How did this people survive high school?
imo by finding someone else and bullying them publicly. SJWs tend to be the most brutal and abusive of bullies. all this "incels" this and "lol virgins" that only reminds me of the exact language used by jock bullies in high school who would pick on those who didn't win the genetic lottery. "you live with your mother" and "unfuckable" is just bog standard toxic heteronormative 80s frat culture schtick. we have people proclaiming to "fight the patriarchy" by essentially acting like Donald Trump at a kegger in 1974.
the thing about Toxic Masculinity or the Patriarchy or whatever is that it doesn't just hurt women, it hurts men as well. this is why it's toxic, it's bad for everyone. so we see SJWs engage in the same old "toxic behavior" that they decry: deadnaming, kink shaming, ageism, ableism, gender bigotry, gendered slurs, racial slurs, etc.
this is because even though they think they are feminists, they are still men, so the feminism is tainted. Male Feminism is inherently and supra-toxic form of the ideology, and with intersectionality (LGBTQ+) they have physically infiltrated traditionally women-dominated feminist spaces.
the end result is a corporate feminism that is toxic, run by men lashing out at other men, doing aggressive performative threats of violence ("punch a nazi") and sexual dominance ("TLOU2 haters don't get laid"), perpetuating the very stereotype of a bad man in the misguided name of feminism. then when Male Feminists aren't explicitly trying to Do Feminism (which they do poorly, look at these posts, which are fully done in that spirit), they are gatekeeping IPs in an act of territorialism that is largely fueled by self doubt and insecurities. because deep down, since they kinda art feminist in some way, they secretly realize how shitty they are doing at it, on top of how bad they are at coming up with any ideas. they spend so much time trying to galaxy brain engineer the universe that they don't know how to tell a story, and they hate this, because they idolize people that do. so they hate those old creators, they dismantle the creations trying to Frankenstein their lost youth back to life, the self hatred is thus projected outward, and the lashing out ritual continues.
on and on into infinity, amen.