So, this is a question that is going to seem kind of weird but with all the recent revelations I've personally been thinking it would be a good idea to join all the Gaf discords that I think are important and for threads and topics that interest me. And since this is my very first post in this thread, and I presently I identify as male, it's twice as awkward to ask.
So, my question is are men allowed to join your discord and if so what are the criteria of obtaining an invite?