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[aoi tsuki]

What's the deal with gay guys pining over women, as if they want to be involved in a romantic relationship with them? i'm not saying this is all gay guys, or even all the gay guys i've ever seen with a women. But it's a strange dynamic. You're not sexually attracted to women, but at the same time, you'd makeout a woman, and get jealous of her spending time with her boyfriend?

One of my old female managers had a gay friend who always hung out with her. He acted jealous when she chose to spend time with her boyfriend. They'd walked hand in hand as if they were a couple. He'd completely gush over her and give her "the look" (as in, "i'm interested in you") at times. i had a similar situation with a more recent manager of mine, who, ironically to mysefl, looked phyiscally similar to the first (redhead and short).

i'm sorry if this is offensive in any way. That wasn't my intent. i'm just trying to understand this phenomenon.

 

[Freestyler]

I think it stems more from a fear of losing the female friend, if she becomes really close with her boyfriend and it ends up eventually that you never see her.

It's happened to me very recently and I still haven't patched things back up.

And us homosexuals do like to check out the odd woman, I personally think many women are dead sexy. I'm just not attracted to them, is all.

 

[Vormund]

I got a better question: How come there's so many gay people here?

Not that there's anything wrong with that.

 

[ZombieSupaStar]

 

[OmniGamer]

I got a better question: How come there's so many gay people here?

Not that there's anything wrong with that.

We learned how to play video games before we learned how to suck cock....are we all clarified now?

 

[Goreomedy]

...

So tired of this shit.

 

[gofreak]

I'm not like that with any girl. Most of my friends are guys.

I guess the issue with gay guys being uber close to girls is that they are just really really good friends, and said gay guy may be worried about losing girl's time and attention if/when she gets a bf. The gay guy is still male, and would prob feel jealous if the bf became her new best male friend.

But I *really* haven't seen this happen at all with any of my gay friends. Some of them are closer to girls than guys, but not in a freakish "omg, you don't need a bf" kind of way.

 

[Deleted member 1235]

ok, since there is a new "gay thread" one thing I have never understood is this.

If you see a hot chick (by conventional hetro standards) naked, is it just.... nothing at all? curiousity roused? discomfort? or are you actually grossed out by the female form? I've heard that some gay dudes actually find pussy repulsive. Any truth to this?

 

[Mercury Fred]

ok, since there is a new "gay thread" one thing I have never understood is this.

If you see a hot chick (by conventional hetro standards) naked, is it just.... nothing at all? curiousity roused? discomfort? or are you actually grossed out by the female form? I've heard that some gay dudes actually find pussy repulsive. Any truth to this?

Answer this first: If you see a hot dude naked, what's your reaction? Curiosity? Arousal? Discomfort? A throbbing erection?

 

[gofreak]

ok, since there is a new "gay thread" one thing I have never understood is this.

If you see a hot chick (by conventional hetro standards) naked, is it just.... nothing at all? curiousity roused? discomfort? or are you actually grossed out by the female form? I've heard that some gay dudes actually find pussy repulsive. Any truth to this?

It took me a while to get used to seeing pussy..I don't know if I actually found it gross, or it was just because it was strange/different etc. It certainly does nothing for me..so "nothing at all" is probably your answer. I would imagine its the same way straight men feel about the naked male form. Though potentially without the initial "gross" factor, given that it's the same thing they have themselves and they are used to it, unless they're completely grossed out by their own bodies.

 

[Naked Snake]

I find pussy repulsive [detailed/open close-ups that is]... But a naked good looking woman (say a model/superstar) doesn't bother me at all, many of them are actually nice to look at... Some naked women can be quite uncomforting to look at though, same can be said for men.

 

[Goreomedy]

My question is... what the fuck does this thread have to do with homosexuality?

Besides the homophobic suspicion that gay men suppress an overwhelmng urge to penetrate pussy, I mean.

 

[Deleted member 1235]

Answer this first: If you see a hot dude naked, what's your reaction? Curiosity? Arousal? Discomfort? A throbbing erection?

Ok fair enough. See it all the time at the gym, although it usually skews further towards dudes aged about 35 with non-descript bodys that seem to be oddly proud of their nakedness :\ but I digress. Just nothing really.

 

[Zaptruder]

I think I speak for all well adjusted straight guys when I say this...

The sight of cock is not uncomfortable. Although the sight of cock alone causes uncomfortable homophobic tensions within ourselves (i.e. wth am I doing looking at cock?!). Cock in pussy or around, no problem.

But in either cases, ugly genitalia or genitalia attached to ugly people can be quite repulsive.

 

[OmniGamer]

I'm in the same boat as Adelgary...I find "porn pussy" very repulsive. Looks like a gaping wound IMO. I don't have a problem with regular nudity if the subject is physically attractive(nice body, nice proportions). And this may or may not be related to catfish's question, but i'd wish guys would get off on the notion that if a guy is gay, he'd just automatically look at/be attracted to/want to bone any and every other guy around. If anything, lots of gay men have notoriously high and discriminating standards(race, weight, height, body hair, age...especially age, etc). I myself have what i'd calll normal standards, or maybe broader than normal. At any rate, unclench your ass and stop thinking every gay man wants you or wants you to want them. Thanks.

 

[Freestyler]

I find pussy repulsive [detailed/open close-ups that is]... But a naked good looking woman (say a model/superstar) doesn't bother me at all, many of them are actually nice to look at... Some naked women can be quite uncomforting to look at though, same can be said for men.

Exactly the same for me. I love looking at people like Angelina Jolie, not that I see them fully naked, but I imagine it'd be quite tasty. Not that it'd turn me on though, it's more like just appreciating their beauty.

Close-ups of pussy make me wanna vomit, I can't understand how the fuck anyone would wanna go near those things.

 

[btrboyev]

opposed to an asshole??

 

[Idontknow]

I think a pussy is repulsive, an asshole is repulsive and a cock is repulsive(well, more like it doesn't really do anything for me).

 

[Incognito]

opposed to an asshole??

:lol :lol

 

[pnjtony]

i'm straight and I think up-close pussy is kinda gross...unless my cock is in it. I'd imagine it's the same for gay guys. a gapping asshole can't be pretty, but if they're cock is in there I'm sure it's quite pleasing. I don't really know, just trying to compare the two

 

[hXc_thugg]

i'm straight and I think up-close pussy is kinda gross...unless my cock is in it.

I agree. I can't stand porn(clapped-out) pussy. ><

I don't understand why everyone always brings up anal sex to devalidate anything a gay man says about regular penetration. Both orifices expel waste and gross bodily fluids.

 

[norinrad21]

hmmmmmm aoi tsuki


Aren't you the same guy who works at the bookstore who's supposedly in love with one of the regular male customers and yet you are too shy to say anything to him?

 

[Freestyler]

opposed to an asshole??

Yes. An asshole is much more simple and almost looks like a flower. A pussy on the other hand is disgusting with EWWWWWWWW dare I say 'flaps' everywhere and it looks like some sorta Sushi dish gone wrong.

 

[seismologist]

do you guys get an erection when your in the guys locker room?

That would be my worst fear if I were gay.

 

[Particle Physicist]

this thread is crazy

We learned how to play video games before we learned how to suck cock....are we all clarified now?

:lol

 

[pnjtony]

do you guys get an erection when your in the guys locker room?

That would be my worst fear if I were gay.

I'm actually very interested in an answer to this question. I'd assume they don't broadcast they're gay as to not cause a fuss.

 

[Belfast]

I agree. I can't stand porn(clapped-out) pussy. ><

I don't understand why everyone always brings up anal sex to devalidate anything a gay man says about regular penetration. Both orifices expel waste and gross bodily fluids.

A vagina expels waste? I mean, I guess you could consider menstrual fluid waste, but...

 

[Grizzlyjin]

do you guys get an erection when your in the guys locker room?

That would be my worst fear if I were gay.

It's my worst fear and I'm not gay. I'm just worried about that day...you know? Until my senior year I was really worried about how I would react around naked males. Its not their body that gets me excited, just the thought of sex. But I was fine during lacrosse and gym. It didn't move. :lol

Like it was said earlier, I can look at a penis in a porn and still be excited. But in real life there is nothing exciting about it. With the porn I'm excited about what is about to happen, not exactly what i'm seeing at the moment.

I still wouldn't be comfortable in some weird all male shower situation, I just don't want to put myself there. Assholes are too simple, you have to love the complex nature of the female form. You find something new everytime.

 

[pnjtony]

I have a lesbian cousin I never get to see. I wish she was around so she could answer questions I have about homosexuality. I'm not interested in it "that way" but it's not something I'm around and I have a lot of questions.

in other news

I've seen some nasty pussy in porn. Like when the lips (flaps) are brown tipped and shit and the rest is pink...gross. As far as waste being expelled, menstrual fluid once a month versus shit each and every day are very different...which leads to another question...Do gay men give themselves enemas everyday so as not to get shit everywhere? The logistics of gay sex perplex me. Maybe they just have a better diet and don't get as much "on deck".

 

[OmniGamer]

opposed to an asshole??

(I knew this would come up and almost decided to state this in my other post pre-emptively)

Speaking for myself only, I find the anus very unattractive, male or female....some are worse(far worse) than others, but point blank, it's there to serve a purpose which isn't pretty.

 

[Kiriku]

I got a better question: How come there's so many gay people here?

Not that there's anything wrong with that.

There are problably a lot more gay people here than we know about, but I'm guessing some of them don't want to tell the world and a gaming board that they're gay. Which I can understand, because it's kind of irrelevant. I remember reading that about 5 % of all males are gay...or was it 10 %? Considering the thousands of users here, you do the math.

 

[Forgotten Ancient]

I really think the 5% figure is incredibly low. Before I graduated high school I didn't "know" a single gay person. About 2 years later, I discovered that 3 of my high school friends were gay and I learned of several others.

My boss is gay. My best friend is gay. 1/3 of our male staff (har har "staff) is gay. The gay clubs in town are packed. The coffeehouse is a haven for homosexuals. Really...it's crazy, but it seems "being gay" is the IN thing. It's cool though...less competition for straight men out there (though, gay guys seem to be getting in the way according to another thread) and I really believe people should be able to do whomever or whatever they want if it makes them happy and they're not hurting anyone.

Also...I'm sure it's a lot easier for a person to show their sexuality through the internet than in person. I've seen a few threads in the past where a homosexual was asking other forumites the best way to come out of the closet.

 

[etiolate]

A nice pussy is a beautiful thing.

 

[pnjtony]

I don't know any gay people, and that makes me a sad panda

 

[videogamer]

I don't know any gay people

oh really? [/mischievous voice]

 

[aoi tsuki]

hmmmmmm aoi tsuki


Aren't you the same guy who works at the bookstore who's supposedly in love with one of the regular male customers and yet you are too shy to say anything to him?

Spin! Yes, i work at a bookstore but no, i'm not in love with the guy, nor am i interested in men in that way. If i was, i'd be getting laid a hell of a lot more often than i am now. Irony sucks.

 

[Error Macro]

If you get an erection whilst looking at a naked man, does that make you gay?

By the way, the above question has nothing to do with me, personally, whatsoever. I am so totally not gay. But really, say this person I knew felt strangely turned-on when they saw a relatively attractive male naked. Would you question their straightness?

 

[3phemeral]

oh really? [/sinister voice]

Be nice! ^_^

 

[videogamer]

Be nice! ^_^

fixed

 

[3phemeral]

fixed

now drive down to oc. I'm bored on a saturday night.

That's bettah. My friend lives down in OC... OMG YOU'RE HIM. Stop stalking me I might just give in!

::shakes head in confusion::

 

[Suerte]

http://www.philipcrammond.com/david/

 

[aoi tsuki]

http://www.philipcrammond.com/david/

i don't know what that was about or from, and i'm pretty sure i completely glazed over the message, but i liked it because it had a good beat.

 

[Incognito]

If you get an erection whilst looking at a naked man, does that make you gay?

By the way, the above question has nothing to do with me, personally, whatsoever. I am so totally not gay. But really, say this person I knew felt strangely turned-on when they saw a relatively attractive male naked. Would you question their straightness?

don't go futami on us!!!

 

[Vark]

Yes. An asshole is much more simple and almost looks like a flower. A pussy on the other hand is disgusting with EWWWWWWWW dare I say 'flaps' everywhere and it looks like some sorta Sushi dish gone wrong.

 

[hXc_thugg]

I'd hit it.

 

[Freestyler]

Do gay men give themselves enemas everyday so as not to get shit everywhere? The logistics of gay sex perplex me. Maybe they just have a better diet and don't get as much "on deck".

Sorry to have to say this really bluntly and rudely, but I gotta.

It's not like you pull something (whether it be a you-know-what or a you-know-what) out of someone's ass and it's totally brown and covered in excrement. Sure, there might be the slightest little bit, but it's to be expected considering where you just put your you-know-what or you-know-what. If you're really anal about things (in all senses of the word), you can give yourself enemas, sure. But it's not a prerequisite. As long as you're not a slob and you generally keep yourself clean, it should all be fine.

Oh and :lol at the BP logo, it's perfect.

 

[Vormund]

If you get an erection whilst looking at a naked man, does that make you gay?

By the way, the above question has nothing to do with me, personally, whatsoever. I am so totally not gay. But really, say this person I knew felt strangely turned-on when they saw a relatively attractive male naked. Would you question their straightness?

Nah not really. I'm not gay but I could appreciate if someone is good looking-whether male or female.

The ones who would have a problem most likely aren't comfortable with their own sexuality.

 

[ZombieSupaStar]

Sorry to have to say this really bluntly and rudely, but I gotta.

It's not like you pull something (whether it be a you-know-what or a you-know-what) out of someone's ass and it's totally brown and covered in excrement. Sure, there might be the slightest little bit, but it's to be expected considering where you just put your you-know-what or you-know-what. If you're really anal about things (in all senses of the word), you can give yourself enemas, sure. But it's not a prerequisite. As long as you're not a slob and you generally keep yourself clean, it should all be fine.

Oh and :lol at the BP logo, it's perfect.

ok I can gather what 1 of the know whats is, but ,,,if the other know what is what Im thinking I dont see how that can be you know what into you know what that far

 

[Cerebral Palsy]

You guys are gay.

 

[ZombieSupaStar]

my one g/f in hs thought I was gay when she met me



then I stuck my tongue in her ear and showed her otherwise.