I'm 5,9 apparently. Never has been a problem for me though because I have always been athletic as fuck. Of course I would have loved to be taller, but my height has never been a problem for me.
Long time ago I worked with a guy that was 4'10, he wasn't a dwarf in the sense of like a Tyrion Lannister, he was more or less proportionate like a regular person, just really small. And he was really athletic too (he took growth hormone, so maybe was that) and he was kind of cute (no homo), like a solid 8 (before the baldness attacked).
Why I'm saying this? Well, because his wife wasn't tbe best looking woman around and I always thought that he compromised because of his own insecurity, when in reality he could easily have had a better looking wife. Or maybe she was prettier when they were younger, I don't know.
But the point is that, if you are not a certified circus freak, pretty much most of this is all in your head. If you work to make yourself better, you will earn the self-respect that will earn the respect of others.
The problem I see though is people who are complete slobs thinking they deserve the hottest pornstar ever or then they don't care.