I live in Manhattan, but I'm working in LA for the summer so I'm here right now. Lived in Phoenix before Manhattan. Based on those places I've lived in my adult life, I'd describe LA as 66% Phoenix, 33% NY. It's sprawled out as hell (Phoenix), got great weather (Phoenix for 7.5 months, but not much beats LA's weather), people drive fucking everywhere (line through an entire parking lot and out onto a side street for In 'n Out drive thru when there's maybe one person in line inside just to give you an example of the mindset) and most places there isn't a fucking soul on the street (Phoenix) other than maybe a bum or two (NY). But it's definitely an exciting place to live almost no matter what you're into (NY, though nothing beats NY) though most parts of the city are pretty dirty (NY) and some just look old and grungy like they were frozen in the 70s (NY, without the charm), there are tons of nice little cities to live in all over the damn place (Phoenix). Oh, and the ocean. I kinda chose it b/c it's sort of halfway between these two cities I like, but wouldn't want to settle down (NY and Phoenix). I'll see how I feel about it in a few months as basically all three options are still open, but so far so good.