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My sister keeps fishing for affection

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Some additional info: she got drunk recently and cornered my other sister in a hallway, grabbed her and said YOU KNOW I LOVE YOU AND I'D BE DISTRAUGHT IF ANYTHING HAPPENED and wouldn't let go until this was acknowledged.

I'm the youngest brother btw
How old are all of you?
 
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haha what
 
You didn't give us a lot of details. How old is the sister, does she have mental disorders (diagnosed, I mean)?
 
my thoughts exactly...holy crap, what a jerk of a brother she has...

I can understand if this was a lady friend, or a girlfriend you're not sure you like, but this is your fucking sister. Blood is thicker than water, and you sound like a jerk of a brother for not being there for your family like that.

I don't know about you but someone you can have sex with and get married to deserves more loveydovey affection than your sister.
 
my thoughts exactly...holy crap, what a jerk of a brother she has...

I can understand if this was a lady friend, or a girlfriend you're not sure you like, but this is your fucking sister. Blood is thicker than water, and you sound like a jerk of a brother for not being there for your family like that.

Man, there are people out there who don't even see their siblings for years.
 
Mid-20s, live in different cities with our separate lives and careers

No diagnosed mental disorders on either end. We're not terminally ill either, afaik.

She misses you man, and you're the baby bro

You just need to look at it in the way she intends it. Siblings aren't just there for each other at Christmas or when someone is dying in hospital, you're blood, and she DOES love you. Is it so bad to hear that? I bet there are lots of people in the world who'd love to hear that from their relatives who don't, or can't

I get that its 'cloying' but its no big thing, don't sweat it, its actually kind of sweet of her
 
It's physically painful. I'm serious. I actually wince.

you can't even reply back with "Love you too sis" and be done with it? she might do it every few days, but just copy and paste it from past convos and you'll never have to type it again.
 
Mid-20s, live in different cities with our separate lives and careers

No diagnosed mental disorders on either end. We're not terminally ill either, afaik.
What you told us in your other post makes me believe that there might be some mental health issues though.

Dunno. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
 
How long she been like that?

Dunno, maybe she isn't happy and just wants some love from people closest to her to make her day better.
 
How long she been like that?

Dunno, maybe she isn't happy and just wants some love from people closest to her to make her day better.

Since a couple years ago.

We always used to be quite mean and sarcastic to each other, growing up. I liked it better that way. Now every conversation feels like a scene from a movie and I don't know how to handle it or whether this is normal behaviour.
 
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