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[balddemon]

Do girls normally give guys a date they'll have sex with them?! The girl I'm talking to said if we're still dating on Oct 5th (one month after we met), we'll bang. I don't get it. That's just a lot of added pressure (especially for me, I'm a virgin), and it's really annoying. UGH but I'm still attracted to her, so I guess it's working...

EDIT: woo first post new page

 

[Kitsunebaby]

At the risk of sounding horribly ignorant or generalizing...

I'm curious, Girls of Gaf, what's with the big appeal of changing hair color?
Most of the time it's that thing where girls bleach their hair blonde or just the tips or something, but why? Is it that you just want to wear it differently, don't like the original color, or some other reason?

It's always perplexed me, as I think dyed hair tends to look tacky more often than not. Natural hair color just looks so much nicer, in my opinion.

I've never dyed my hair but I did use a couple temporary rinses to make it darker or a bit reddish. It didn't take long to realize that I looked best with my regular hair color.

Still, it's kind of like playing dress-up. Sometimes you just want to change the way you look and see if you find yourself more attractive that way. We all just want to look as attractive as we can. I don't think that's a girl only thing.

 

[Jin34]

Do girls normally give guys a date they'll have sex with them?! The girl I'm talking to said if we're still dating on Oct 5th (one month after we met), we'll bang. I don't get it. That's just a lot of added pressure (especially for me, I'm a virgin), and it's really annoying. UGH but I'm still attracted to her, so I guess it's working...

EDIT: woo first post new page

That kinda sounds like she's messing with you, girls don't give a "if you make it to here, panties off!" time.

 

[ajf009]

Do girls normally give guys a date they'll have sex with them?! The girl I'm talking to said if we're still dating on Oct 5th (one month after we met), we'll bang. I don't get it. That's just a lot of added pressure (especially for me, I'm a virgin), and it's really annoying. UGH but I'm still attracted to her, so I guess it's working...

EDIT: woo first post new page

yeah.. I remember high school

Spoiler

no offense

 

[Kinitari]

This is probably a question I should be posing to "Girl-Age" as opposed to "Girl-Gaf" - but I am kind of curious as to what kind of advice I'd get from each side. Plus, everyone else is doing it... so...

Anyway, girl (Let's call her L) and I have been seeing each other/hanging out casually for a few weeks, we had another date a few nights ago, and it went well, but our text messages were weird today. Today she was saying things like "I really am happy we're hanging out" and "I think you're having a positive effect on me" and other much more emotionally involved things I don't want to get into. The problem is, I don't want anything serious. She knows that. Heck, when I met her and we got to discussing my situation, she said "You should -not- be in a serious relationship right now. Just go out and meet a lot of girls and have fun, and hey, I am a fun girl." and it seemed sincere! But now I am worrying that she might be thinking about something more.

Do I nip it in the bud now? Am I over thinking it, is it nothing? Do I wait and see if anything else comes up before making any sort of decision?

 

[shanshan310]

A question on womens fashion.

Right now I'm really into this cute girly brand called Liz Lisa.

What do you think? Is the cutsy look a big turn off for guys?

 

[-COOLIO-]

sup

 

[Kisaya]

At the risk of sounding horribly ignorant or generalizing...

I'm curious, Girls of Gaf, what's with the big appeal of changing hair color?
Most of the time it's that thing where girls bleach their hair blonde or just the tips or something, but why? Is it that you just want to wear it differently, don't like the original color, or some other reason?

It's always perplexed me, as I think dyed hair tends to look tacky more often than not. Natural hair color just looks so much nicer, in my opinion.

I'm a weird one, I really like my hair color and have no intention of ever dying it.

And girls always want to try something new. Dying your hair to some girls is nothing cause it's not permanent, so they take the risk of trying a new look. That's my perspective.

 

[Jin34]

A question on womens fashion.

Right now I'm really into this cute girly brand called Liz Lisa.

What do you think? Is the cutsy look a big turn off for guys?

Wild Vox Pop appeared.

 

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sup

THIS

 

[ajf009]

A question on womens fashion.

Right now I'm really into this cute girly brand called Liz Lisa.

What do you think? Is the cutsy look a big turn off for guys?

its a very cutesy girly style.. but it all depends on what kind of guy you want to attract. I personally wouldn't be "turned on" by this style. I mean it's cute an all, but its not my thing. I go for alt / skater type girls (or girl since thats my gf) and I wouldn't go out of my way seeing a girl like this. But I know plenty of guys who absolutely would!


so like i said, it all depends on what kinda guy u want


edit: and to the hair dying thing, I'm a guy (^obviously^) and if I had the money for it I would totally dye my hair a different color like every month, I love changin it up and styling it too

 

[shanshan310]

Well, I have fun wearing it but I don't think my bf likes it much. Come to think of it, I'm not sure what style of clothes he's into. I'm gonna go with "no clothes"

Anyway, girl (Let's call her L) and I have been seeing each other/hanging out casually for a few weeks, we had another date a few nights ago, and it went well, but our text messages were weird today. Today she was saying things like "I really am happy we're hanging out" and "I think you're having a positive effect on me" and other much more emotionally involved things I don't want to get into. The problem is, I don't want anything serious. She knows that. Heck, when I met her and we got to discussing my situation, she said "You should -not- be in a serious relationship right now. Just go out and meet a lot of girls and have fun, and hey, I am a fun girl." and it seemed sincere! But now I am worrying that she might be thinking about something more.

Do I nip it in the bud now? Am I over thinking it, is it nothing? Do I wait and see if anything else comes up before making any sort of decision?

I'm kinda thinking the opposite actually. Saying things like "I'm happy we're hanging out" seems to suggest that she's hinting "hey, I like being your friend". I mean, that's the kind of thing I'd say to a guy when I want to make it clear I really like being his friend, but have no interest in dating him.

 

[Kisaya]

This is probably a question I should be posing to "Girl-Age" as opposed to "Girl-Gaf" - but I am kind of curious as to what kind of advice I'd get from each side. Plus, everyone else is doing it... so...

Anyway, girl (Let's call her L) and I have been seeing each other/hanging out casually for a few weeks, we had another date a few nights ago, and it went well, but our text messages were weird today. Today she was saying things like "I really am happy we're hanging out" and "I think you're having a positive effect on me" and other much more emotionally involved things I don't want to get into. The problem is, I don't want anything serious. She knows that. Heck, when I met her and we got to discussing my situation, she said "You should -not- be in a serious relationship right now. Just go out and meet a lot of girls and have fun, and hey, I am a fun girl." and it seemed sincere! But now I am worrying that she might be thinking about something more.

Do I nip it in the bud now? Am I over thinking it, is it nothing? Do I wait and see if anything else comes up before making any sort of decision?

If you already told her then you shouldn't worry about it, just as long as you don't throw in anything that suggests you want something serious (which you didn't). In the end it's her fault if she thinks of it seriously when she already knew what she was getting into.

 

[ikkemenx]

A question on womens fashion.

Right now I'm really into this cute girly brand called Liz Lisa.

http://cdn2.lookbook.nu/files/looks/medium/2011/08/06/1464501_IMG_0810.jpg[IMG]
[IMG]http://i54.tinypic.com/wtaqvn.jpg[IMG]

What do you think? Is the cutsy look a big turn off for guys?[/QUOTE]

I think it looks good on the girls who can pull this off (basically petite azn girls, or petite girls that have the "cute" thing going in general). When I was in Japan I did a lot of clothes shopping and sadly sooooo many of the boutiques were carrying clothes like this which just looked ridiculous on me (I'm tall, pear-shaped, and hardly "that" type). I pretty much only bought T-shirts and like loose tops and stuff while I was there. Heaven forbid I try any of the jeans...

 

[Leeness]

A question on womens fashion.

Right now I'm really into this cute girly brand called Liz Lisa.
http://cdn2.lookbook.nu/files/looks/medium/2011/08/06/1464501_IMG_0810.jpg
http://i54.tinypic.com/wtaqvn.jpg

What do you think? Is the cutsy look a big turn off for guys?

Oh man, that's all super cute. I think you have to have a certain frame to pull it off, though. Like, those kind of clothes go with the waifish/pixie type, that can also pull off pixie cuts, haha.

That's just how I see it, but I'm pretty sure I'm also a fashion disaster, so...

But yeah, probably going to attract guys who are more into cute than sexy, I think, haha.

 

[Prax]

A question on womens fashion.

Right now I'm really into this cute girly brand called Liz Lisa.

What do you think? Is the cutsy look a big turn off for guys?

I dunno. Cute is cute!

It probably just means you'll attract more guys that like cute. Maybe that means they will be more of the "protective" type. Which I guess begs the question: What kind of guy are you looking to attract?

Otherwise, just wear what you want. >_>

Ooh, seems ajf009 repeated my sentiments!

 

[Kisaya]

I know, I made a long post in the dating-age thread some days ago and a guy told me "Just ask her out, geez" so here I am.

Spoiler

She's a semi-coworker, 4y younger than me, don't wanna ruin the mood at workplace, we both work way too much, hopefully tomorrow I'll have time to ask her.

Ah, the guy also said to don't rape her, so I'll be careful if I'll get the date.

Doesn't seem like your that close to her so you shouldn't feel this nervous about it. Just casually ask her if she wants to hang out and go on from there~

 

[Kinitari]

I'm kinda thinking the opposite actually. Saying things like "I'm happy we're hanging out" seems to suggest that she's hinting "hey, I like being your friend".

If you already told her then you shouldn't worry about it, just as long as you don't throw in anything that suggests you want something serious (which you didn't). In the end it's her fault if she thinks of it seriously when she already knew what she was getting into.

I like these answer because it means I don't have to do anything or be racked with guilt if anything goes wrong.

 

[Alucrid]

A question on womens fashion.

Right now I'm really into this cute girly brand called Liz Lisa.

http://cdn2.lookbook.nu/files/looks/medium/2011/08/06/1464501_IMG_0810.jpg[/IG]
[IMG]http://i54.tinypic.com/wtaqvn.jpg[/IM

What do you think? Is the cutsy look a big turn off for guys?[/QUOTE]
Those two are fine ando are pretty tame tsome of the other outfits on the site which are a bot of a turn off. To

 

[Atramental]

Wild Vox Pop appeared.

So Girl-GAF, what's your opinion on Vox-Pop?

 

[gray_fox224]

sup

Great post

 

[Kitsunebaby]

A question on womens fashion.

Right now I'm really into this cute girly brand called Liz Lisa.

What do you think? Is the cutsy look a big turn off for guys?

I honestly could give a shit what guys think about my outfit. I dress up way more for other girls. Also, I love that style of clothes. I've still got some shirts and dresses like that from when I visited Japan. Unfortunately, most of it won't fit my bust size.

 

[ikkemenx]

So Girl-GAF, what's your opinion on Vox-Pop?

Is Vox-Pop a guy or a girl and why does everyone always talk about him/her??

 

[SRG01]

A question on womens fashion.

Right now I'm really into this cute girly brand called Liz Lisa.

http://cdn2.lookbook.nu/files/looks/medium/2011/08/06/1464501_IMG_0810.jpg
http://i54.tinypic.com/wtaqvn.jpg

What do you think? Is the cutsy look a big turn off for guys?

It's not a turn-off, but it only really works for thinner body-types. If you have curves, I suppose there are smart ways to hide them.

Is Vox-Pop a guy or a girl and why does everyone always talk about him/her??

He's a guy who is attracted to very thin/cutesy girls.

 

[ikkemenx]

It's not a turn-off, but it only really works for thinner body-types. If you have curves, I suppose there are smart ways to hide them.



He's a guy who is attracted to very thin/cutesy girls.

Or flaunt/accentuate those curves assuming you are not just talking about fat! xD

 

[friskykillface]

*waves to girl gaf* *doesn't see a wave back* bummer


One thing that i'm starting to see is women make the first move/break the ice more often, even though its still rare , nice to see since its always the hardest thing for us guys to do haha.

 

[Kinitari]

Is Vox-Pop a guy or a girl and why does everyone always talk about him/her??

Vox-Pop is an odd guy. I am pretty sure a troll, or I at least pray to every deity that he is. He only likes women who either look extremely young or androgynous. He is simultaneously afraid of women, lonely and finds them 'icky' is a good way to put it. Also, he says things like "Why would anyone want to sleep with a girl who's slept with other guys?". But I am pretty sure he's a troll.

*waves to girl gaf* *doesn't see a wave back* bummer


One thing that i'm starting to see is women make the first move/break the ice more often, even though its still rare , nice to see since its always the hardest thing for us guys to do haha.

A girl bought me a drink the other night... I felt so pretty .

 

[Jin34]

Is Vox-Pop a guy or a girl and why does everyone always talk about him/her??

Vox Pop is a guy gaffer who is really into young cute girly looking girls with small boobs/butt only and dislikes anything resembling curves though sometimes it feels like he's just messing with people.

 

[ajf009]

So Girl-GAF, what's your opinion on Vox-Pop?

 

[shanshan310]

Meh, I have no problem with vox-pop.

I honestly could give a shit what guys think about my outfit. I dress up way more for other girls. Also, I love that style of clothes. I've still got some shirts and dresses like that from when I visited Japan. Unfortunately, most of it won't fit my bust size.

Finally, the one plus of having small boobs. Must say though, wearing those clothes make even my bust look a bit too big.

 

[ikkemenx]

*waves to girl gaf* *doesn't see a wave back* bummer


One thing that i'm starting to see is women make the first move/break the ice more often, even though its still rare , nice to see since its always the hardest thing for us guys to do haha.

*wave!*

 

[Devolution]

There's a boutique near Japantown that sells clothes like that for hundreds of dollars. My jaw drops every time my curiosity is peaked about what they're selling in a given season.

 

[Kisaya]

A question on womens fashion.

Right now I'm really into this cute girly brand called Liz Lisa.

http://cdn2.lookbook.nu/files/looks/medium/2011/08/06/1464501_IMG_0810.jpg[/IG]
[IMG]http://i54.tinypic.com/wtaqvn.jpg[/IG]

What do you think? Is the cutsy look a big turn off for guys?[/QUOTE]

I fit this frame but I'm not really into the whole cutesy look :/ Buut I kinda do like that top.

 

[Atramental]

Meh, I have no problem with vox-pop.

Uh-oh...

 

[Devolution]

So Girl-GAF, what's your opinion on Vox-Pop?

I've run into types like him before. And there's no nice way to say creepy.

 

[shanshan310]

There's a boutique near Japantown that sells clothes like that for hundreds of dollars. My jaw drops every time my curiosity is peaked about what they're selling in a given season.

That's the only problem. The price tag. -_-

I did find this online shop though that sell clothes at slightly cheaper prices.

 

[SRG01]

Or flaunt/accentuate those curves assuming you are not just talking about fat! xD

Haha, well I don't think the cutesy look and flaunting curves go well together! I find the cutesy look to have looser tops and tend to hide things...

 

[balddemon]

That kinda sounds like she's messing with you, girls don't give a "if you make it to here, panties off!" time.

Well we've already done everything but have sex. Otherwise you'd be right, I think.

yeah.. I remember high school

Spoiler

no offense

OooOoOOOo ouch. I graduated high school is '09, she in '10. I'm 20, she'll be 20 in December. But I take your point.

Spoiler

none taken

 

[Prax]

Vox Pop is a guy gaffer who is really into young cute girly looking girls with small boobs/butt only and dislikes anything resembling curves though sometimes it feels like he's just messing with people.

Well, SOMEONE'S gotta like the cute little asian girls~! (and similar body types)
People just have different tastes and preferences. I dunno why you guys rag on each other about it. >_>

Okay, I admit that sometimes it comes off as creepy if they are a little too enthusiastic about their preferences, but on the whole: whatever floats your boat, man.

Finally, the one plus of having small boobs. Must say though, wearing those clothes make even my bust look a bit too big.

But you will look supercute, so it's OK!

 

[Devolution]

That's the only problem. The price tag. -_-

I did find this online shop though that sell clothes at slightly cheaper prices.

Some of that stuff looks cute and some of it looks way too immature.

 

[Poyunch]

I hate how Vox-Pop hates on LA. I should stop posting here though. What am I doing here? I'm not a girl. >_>

 

[Kitsunebaby]

There's a boutique near Japantown that sells clothes like that for hundreds of dollars. My jaw drops every time my curiosity is peaked about what they're selling in a given season.

You can find a lot of it on ebay for really cheap. Most of it's gonna be cheaper made clothes from china based off of japanese fashion, though.

 

[Devolution]

One of the illustrators in here should make us a "Girls Only" sign for shits and giggles.

 

[shanshan310]

YEEEESSSSSS!!!!!

I bags not doing it though

Some of that stuff looks cute and some of it looks way too immature.

Yeah, some of it is a bit "woah", but there are a couple of gems.

 

[Jin34]

Well, SOMEONE'S gotta like the cute little asian girls~! (and similar body types)
People just have different tastes and preferences. I dunno why you guys rag on each other about it. >_>

Okay, I admit that sometimes it comes off as creepy if they are a little too enthusiastic about their preferences, but on the whole: whatever floats your boat, man.

It's that plus other things mentioned like virginal/innocence qualities , if it were just that it wouldn't be a problem. But in the totality it makes him look like someone Chirs Hansen would be keeping an eye on.

 

[Devolution]

YEEEESSSSSS!!!!!

I bags not doing it though



Yeah, some of it is a bit "woah", but there are a couple of gems.

The dress section has a bunch of gems now that you mention it.

 

[Kisaya]

One of the illustrators in here should make us a "Girls Only" sign for shits and giggles.

Hahaha! That would be reallyyy cute

 

[Prax]

That's the only problem. The price tag. -_-

I did find this online shop though that sell clothes at slightly cheaper prices.

Have you tried YesStyle? http://www.yesstyle.com/en/splash.html

They kind of have similar Asian fashion for somewhat cheape prices. It's a pain to sift through though.

 

[Kisaya]

The dress section has a bunch of gems now that you mention it.

http://kumimakiko.com/en/images/upload/Image/20110827180228062_46710606.jpg[/ig]

[img]http://kumimakiko.com/en/images/upload/Image/20110722004118187_46258962.jpg[/ig]

[img]http://kumimakiko.com/en/images/upload/Image/20110630145732125_88803496.jpg[/ig][/QUOTE]

The first two are kinda too cute for my taste. The last one though is nice :)

 

[SRG01]

The one here looks amazing, especially the cream colored one: http://kumimakiko.com/en/goods.php?id=2174