It's like women can sense it

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Ever since I started going out with this girl, women have given me more and more attention. It's either a heightened sense of paranoia (not entirely out of the question), or I've got some kind of stink about me that says "hey, that guy's not a complete asshole."

Seriously, though, it seems like every girl I'd like to hang out with, and do things on the weekend with is talking to me now. Hell, even today when I was watching Saved by the Bell during lunch in the far corner, some chick decided that she had to sit right next to me. I mean, what the hell?

Gha, I dunno about all of this, dudes. It's like god's taunting me.
 
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matlock, you're describing something that for most of us happened during the high school years. girls like men who are taken, it's that simple.

"hey, what's that guy got? why is she with him? maybe i should find out..."

of course, this backfires if you're dating the troglodyte from hell.

3-4 years ago, i dated this one girl in HS knowing full well that my stock price would rise once word got out, and sure enough, it did. once the girl i was really looking for caught on, i dumped the training wheels.

use them for your advantage!
 
HalfPastNoon said:
matlock, you're describing something that for most of us happened during the high school years. girls like men who are taken, it's that simple.

"hey, what's that guy got? why is she with him? maybe i should find out..."

of course, this backfires if you're dating the troglodyte from hell.

3-4 years ago, i dated this one girl in HS knowing full well that my stock price would rise once word got out, and sure enough, it did. once the girl i was really looking for caught on, i dumped the training wheels.

use them for your advantage!
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That's not just in high school... expect that to happen for the rest of your life.
 
It happens to me too. And it's not just because they know you're dating so have to have something good about you, it happens with people you've never met who have no idea you have a girlfriend.

I guess it's something to do with us giving them less attention whne we're already seeing someone, must get them interested.
 
Well, to be honest, this is the first relationship I've ever been in that I've been the aggressive one. Most of the other times, it's been cute Irish girls that took the initiative. It was nice, mind you, but pretty much fucked (and I hate this term) the "real world experience."
 
Yeah, it happens to almost everybody, even with those girls who at one time gave out the old "I only see you as a good friend" line.
 
Pretend not to care about them.




Be busy with something you find interesting.






They love it when you don't seem to care about them and you're busy tending all your irons in the fire, so to speak. Have your own thing, and then the ones excited and interested, overly interested in what you're doing, will be the ones interested in you.



Focus on you, and they'll kind of take notice of you. I'm probably giving you some circular logic, but there's no clear answer, fella. There are the www.doubleyourdating.com newsletters that tell some basic guy skills.



Plus, read those books on the recommended before-entering-college reading lists your English teachers have. That'll keep you busy and teach you about life relationships through classic literature. Not all of it's convoluted or pompish, and there's a lot of humanistic truth you can learn.
 
RaymondCarver said:
Focus on you, and they'll kind of take notice of you. I'm probably giving you some circular logic, but there's no clear answer, fella. There are the www.doubleyourdating.com newsletters that tell some basic guy skills.
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The next Cubsfan?
 
Girls are a weird beast, completely irrational and damn near impossible to read. One thing I know is that no women wants a man that nobody else does and all women will consider a man if another women does.
 
Relationship? You're calling it that already? How long have you been 'seeing' this chick?

Don't fucking define it. You are merely enjoying her company, that's it. She defines it if she wants to.

It's quite clear what happens though, the less you care about giving other girls attention, the more they want it, along with the whole taken aspect. I mean honestly, what the fuck, random girls you've never seen before sit next to you while watching Saved By The Bell (how is this a sign that she wants you, by the way?)...? How does she know you are 'taken'?
 
It's quite clear what happens though, the less you care about giving other girls attention, the more they want it, along with the whole taken aspect. I mean honestly, what the fuck, random girls you've never seen before sit next to you while watching Saved By The Bell (how is this a sign that she wants you, by the way?)...? How does she know you are 'taken'?
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It's not any sign, but when there's 30 fucking other seats in there, and she gets up and cozy with me, it's sort of conspicuous. :P

Either way, I try not to define it, but I couldn't think of any other words. I mean, right now the whole bit consists of me skipping Kohan to hang with her, a bit of talking here and there, and Adult Swim. She's spent the night here once, but that's not much, really.

Yes, I skipped Kohan. More than once.
 
I thought this was common knowledge. It's why the first thing you do when you get a gf is cheat on her with the other ones that come near. :lol Seriously, whenever I've had a gf, I've been my most flirtatious. Like ducks in a barrel...or something like that. PEACE.
 
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The next Cubsfan?
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:lol I was about to say...

Maybe it's some sort of confident vibe you give out once you've got your own girl and are no longer (desperately?) looking for another.

Having a girlfriend could also backfire in this situation because some other girls (with morals) would just consider you off the market and skip you over. So it's not all gravy!
 
Matlock said:
Ever since I started going out with this girl, women have given me more and more attention. It's either a heightened sense of paranoia (not entirely out of the question), or I've got some kind of stink about me that says "hey, that guy's not a complete asshole."

Seriously, though, it seems like every girl I'd like to hang out with, and do things on the weekend with is talking to me now. Hell, even today when I was watching Saved by the Bell during lunch in the far corner, some chick decided that she had to sit right next to me. I mean, what the hell?

Gha, I dunno about all of this, dudes. It's like god's taunting me.
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This is a common issue amongst taken men. Women sense that you've got more confidence. Having a S.O. is a type of social credit that deems you worthy of the interest of other women. Then they go after you. It's very strange how it works. No complaints.

My advice:

Take the confidence you now have and carry it with you in all that you do. You'll find that you're much more successful in all of your endeavors.
 
I think it's because you don't act like you need a girl, because you already have one. And acting like you don't want any girls makes girls wants you. God's a sick twisted little bitch.
 
Wait till you get married. You'll never in your life have as many playfully interested women (usually at work) give out a steady flirty vibe to you as you will the first year or so after you get hitched.

It's.... something else alright. I think subconsciously half of them are testing you as part of some female collective hive-mind thing whereby they throw a little play your way so your wife can feel the disturbance in the Force if you flirt back.
 
Matlock said:
Ever since I started going out with this girl, women have given me more and more attention. It's either a heightened sense of paranoia (not entirely out of the question), or I've got some kind of stink about me that says "hey, that guy's not a complete asshole."

Seriously, though, it seems like every girl I'd like to hang out with, and do things on the weekend with is talking to me now. Hell, even today when I was watching Saved by the Bell during lunch in the far corner, some chick decided that she had to sit right next to me. I mean, what the hell?

Gha, I dunno about all of this, dudes. It's like god's taunting me.
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It's like it's capitalism or something man. Using money to make more money. Having a woman to get more women.

Which, like capitalism, simply makes a poor shmuck like me who can't get his fucking foot in the door SOL for his entire life :P
 
Matlock said:
Hell, even today when I was watching Saved by the Bell during lunch in the far corner, some chick decided that she had to sit right next to me. I mean, what the hell?
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What I want to know is, why the hell were you watching Saved by the Bell?
 
Matlock said:
It's not any sign, but when there's 30 fucking other seats in there, and she gets up and cozy with me, it's sort of conspicuous. :P

Either way, I try not to define it, but I couldn't think of any other words. I mean, right now the whole bit consists of me skipping Kohan to hang with her, a bit of talking here and there, and Adult Swim. She's spent the night here once, but that's not much, really.

Yes, I skipped Kohan. More than once.
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*sigh*

just sigh.

skipping kohan to hang out with her. then missing adult swim. clearly, these are signs that love is in the air...


:lol
 
Whenever your in a relationship you give off different pheromones (sp) that other women sense/smell/pick up...whatever!

Your not aware of it but your not the same person!!!!

I read that in a science book and saw it on the Discovery channel. :D
 
HalfPastNoon said:
3-4 years ago, i dated this one girl in HS knowing full well that my stock price would rise once word got out, and sure enough, it did. once the girl i was really looking for caught on, i dumped the training wheels.

use them for your advantage!
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:O

It seems wrong to me to lead on a girl for your hidden agenda. It's like all of the feelings she had for you are completely useless, and you're just letting it ride 'til something better comes along.
 
Matlock said:
It's not any sign, but when there's 30 fucking other seats in there, and she gets up and cozy with me, it's sort of conspicuous. :P

Either way, I try not to define it, but I couldn't think of any other words. I mean, right now the whole bit consists of me skipping Kohan to hang with her, a bit of talking here and there, and Adult Swim. She's spent the night here once, but that's not much, really.

Yes, I skipped Kohan. More than once.
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So when is the wedding? Do I get an invite?

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Note: I never skipped Kohan for a girl. Ever.
 
i also think women enjoy the challenge of trying to sway you away, women are always very competitive with other women for some reason.
my first girlfriend looked like this tv actress, so i mentioned that to her. and she was like, "no! she LOOKS like me! dont ever compare me to other women!!". i was like, "uhhhh wtf??? :/ it was just a comment!!".
 
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