Passport Bros. 🛂

A Passport Bro ?


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So , this is a term coined by a group of men in the USA.

Basically, it's men who move abroad to date and meet women. I'm American and I've been disillusioned about dating since 2025, so I definitely support this and understand why this is kinda a viral thing now in men's groups online.

I guess you could say I'm a passport bro in spirit before it was a thing and I'm sure it was a thing long before me. I think this is actually the better decision you can make for yourself if you are having issues dating in the USA.
I think as long as you respect the local customs and laws where you go, make an effort to learn the language and don't overly objectify the women, then this is some great stuff.

I'm headed to South America if shit fails where I am. Currently studying Spanish and wanna date some beautiful Colombian women.

Any guys living the expat life or passport bro life abroad?
 
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If you're a top 10 % man, obviously you'd have no struggle dating in the USA.

Passport bros are the bottom percentage who've been filtered out from modern dating.
My dad signed me up for an Ukraine dating service when I was 25.


Note: this is 100% true. I got a call from a service had all my info and was confused as to how it happened. Thought it was a prank. Took a week to figure out. My mom couldn't believe my dad did it. I laugh about it now but at the time I just said let's not do that. He didn't know I could get dates.
 
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Well, that was yesterday.
Today is a new day.
I suppose...I hope you manage to find whatever you are looking for on your personal journey.

My biggest advice with all of this is to be patient and converse in person as much as possible. You will be surprised how far a bit of actual conversation and listening will get you.

The more you look for a cold, transactional way of doing things, the more you're going to encounter just that.
 
I mean, I'm an expat -- but because my wife is British -- so I don't think that counts. I'm not here to date other women.
 
Nuclear levels of cringe.

You think having a US passport somehow makes you magically irresistible to foreign women? What do you think happens when you exit the airplane, specifically?
 
Well, that was yesterday.
Today is a new day.

ADHD is something you should not ignore tho. While no risk no reward may have benefits, doing rash things like going to a shithole place can get you killed. Stop watching those trash youtubers who go around the world in the most horshit places. Not everything you see in the camera is real.
 
So , this is a term coined by a group of men in the USA.

Basically, it's men who move abroad to date and meet women. I'm American and I've been disillusioned about dating since 2025, so I definitely support this and understand why this is kinda a viral thing now in men's groups online.

I guess you could say I'm a passport bro in spirit before it was a thing and I'm sure it was a thing long before me. I think this is actually the better decision you can make for yourself if you are having issues dating in the USA.
I think as long as you respect the local customs and laws where you go, make an effort to learn the language and don't overly objectify the women, then this is some great stuff.

I'm headed to South America if shit fails where I am. Currently studying Spanish and wanna date some beautiful Colombian women.

Any guys living the expat life or passport bro life abroad?
Just don't date girls on tinder in Colombia. You might get robbed
 
If you're a top 10 % man, obviously you'd have no struggle dating in the USA.

Passport bros are the bottom percentage who've been filtered out from modern dating.
I wouldn't really put it that way. I'm quite successful in my own right, but almost no American women give me the vibe of someone I'd implicitly trust and spend my life with. A good portion in my area are also either brainwashed or obese too. Hard to respect someone that doesn't respect themselves

I've had no issues overseas at all. Even just getting a coffee to chat is no big deal. Back home it's like pulling teeth. To be honest I just feel American girls are spoiled
 
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I dont have a passport and wont have for the foreseeable future. There are still too many countries to visit that dont require it, before i even think of getting one to go to other places.
 
i think you need a hug more than a third world bar girl
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As frustrating as the modern dating scene sounds I would never want to buy a woman from overseas.
Passport bros aren't necessarily out to "buy" women, but to meet women from different cultures and values.

i.e. - women not tainted with the stench of feminism.
 
Passport bros aren't necessarily out to "buy" women, but to meet women from different cultures and values.

i.e. - women not tainted with the stench of feminism.
There is a happy and healthy middle ground between trad wives and women who buy into the men are trash mentality. I found a woman like that.
 
It's not all roses elsewhere by any means, but women tend to be a bit more chill in some other parts of the developed world, like Europe. Fewer people hooked on prescription meds and SSRis, healthier lifestyles, not as much of the crazy ideologies, less obsession with status, less addiction to social media.

The passport bro approach of going to a developing country in SEA or SA where you can upgrade your relative status though, is very risky. You're asking for something purely transactional. But do what you need to do to continue your bloodline if things aren't working out on the home front and you've already done all you can to work on yourself.
 
The kind of women who shout every five minutes about how much they don't need a man are irritating but I could never feel good knowing that a woman was only with me because of what I provide.

My wife has her own stuff material wise but the fact that she still wants to share a life with me says a lot.
 
My dad signed me up for an Ukraine dating service when I was 25.


Note: this is 100% true. I got a call from a service had all my info and was confused as to how it happened. Thought it was a prank. Took a week to figure out. My mom couldn't believe my dad did it. I laugh about it now but at the time I just said let's not do that. He didn't know I could get dates.
Your dad knows whats up.

Smart man
 
It's not all roses elsewhere by any means, but women tend to be a bit more chill in some other parts of the developed world, like Europe. Fewer people hooked on prescription meds and SSRis, healthier lifestyles, not as much of the crazy ideologies, less obsession with status, less addiction to social media.

The passport bro approach of going to a developing country in SEA or SA where you can upgrade your relative status though, is very risky. You're asking for something purely transactional. But do what you need to do to continue your bloodline if things aren't working out on the home front and you've already done all you can to work on yourself.
It sounds terrible to say, and some women will call it taking advantage, but in countries that are a bit less developed the women are far more down to earth. Only exception I've seen are some Japanese girls, where they will go through thick and thin regardless. I knew one Japanese guy that stuck with a long distance relationship to his college girlfriend, and it blew my mind at the time. They're married now with kids
 
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It's not always better and often has a financial expectation (pay for the family, but doesn't mean excessive living). The cultural differences are usually big issues that could creep after any commitment though.
 
I'm kind a reverse passport bro; in a relationship with an Asian immigrant lmao

She did things the proper and legal way, got her permanent residence and contributes to her new country. She's also cute as hell, smart, hard working, funny, and can put up with all my nonsense. I count myself a very lucky man.
 
I'm headed to South America if shit fails where I am. Currently studying Spanish and wanna date some beautiful Colombian women.
Colombia you say? Study the 90 day.

Personally, I'm with Tim. Now... he is not quite the model of masculinity that I hold myself to be... but... I mean I'm still not getting on that third-world death swing call me pooooosy all you want.
 
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Ive heard/seen guys go to southeast Asia for wives... sorry that shit is fucked. Especially after the Vietnam War I knew lots of failed abusive marriages and kids in the 1980s.

Think it's a bad idea especially with how xenophobic lots of assholes are here in the US
 
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