olimario said:
Like I said, GA and OA are never right concerning my love life.
But since you decide to make everything private public, what do you expect? This the one thing I don't get, someone makes a thread, expects people to agree, and once people crack back, the author says "oh what do you know, you don't know me!" It's like a bad daytime talk show. You've been here long enough to know that your past comments of us being "low income jealous losers" and "I flooded the bathtub" will come back to bite you in the ass. You're like that Looney Tunes bit with the two dogs, a bulldog, being GAF, and that little whiny annoying little bitch that jumps around spouts out stupid stuff (you), only to get the crap smacked out of him when he's gone too far. Yet you still come back...
Your idea of a relationship comes straight out of a bad episode of an 80s sitcom. Good for you, I hope you are able to make it work, because we all know that's a winning and realistic combination. Nothing like getting things right immediately from day 1. For most people, they change and grow up when something happens, or an epiphany of sorts and discover what they wanted isn't the same. Those people who don't either just settle, suffer under an unruly wife and not-so healthy relationship, or in the rare instances, reside themselves in what is truly a happy relationship.
Also, I don't think it's fair to crack on the girl since she's not directly involved in this, she's a third party to this mess. She's probably a really nice girl who doesn't know what she's getting into, or knows what she's getting into but may be able to reap the rewards...