1. I've somehow managed... I just want it to end...
2. What do you mean "human element"? Gurren Lagann and Evangelion were entirely focused on the "human element". Do you mean the physicality between humans in a fight?
3. Hyperbole right? Right?
I can understand wanting an overarching plot but not every story is meant to be structured that way. I'm assuming you just mean that in terms of story structure and not the tropes within it. I'd rather not have every story use "anyone can die" by default.
1. I hate never ending animes too who has time for that?
2. There's no human element in the fighting it all comes outside of combat (even if I don't think NGE's characters are interesting) It trades all the drama of fighting for action.
3. I agree, not every story has to be about a huge overarching plot element. Stories about individuals are fine. Personally, I prefer if you can link in the individuals into something bigger but it doesn't always have to be like that. That's just my taste.
What do you mean by "I'd rather not have every story use "anyone can die" by default."? Because having characters that can't die and are never at risk bores me to hell. Another huge problem with anime.