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[Suerte]

So I had been talking to this dude online for a few months, just friendly chatting you see, I always knew he had a boyfriend. Then last week week we bumped into each other at a gig and proceeded to get most drunk, nothing happened but I was sure I had made an ass of myself. Anyway, all this week he's been asking me if I want to go for a drink sometime this week, did I mention his boyfriend is a long distance relationship type affair? Last night he kept saying how much of a dick this guy can be sometimes too so... eh, I don't know, is this a date? I doubt it really, but just little things he says just makes me wonder. Furthermore, if anything were to happen if we meet for a drink, would that make me a bad person? :lol

HAY THANKS GAMING AGE, I FEEL BETTER NOW.

 

[Ecrofirt]

put yourself in the position of his boyfriend.

Would you want your boyfriend getting drunk with another guy?


I know in my situation that I wouldn't want my girlfriend doing anything like that, and lord knows how women get if you even glance at someone.

 

[mrklaw]

go for a drink, but be on the lookout for blatant flirtation/come-ons etc and be ready to brush off if necessary.

Basically, don't do anything you'd be uncomfortable for your other half to do to you.

 

[ohamsie]

You just have to ask yourself if you are willing to be a homewrecker.

 

[Zensetsu]

HAY THANKS GAYING AGE, I FEEL BETTER NOW.

Fixed

 

[Escape Goat]

Don't be a homewrecker, Suerte!

he doesn't care about you and will just use you for sex. So, if you're comfortable with that and want to destroy a relationship then go and get drunk and end up giving each other blowjobs in his car!

 

[mrklaw]

Thar s(he) blows! x2

 

[Suerte]

Meh we had a good night out. Nothing happened, we kissed, but not a proper kiss, heh. His boyfriend is visiting on Friday but he kept saying how if things were different... meh. I like him, but he dosen't feel the same I guess. Should I just ignore him? Seems likely. I hate dem gays.

 

[Mercury Fred]

meh. I like him, but he dosen't feel the same I guess.

he kept saying how if things were different...

Sounds like he likes you too. If you just want some hot monkey sex, then have it. If you like him like him then hang out and wait for the inevitable implosion of his long distance relationship with the guy he's always complaining about even though they don't live in the same town. Ahem.

 

[Warm Machine]

So what you are saying is that you had a Man-Date.

 

[Ecrofirt]

You broke all kinds of rules. You shouldn't be kissing someone if they're involved, that's just not right.

Rub your knees for me and I promise not to be too upset with you, though.

 

[demi]

Fixed

It's Gayming-Age I believe.


SUERTE I JUST TOTALLY HAD LIKE A 4040404 HOUR CONVO WITH YOU SO I WONT BOTHER REPEATING MYSELF OK?

 

[Deleted member 4784]

As long as you take plenty of pictures, everything is A-OK in my book! :lol

Seriously though, I'd hope you'd have the er... "inhibitions" necessary to restrain yourself in the event that anything happens to go too far. Even though this guy is unsatisfied with his current boyfriend, he's still in a relationship. Couples go through good times and bad times all the time, but most usually end up working everything out. Your involvement could make a small matter into a larger on and lead to a breakup. IMO, you should never be opportunistic about other peoples' relationship problems.

 

[Mike Works]

You broke all kinds of rules. You shouldn't be kissing someone if they're involved, that's just not right.

 

[Ecrofirt]

He shouldn't.

How would you like to find out your Canadian-heartthrob girlfriend has been kissing other guys? That shit isn't right.

 

[boutrosinit]

Dude.

Let's keep this simple.

Do you like this guy?

Answer - yes

Does this guy like you?

Answer - yes

Then fucking go for it. Clearly he's bored of Mr Notthereatthemoment. Enjoy it for as long as it lasts and don't give a rat's ass/arse (dependent on which country you hail from).

 

[Polari]

Probably best to ask him out as a friend a few times first and see if anything more develops. If he really is bored of the other guy, he'll probably ditch him sooner or later without you needing to intervene.

 

[Hamfam]

Just do him, it's him with the boyfriend, not you. The moral responsibility isn't on you. The only thing you have to worry about, is do you want to be with someone that would cheat on his boyfriends.

 

[Suerte]

Well I've talked to him online today and he says I have nothing to apologise for... I probably should have said last night that I was the one who kissed him, but asked him before doing it :lol But still, it was a gay thing to do, we were both rather drunk, if that's any excuse. Anyway, yeah, he says I need to stop apologising and that he's going to buy us tickets to go to a gig we were talking about last night, hmmm.

 

[FoneBone]

The only thing you have to worry about, is do you want to be with someone that would cheat on his boyfriends.

I'd stay out. But what do I know...

 

[Lakitu]

Don't do it

 

[ohamsie]

Wasn't this an episode of the Real World?

 

[demi]

Well I've talked to him online today and he says I have nothing to apologise for... I probably should have said last night that I was the one who kissed him, but asked him before doing it :lol But still, it was a gay thing to do, we were both rather drunk, if that's any excuse. Anyway, yeah, he says I need to stop apologising and that he's going to buy us tickets to go to a gig we were talking about last night, hmmm.

I FUCKING TOLD YOU SUERTE LIKE 40 TIMES

JUST SHUT UP YOU LITTLE BITCH AND STOP APOLOGISING. SHEESH. YOU DID NOTHING WRONG.

 

[Escape Goat]

Oh , Suerte

 

[Suerte]

Oh , Suerte

DON'T JUDGE ME!

I suck at liking the right people.

I FUCKING TOLD YOU SUERTE LIKE 40 TIMES

JUST SHUT UP YOU LITTLE BITCH AND STOP APOLOGISING. SHEESH. YOU DID NOTHING WRONG.

I <3 you.

 

[boutrosinit]

Dude. YOU LIKE HIM. HE LIKE YOU.

THE END.

Just enjoy the shit.

And why apologise? What the hell did you do wrong? You're fucking single. He's the one who ain't got the balls to break up with his long-distance piece of ass. Don't mean you have to feel guilty for it.

 

[Suerte]

Well we went to a gig tonight, he said he loves his boyfriend too much for anything to happen so I told him we couldn't see each other again. I hope I made the right decision.

 

[Meier]

You did.