I am ok to drink anything really, I don't mind not drinking around others
maybe you guys should consider doing some burger grill thing at someones home that is willing. No issues with public rules, seats etc Just a thought.
Easy to setup game situations as well instead of dragging it all to a public place that may frown on it or have issues setting it up. Someone will likely have the system set up just need folks to bring controllers and possible games and so on. 5 or so people chip in with the dishes although with plastic cups some decent throw away plates it shouldn't be too bad overall. Everyone pays for what it costs which would likely end up cheaper on average I assume. Food buy and a beer buy for those that want to drink or what not. Maybe ice cream or something for whoever wants desert.