Covid/remote learning is a small piece of this, but the biggest issue is how reliant on short-burst dopaminergic experiences kids (and even adults) have become accustomed to in the last ~5 years. Social media, certain games, and platforms like TikTok are rewiring our brains, and making what we used to consider "normal societal experiences" seem boring and unrewarding in comparison.
It's a mixture of addiction and a fundamental misunderstanding of the parasocial nature of platforms like TikTok. Then you have kids who have been raised and babysat by iPads essentially from birth. And with AI, things are only going to get worse from here.
Let me give you a personal example. Before I was able to drive, I had a portable GPS. (It was a Bluetooth GPS module that I used with my PDA, if you remember those.) So from the moment I needed to understand navigation, I had something else doing the thinking for me. The result is that I have a shriveled up, underused hippocampus, and if you dropped me off 20 minutes from my own house without a phone, I'm not sure I'd be able to make it home without help. Now amplify that by 1000, and that's what kids today will be dealing with when it comes to creativity and problem solving.
I really think the future looks grim, but I hope I'm wrong.