i'm for limited government too, but when the actions of businesses are causing people to die, yes they should follow the laws and require face masks. they aren't telling you to wear a mask to be controlling assholes, they're telling you to wear a mask in order to reduce the amount of people its killing as well as limit the amount of time people have to wear masks. people who don't wear masks are ironically contributing more to the lockdown because the worse it gets the more restrictive it becomes.
if the law says you can't congregate in churches or other religious building then they need to follow the law. there are other ways to meet (online) or show respect to your religion without getting close to people and infecting them. there aren't 'karens' calling out people on youtube, there are 'karens' flipping out at managers and getting arrested for not complying with the mask mandate. just as you implied it's not right a business should be fined for not complying with mask mandates, people not wearing masks should also not be allowed to enter a private business who does comply with the mask mandate. not sure if that's the type of videos you're talking about because i've never seen a video of people calling out those not wearing masks that were in an outdoor area not near anyone else. i've seen them trying to enter stores without a mask and getting called out, or arrested even, but a 'karen' if you want to use that term is an entitled lady who thinks the world revolves around them--the person who isn't wearing the mask, not those calling her out for it.
and yes the lockdown sucks. i have 3 kids who used to be in school who had to homeschool for over a year while my spouse and i both have full time jobs, so i've probably felt it worse than you. my wife owns a small business and almost had to shut down, so i've probably felt the lockdown worse than you. i've had co-workers and friends die and not be able to go to their funeral, so i've probably felt the lockdown worse than you. and the analogy to not wearing a mask to not buying war bonds is so ridiculously disconnected from reality i can't even take that seriously.
so yea it is all about you. you're not a sheep because you wear a mask, you're a citizen doing your job to get our country back on track. your perspective is really fucked