly mean he's just using you. Unless he has no interest in you outside of that. You could always ask, or something.
No not yet. We just got onto that topic and he said that "traps" were a big turn on for him. I'm willing to help him out with his fantasy but I'm just not sure where he's going with this. Honestly he seems a little confused and I'm not sure what to do. I think I would be his first guy and I don't want to do something wrong.
He enjoys talking to me and we've gone out together a few times though no public affection or anything. Even in private we haven't done much besides some cuddling and such.
dragonlife
Member
Ah.
Well, I know someone who's into feminine guys/chicks with dicks, soooo... just talk to the guy about it. You yourself said you wouldn't mind helping him with his fantasy.
To clarify, your fear is that he'll want you to do it all the time for sex, and possibly advance to other areas of the relationship? The ideas/possibilities and the uncertainty are the main thing, right? Just talk it out! We're not him. We can't really know what he wants. If anything, you could just end it if things get a bit too weird for you, but remain friends.
Yeah, I was just curious if anyone else had any experience with this type of situation. I think he's embarrassed about it so I'm going slow and giving him room to figure out what he wants.
Only really weird part so far is figuring out where to get women's underwear (and what kind).
dragonlife
Member
Kudos to you for being cool about it, at least. I don't know how I'd feel if I were asked to dress up as a woman for sex to fulfill a fantasy
I'd probably chuckle and say, "We'll see." If he's embarrassed about it and opened up to you, it means he probably trusts you to some degree. If he doesn't like having sex with you normally, I'd honestly tell you to bail out (assuming you don't like it).
hate: fix your avatar, man.
It's a hidden "H"
dragonlife
Member
For "Horrible"?
Take that sentiment and make it a closing statement.
"Never thought I'd find myself dating a child, but I suppose it's time to right that wrong for good."
Bam. Done. Speak no more with him forever.
Box of Bunnies
Banned
I hadn't planned on bothering with it, then I remembered I had an avatar-sized pic of Date hanging around so I chucked a B(irth) on there. Nice and easy.
That voice recording thread piqued my interest to hear what GayGAF sounds like. I'll break the ice: http://vocaroo.com/?media=vObsuL9DRXwEyzPY7
I'm sorry but what did you expect? You clearly have heart problems and losing weight is NOT going to fix that.
You're showing symptoms, might be nothing but might be serious and you NEED to get checked out. Doctors fuck up sometimes, yes. They're not superhuman but that's no reason to not go see them. You might be scared but it's better to know what's up than to die.
MidnightScott
Banned
Hey y'all
So last night I came over to his place. He was dealing with his ex's drama and was worried about his kids. So we took a drive out to his old house just to see if they were there. (just drove by) anyway he stopped at his best friends house and he tried to talk him down.
So last night I came over to his place. He was dealing with his ex's drama and was worried about his kids. So we took a drive out to his old house just to see if they were there. (just drove by) anyway he stopped at his best friends house and he tried to talk him down.
After that we came back here and were watching a movie on his TV and we started messing around kissing and stuff. I ended up being too tired at that moment so I kinda just laid there to get my energy back. Then I started touching him again and kissing him.
Finally I pulled down the covers and started sucking his cock. It was pretty thick but I liked sucking it and he was moaning and stuff.
So he wanted me to basically dry hump him for a while and so I did and we just kept kissing and I was sucking him. Then he asked me what else I wanted to do so I finally told him that I wanted him to try fucking me.
So he got a condom out and lubed it up and just laid on top of me, kinda humping at my hole and kissing me until he finally started pushing his cock into me. It hurt but not as much as I thought it was going to. He kept putting my legs on his shoulder while he was thrusting into me. My legs kept cramping while he was pounding me. I kept moaning "oh fuck, ahh" and stuff lol.
But like the whole time he was fucking me I kept having gas so it kinda felt like I had to go to the bathroom. Eventually I had to tell him to stop because it was hurting too much from that. Then after that we went to sleep after some more kissing and stuff.
I'm sure maybe in the future I'll be able to enjoy it more and he as well. But needless to say neither of us shot a load.
Finally I pulled down the covers and started sucking his cock. It was pretty thick but I liked sucking it and he was moaning and stuff.
So he wanted me to basically dry hump him for a while and so I did and we just kept kissing and I was sucking him. Then he asked me what else I wanted to do so I finally told him that I wanted him to try fucking me.
So he got a condom out and lubed it up and just laid on top of me, kinda humping at my hole and kissing me until he finally started pushing his cock into me. It hurt but not as much as I thought it was going to. He kept putting my legs on his shoulder while he was thrusting into me. My legs kept cramping while he was pounding me. I kept moaning "oh fuck, ahh" and stuff lol.
But like the whole time he was fucking me I kept having gas so it kinda felt like I had to go to the bathroom. Eventually I had to tell him to stop because it was hurting too much from that. Then after that we went to sleep after some more kissing and stuff.
I'm sure maybe in the future I'll be able to enjoy it more and he as well. But needless to say neither of us shot a load.
CHEEZMO
Obsidian fan
Are your parents Christian or anything? Mine are pretty bad so I'm afraid of exactly those type of things. Except probably worse since my mom is very emotional and would probably start crying and everything.
edit: you all need to get a life. this thread moves way too fast
If it makes you feel any better, my mother is very religious, yet took it extremely well when I told her. There were tears, but they were more from the fact that she couldn't believe that I thought that she wouldn't love me anymore. It went the exact opposite of how it had played out in my head. This is, of course, a best case scenario, but you never know!
krypt0nian
Banned
Scott, you dirty little whore. 
CornBurrito
Member
Woah you sure sound confident!
The human body is a tricky thing, and many illnesses have similar symptoms. Expecting 100% accuracy from doctors is foolish, but it is far more foolish to think that your opinion has equal validity.
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Congrats MidnightScott. Where is Marius and his onslaught of .gif responses when you need them?
Mystic Theurge
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Congrats, MidnightScott! Was that your first time?
I don't think anyone means to bitch you out, just trying to tell you some advice to help. Drastically changing your eating habits and adopting a huge workout routine is going to put extra stress on your body and heart. If you're having increasing bouts of chest pains, this is NOT a good thing.
People aren't here to baby you and tell you everything will be okay no matter what you're doing. No one is going to sit idly by while you make bad decisions because nobody wants you to die. But we also can't tell you what's wrong, which is why people are saying go to a doctor. Get a 2nd, 3rd, 4th doctor opinion if you must.
Mystic Theurge
Member
You don't need to stop posting. We're just concerned about your health.
It's your body, and you can do as you please. But if this chest pain is serious, exercise and a healthier diet may not help. Think--really think--about what may happen to you.
Doctors aren't perfect, but they're the best we have. Please go and see one.
Quadaess Suikun
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SpaceBridge
Member
CHEEZMO;34746167 said:
My reactions exactly. lol
Either way Midnight, congrats.
MidnightScott
Banned
I think my mind and the pain got to me. Lately I think my drive has been down because sometimes even when I jack off I have trouble. I feel so disappointed but he said it was still good for him.
courage201
Member
You might not take this advice-- but I hope you at the very least, read it. Chest pain is not normal-- Cardiac related chest pain is your hearts way off telling you that you are not getting enough oxygenation. You are right that lifestyle plays a pivotal part in that-- but you could have artery blockages from that lifestyle-- which could cause a Myocardial Infarct or god forbid a stroke. If you have respiratory problems as well due to your weight, that could exacerbate your condition. So PLEASE see your doctor--let them run a few labs, maybe an echocardiogram, cardiac stress test and let them rule it out. I for one would be relieved to find out its not my heart because my friend, once your heart is damage- it does not mend; and as cliche as that may sound, its the truth.
The Abominable Snowman
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Not to be a party pooper, but you just got into it spontaneously like that? wtf?
Did you clean yourself first?
Did you paint?
The Abominable Snowman
Member
Dont get upset. But doctors are here for a reason. dont know why these other gwerks are coming off cunty though. Hope all is well. How's you and chronos?
thats what i said lol
lordfroakie
Member
Find it really strange gaygaf are celebrating. Scott, as a friend, I suggest you slow down with your man. Everything seems kind of rush.
Tritroid
Member
Yeah...I was kinda thinking the same. It's great that you had sex and all but if you're looking for something more out of the relationship, definitely slow down a wee bit.
If it's just for the sex? Grats!
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