Boozeroony
Member
I am going through a rough time and have been doing some soul-searching. I am noticing that my default thoughts are of cynical nature and I am instinctively second-guessing someone else's motives. Instead of standing open to different people, with different opinions, I created this barrier between 'me' and 'them', based on this one negative notion of the other.
Once this became clear, I also noticed that this behaviour is endemic in (online) discourse (I know, it is kinda obvious...) in a way that seems very toxic.
I would love a place where, despite differences in opinions, we agree we are all flawed humans and we should focus more on the things we have in common. We all want to be loved, one way or another. A bit more empathy goes a long way.
Once this became clear, I also noticed that this behaviour is endemic in (online) discourse (I know, it is kinda obvious...) in a way that seems very toxic.
I would love a place where, despite differences in opinions, we agree we are all flawed humans and we should focus more on the things we have in common. We all want to be loved, one way or another. A bit more empathy goes a long way.