My daughter (who is now four) refused to sleep in her bed for about a year and she's super stubborn (dunno where she gets it...) so none of the recommended solutions for dealing with it worked at all, and we tried everything. Finally I gave up until she could reason a little.
She's a beast. Amazing. But a beast.
Love to your wife. I have severe asthma myself and am recouping from bronchitis (which is not going so well, I'm afraid), so that's part of it at the moment. Easy enough to watch posts fly by when the kids want to be playing outside and I'm not allowed. :/ And my elder child has been homeschooling this past semester after his school closed (he goes to a new school in the fall, whew; it was hard, even though I'm used to teaching), so we can sit together. He works, I help, and I dick around on the internet (or, uh, actually work sometimes). Though today tempers were high and I had to keep shooing him away from the screen lest he learn all sorts of new words. I've been telling Mr. Monkey about the games so kiddo was trying to get a look and I was like... nah, man, work on your math here and don't worry about that gif.
Plus one of my research areas for my PhD is digital communities and interactions so it's sort of in my wheelhouse. Presenting some research next week, in fact!